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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my husband are looking for separate playmates and found that if a woman wants to find a man they get a lot of offers from single men but women seem to be less inclined to get involved in this arrangement. Am I wrong in thinking there is a mentality difference between men playing alone and women? |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"Nobody believes the man has permission, nobody cares whether the woman does or not.
Alot of double standards imo. Shame really"
I don't think it's double standards, more than women and men think differently maybe. |
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"I met a man by myself with the wifes permission but knew them both beforehand"
If i had not known the wife then i would have asked for a social with them both first just to confirm all was ok with the female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't look for separate meets as a couple as i would imagine it's impossible to get a single female off here for the fella with being a couple, plus he'd be too bloody fussy if they did lol. |
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"We get that the demand is low, its more the oh really messages you get even with a verified profile"
Tbh there are so many guys who say they have permission to play separately when clearly they don't, that I can easily understand why a lot of people are skeptical. |
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I won't privately meet couples together or separately anymore, too much hassle and too much drama.
Had met a couple of male halves of couples privately in the past having met or spoken to their wives already but things get complicated where the wife doesn't want me to see their husband anymore and I'm not doing anything but fucking them.
I prefer to meet them at a party or club but even then I've seen drama with couples at clubs, it's horrible being in a private room with a couple and them arguing about you or something. Fuck that 
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In the most basic animal terms as a m_mber of the Ape family;
Male of the species is there populate and copulate. Only the strongest genies allow the survival of the species.
A female of the species is there to produce babies and nuture young.
Only when in season she will mate.
Humans are more evolved than this, however the male is still a basic sperm bucket!!
Woman control the when and were and how!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I won't privately meet couples together or separately anymore, too much hassle and too much drama.
Had met a couple of male halves of couples privately in the past having met or spoken to their wives already but things get complicated where the wife doesn't want me to see their husband anymore and I'm not doing anything but fucking them.
I prefer to meet them at a party or club but even then I've seen drama with couples at clubs, it's horrible being in a private room with a couple and them arguing about you or something. Fuck that
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Shame bad experiences have deterred you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've never met a couple but would be more inclined to meet the female without the male not the other way around, not sure why
Maybe because as someone said earlier there are way more men that women so it's easier to get a man than it is a woman so some people bend their preferences in women whereas they dont have to with men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't privately meet couples together or separately anymore, too much hassle and too much drama.
Had met a couple of male halves of couples privately in the past having met or spoken to their wives already but things get complicated where the wife doesn't want me to see their husband anymore and I'm not doing anything but fucking them.
I prefer to meet them at a party or club but even then I've seen drama with couples at clubs, it's horrible being in a private room with a couple and them arguing about you or something. Fuck that
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I hear a lot about jealousy with couples in this kind of situation, I can be off putting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To be honest the problem we find with meeting other couples is that we never find full mutual attraction. In the meets we have had so far there is always 1 person that isn't feeling it. We still look at couples but thought if we can find singles we like we are not tied down to meeting someone 1 of us is not attracted to |
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My husband and I have experienced this often. It's a shame because he really is a good fuck.. but I also get alot of shame from men accusing me of cheating (my man has a profile of his own as well), we ended up finding a couple that liked to play and do solo, it was a great scenario. To bad they moved.. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Me and my husband are looking for separate playmates and found that if a woman wants to find a man they get a lot of offers from single men but women seem to be less inclined to get involved in this arrangement. Am I wrong in thinking there is a mentality difference between men playing alone and women?"
So maybe have a social with three of you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I won't privately meet couples together or separately anymore, too much hassle and too much drama.
Had met a couple of male halves of couples privately in the past having met or spoken to their wives already but things get complicated where the wife doesn't want me to see their husband anymore and I'm not doing anything but fucking them.
I prefer to meet them at a party or club but even then I've seen drama with couples at clubs, it's horrible being in a private room with a couple and them arguing about you or something. Fuck that
Shame bad experiences have deterred you "
ahhhh but they are quite common i know two couples they same room swapped the two guys ended up in a naked punch up in a club   |
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And thats where the situation gets sticky as so many single men pose as couples to get to see the single ladies and when you ask for social out come the oh she is having lady problems or she is having a break from swinging ... blane these guys for ladies being suspicious |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Do you have single profiles?
There are more males on Fab than females so females are always going to find it easier. Your OH night find it easier to go to a club in his own to meet someone or use an App like Tinder or Bumble or MeetMe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alot if good points in here . But in saying that it feels like unless there a written agreement between partners and said single women they tend to sometimes think its fake or a single guy trying his arm behind partners back . Roles rversed no one gives a hoot |
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