so me and the hubby have been discussing the option of full swap and have agreed to go ahead but like most women I have my nerves and thoughts of what if the other person does it better or what if it feels wrong for me.. my main issue being is im a little jealous and the thought of someone touching my man does excite me a little but also annoys me.. just looking to see if anyone else had these thoughts or if im just crazy  |
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I don’t think that’s an unusual thing to think when you are pondering it. When it happens, in the same room, it’s something you share together... doesn’t really feel like two separate things if you see what I mean?
We like to play with each other a bit, as well well as another couple and this will help give a bit of reassurance if either of you need it. |
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When we decided we were going to full swap I found the idea exciting. Not at any time was I worried feeling negative about seeing him with someone else.
If you are concerned about feeling something negative then I'd wait until you've worked out what it is you're concerned about and decide if its something that will affect you afterwards. If you think it won't affect your relationship after then give it a try. If you're unsure, then wait.
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Yeah! Thank you! Got everyone saying we need to make sure we’re a strong couple which we are I just have so many what If thoughts.. if I didn’t feel ready to do it I wouldn’t be thinking of doing it.. think that it’s the initial thought that’s putting me on the sidelines x |
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We are a very very strong couple and i think the idea if it all turns me on more than id like to admit . I know it gets him going.
We have talked about it and both are keen to see where it takes us.i guess i just need to stop overthinking about it all and relax and take it all in my stride.i know that if i was not enjoying it i could tell him and he would be fine as hes honestly so supportive and caring that way . |
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"dont do it until your real sure your 100% with it, you have to be in a very very secure relationship first.. "
I think people can still have a secure relationship even if they don't want to swap partners |
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When married ( which makes this sound odd now), we enjoyed a very health sex life which included full swap with other couples and visors to clubs. We went together, and came home together, worked well for us. |
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The thing to remember is everyone is different and in sex a connection with someone is probably a much more important thing. In fact the connection after we have full swapped... And we have sex after is normally amazing. I think everyone has that worry about it but the way we think about it. Is it's just different. It's not better. Just a change of scenery or a different experience. If it was a worse experience and you wanted them to be worse than you at every aspect it wouldn't really have much purpose in doing it. So whilst She may do things differently to you it's still you he's coming home with... besides men compare things as equal if not more than women and there's as much chance the other guy may be an amazing performer too... It goes both ways in full swap xx |
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