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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

So as a bigger build guy, I have been wondering for ages about where to find women who appreciate a fuller figured guy let's say! Not had any luck so far so wondered if anyone has any suggestions.

And if anyone has anything nice to say about larger guys that could be good - appreciate some people love a gym bunny but it takes all sorts and would be nice to hear from those that like a chubby guy!

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman  over a year ago

Midlothian

No suggestions, just offering some love to all you sexy chonky bois.

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!

Made me smile anyway. Thanks x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!

Made me smile anyway. Thanks x"

Do you approach women with similar build to your own? And they're not interested? It's 10 to 1 for women. We have alot of choice so you need to stand out of the crowd. I never reply to shallow messages where they clearly haven't read my profile and just want a quick screw with anyone who says yes

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By *toC Thats MeWoman  over a year ago

Sheffield

Personally love a chubby guy, dad bod, bigger build

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By *bwitchedWoman  over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire

Tall, chunky men are definitely my preference x

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!

Made me smile anyway. Thanks x

Do you approach women with similar build to your own? And they're not interested? It's 10 to 1 for women. We have alot of choice so you need to stand out of the crowd. I never reply to shallow messages where they clearly haven't read my profile and just want a quick screw with anyone who says yes"

Yeah I do approach women with a similar build as well as others, but to be honest I need to get better at approaching them in general. Quite a lot of profiles seem that they would never be interested and maybe even a bit intimidating. I just think id never have a chance and then don't bother. But yeah I know it's important to stand out - working on that too!

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"Tall, chunky men are definitely my preference x"

Well that's good to hear! I'm 6"2 and would definitely say I'm chunky. I've lost a lot of weight this past year and still working on it but I'm a big build guy and think I will always be on the chunkier end!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Stay strong dude there are a few ladies who like chubby chaps like ourselves. But like it's been said earlier you need to show them ya not another quick fumble chasing cockwomble like 80 percent of the guys on here

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By *az080378Woman  over a year ago

Cromer

Big guys with a big belly are my favourite

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple  over a year ago

Hartlepool

Absolutely love dad bods and chubby guys.

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"Personally love a chubby guy, dad bod, bigger build "

Good to know. Amazing photos by the way...

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"Big guys with a big belly are my favourite "

Excellent news! Seems there are ladies around who like bodies like mine. Must just be my face putting you all off then!

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"Absolutely love dad bods and chubby guys."

Nice. You're not too far away as well! Love the sound of your profile. Absolutely love the idea of a game of cards against humanity as an icebreaker!

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple  over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Absolutely love dad bods and chubby guys.

Nice. You're not too far away as well! Love the sound of your profile. Absolutely love the idea of a game of cards against humanity as an icebreaker!

"

It's the best icebreaker. Can't be shy after a game of CAH

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"Absolutely love dad bods and chubby guys.

Nice. You're not too far away as well! Love the sound of your profile. Absolutely love the idea of a game of cards against humanity as an icebreaker!

It's the best icebreaker. Can't be shy after a game of CAH"

Yeah I've played a card game with a couple as an icebreaker at a meet which was a lot of fun but definitely think CAH would be a lot better!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Big guys with a big belly are my favourite "

Same here

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

Awesome. Also not too far away...

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman  over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Taller than me with love handled

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman  over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS


"Taller than me with love handled "

Even handles

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman  over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS


"Taller than me with love handled "

Even handles

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jason Leonard or Jason momoa for me..

So must be bigger than me

Chest bigger than mine.

Not into skinner or slim men.

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

Haha - Jason Leonard is doable. Although I do often get told I look like Jason mamoa .

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By *rcadian110Couple  over a year ago

Barnsley

I get told I look like momoa . The did keep hitting my shins with a stick while I was petting their dog but I'm counting it as a win.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got told I look like rag n bone man

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By *ogisticalBigManMan  over a year ago

Sheffield

Been told I look like a few people in my time.

