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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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could some of you spare couple of mins to look at pur profile,and tell us where we are going wrong.
we have been on here a while now,and are getting nowhere fast. |
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8 weeks... 
So you have been on for 2 months and people are not leaping into bed with you...swinging is about great sex not a quick fuck.
As for your profile...If after reading it,spellchecking and thought about the impression you want to convey that is the best representation of you both, leave it as it is.
(Yes i know i'm stealing this advice from fabio but i have decided he is right) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(Yes i know i'm stealing this advice from fabio but i have decided he is right)"
Shhhh don't tell him that 
Socials, clubs and being active on forums and presumably chat helps a lot too. |
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"could some of you spare couple of mins to look at pur profile,and tell us where we are going wrong.
we have been on here a while now,and are getting nowhere fast."
well you say you only play with couples because its only fair and you;re not looking for singlw guys yet your only veris are from a single guy. There is fun to be had with a single guy and both get something out of it - but I wouldnt give up there's lots of genuine nice people on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might help if you rewrite your profile using correct spelling and grammar. Don't get me wrong it doesn't need to be perfect but it's nice when people make the effort not to use text speak etc. |
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I wouldnt dream of asking someone to look at our profile through a forum as you are opening yourself up for allsorts of replies
Some you may not like
If someone is interetsed in you im sure they will look and reply if interested
If not then dont wory about it
You can always go to a club and meet people there
good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes us a long time to be comfortable with a guy and tend to chat for quite a while then meet for a drink before thinking of fun.You just need to be patient and most people on here do want to meet. There are a few time wasters and pic collectors. Hopefully you will get the meets you want soon. |
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"could some of you spare couple of mins to look at pur profile,and tell us where we are going wrong.
we have been on here a while now,and are getting nowhere fast."
Hi there, from one couple to another and after reading you profile here are our thoughts.
1) 'Giving up soon' - Your strapline sends out negative vibes and frustration straight away.
2) You have only been on here 8 weeks and if you find that a long time to get any meets then try 6 months or longer. Having patience is the key and ensuring you have the correct filters set on your profile.
3) If you cannot afford to go clubs then look out for social meets in pubs or if someone is having a 'house party'.
4)We agree with text speak, it is so annoying and very off putting.
5)When messaging couples make sure there is something you both have of similar interest. We get lots of couples messaging who have just looked at our pics or seen us on cam and not read profile.
6)Finally - your profile is your selling tool to grab peoples attention. Right now as it stands we would just simply move on. Make it sound fun  |
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By *essesCouple
over a year ago
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Your profile needs some work on it. Telling people, that if after chatting they don't want to meet you means they are collectors, is enough to put us off, as we like to chat to see if we we will get on!
Also as the female of a couple I like to see body pics of the man and think close up genital shots of either are best left in your private folder.
Good luck
Lisa
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"okies thanks to all who took the time to offer help and suggestions.i am gonna write a new one,and keep my fingers crossed.xxxx"
The main problem couples have meeting couples, so I am told, is that all 4 have to like eachother for it to work or even to arrange a meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes,we do find that if jim likes the lady,i am not keen on the chap.heck.by the way,i have rewritten our profile,hope it sounds nicer than the last one,and gives out all the right vibes. |
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"yes,we do find that if jim likes the lady,i am not keen on the chap.heck.by the way,i have rewritten our profile,hope it sounds nicer than the last one,and gives out all the right vibes."
i would have passed the previous profile by, this one is inviting...good luck |
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"yes,we do find that if jim likes the lady,i am not keen on the chap.heck.by the way,i have rewritten our profile,hope it sounds nicer than the last one,and gives out all the right vibes."
Much better profile sounds fun and inviting xx good luck with the new one |
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