Mikey from American Chopper was one. Which isn't too bad since I do like bikes (can't ride one but still)

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds


"I get told I look like momoa . The did keep hitting my shins with a stick while I was petting their dog but I'm counting it as a win. "

Oh sounds like the same person as said that to me. They were so lovely. They did nearly trip me up with that stick. The dog looked so good in that little jacket as well.

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By *hloevtTV/TS  over a year ago

norwich

Sorry I ain't no lady but I love sex with larger men.

The feeling of a larger man on me is a little controlling and feels rather comfortable x

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

Well its good to feel comfortable. At long as you don't feel squashed.

Anyone up to anything exciting today?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"Big guys with a big belly are my favourite "

You don't look so bad yourself, Taz

Im in the same quandary as the OP, and need to find a woman who likes a big, hairy man

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

That's fine. I'm smooth all over so we're not competing for the same people at least!

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By *ameswilson1982Man  over a year ago

cheshire

Im a 6ft2 19 stone hairy rugby player. I hope some women prefer the bigger giy or im in trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are loads of us out here!!

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

So does anyone have any suggestions for groups/clubs or websites for you lovely ladies who like bigger guys?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yes please x

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By *igchilledguy OP   Man  over a year ago

North Leeds

Morning all. Its been really encouraging reading the positive things on here so just wanted to spread some more love this Friday morning and see if there are any more women who like a fuller figured man?! (especially in the North!!)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love this thread . 6ft2 big welshman here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a shame so many big men, label themselves as 'average' on their profile. I presume they do this because they think that saying they are large will put women off, when in reality it means that they are missing their target audience.

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By *litstimulousMan  over a year ago

Swindon


"Thanks very much. Not many people on here yet but hope they get the message!

Made me smile anyway. Thanks x

Do you approach women with similar build to your own? And they're not interested? It's 10 to 1 for women. We have alot of choice so you need to stand out of the crowd. I never reply to shallow messages where they clearly haven't read my profile and just want a quick screw with anyone who says yes"

When I messaged you with a polite "Hello we're close if you're interested I'd love to go for a mtb ride" the message was just deleted. Yes you're correct the men outnumber the woman on here and I can only imagine the bombardment of messages from illiterate idiots (I get my fair share of one liners from guys) but I'm fed up with most women's attitude if they're not interested the delete button is an easier option than a simple reply back saying not interested. I'd even feel less offended by "fuck off, you're not my type".

I read every profile I find interesting (on couples profiles if they state 'not interested in single guys' I bypass them) before I look at the photos then re read before I consider sending a message. I really think most single women join here love the fact they get lots of attention and it inflates their egos. If anyone knows any other 'discreet' sites that don't want all your personal details and a credit/debit card payment where women are looking for real discreetful casual reliable one off or regular meets please let me know.

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By *rcadian110Couple  over a year ago

Barnsley

For us it seems that a lot are interested in Rhiannon but not in me. Big girls get lots of attention but us big guys seem to be a turn off. We get invited to chat or for socials then people go quiet and make excuses. We understand if your not interested but it's nicer to say than keep someone hanging. And those who do continue to chat are "willing to take one for the team" to get to rhi. It's quite deflating for both of us. Ok I'm big but I don't think I'm that bad looking and from our verifications people seem to like our personalities combined so we don't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a shame so many big men, label themselves as 'average' on their profile. I presume they do this because they think that saying they are large will put women off, when in reality it means that they are missing their target audience."
well i'm proud to class myself as large .

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By *aven RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

I like dad bod types x

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By *luttonousGirlTV/TS  over a year ago

Consett

I love fats of all sizes but my preferences are people around 400 lbs going upward and a smooth body. The bigger they are the more I want to play with their beautiful hangs and rolls

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By *orello-pieWoman  over a year ago

southwest


"So as a bigger build guy, I have been wondering for ages about where to find women who appreciate a fuller figured guy let's say! Not had any luck so far so wondered if anyone has any suggestions.

And if anyone has anything nice to say about larger guys that could be good - appreciate some people love a gym bunny but it takes all sorts and would be nice to hear from those that like a chubby guy! "

Personally this kind of man is far more alluring to me , so sexy x

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By *pples1992Woman  over a year ago

Burton Upon Trent

Hi I love bhms and I really want proper fat sex and I'm not ashamed to say it

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By *he James gangCouple  over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"Morning all. Its been really encouraging reading the positive things on here so just wanted to spread some more love this Friday morning and see if there are any more women who like a fuller figured man?! (especially in the North!!) "

Hold on there big fella, before I looked at your profile I was expecting dainty golightly's brother. Your normal, average, no problem. If you were in our age range and closer, we'd meet you.

F&J x

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By *romsgrove1Man  over a year ago

bromsgrove

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By *romsgrove1Man  over a year ago

bromsgrove

BHM here if anyone fancies a chat

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman  over a year ago

Banbury

I love big handsome guys.

The bigger the better for me. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I love big handsome guys.

The bigger the better for me. Xx "

Same

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By *iking-RaiderMan  over a year ago

suffolk

Dad bods are the way forward haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like big guys too.

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By *romsgrove1Man  over a year ago

bromsgrove

Anyone chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Rugby build preferred .. so happy with big bods

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By *amseMan  over a year ago

birmingham

I also fund it very hard to meet women. I’m well built and I don’t do well on pictures at all. However the few times I have meet the impression can be different and clear that I’m also a strong man. So any tips to take good pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I love big handsome guys.

The bigger the better for me. Xx "

hope for me yet haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Big guys with a big belly are my favourite "

That's me! I have very lean arms and legs but big belly - drives me mad lol.

BUT - have lost 6kg in 2 months and soon it'll be gone forever

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By *s Fussy BiatchWoman  over a year ago

Club Play

Not all ladies like these skinny abbed guys ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not all ladies like these skinny abbed guys ... "

Oh, I'll never have a six-pack but I just want to be without this massive 'beer belly' thing

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By *romsgrove1Man  over a year ago

bromsgrove


"Not all ladies like these skinny abbed guys ... "

Need more like you i say lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not all ladies like these skinny abbed guys ... "

Very true xx

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By *toC Thats MeWoman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Not all ladies like these skinny abbed guys ... "

Also true x

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By *ccyladMan  over a year ago

Accrington

Maybe could help with your wanting

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman  over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Haven't had a big build guy like forever. I never seem to meet them

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By *BW.EvaWoman  over a year ago

Carrington, Manchester

I have been a BBW all my adult life, and am afraid of skinny guys. I am drawn to the rugby player build. Also drawn to taller guys. Like a guy to be taller than me when I am in heels.

Also love hairy guys, facial hair, body hair - makes me weak at the knees.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haven't had a big build guy like forever. I never seem to meet them "

Far too few of them in clubs

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By *ust.me22Man  over a year ago

Toon


"Haven't had a big build guy like forever. I never seem to meet them

Far too few of them in clubs "

Which club do you go to I need a visit lol

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By *sBlueWoman  over a year ago

Up North

I like a chunky guy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Haven't had a big build guy like forever. I never seem to meet them

Far too few of them in clubs

Which club do you go to I need a visit lol "

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan  over a year ago

Coventry

I've never found my robust build to be a barrier on the scene to be honest. Taste is subjective of course and my built is not everyones cup of tea (and likewise men of other builds will say the same). But never found my build or size to be unusually off putting or undesirable.

It's hard on here for all guys. Often I think guys tend to incorrectly triaging the causes of their woes on here when they blame their bodies.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple  over a year ago

Weymouth

Far prefer chunky/big build fellows! Generally anyone taller/stronger/larger than me makes me melt - Xeno x

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By *orphia2003Woman  over a year ago

Tonypandy.

As I plus sized woman, lot of the guys I seem to be attracted to send to be chunky / dad bod. But I like people irrelevant of body shape.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS  over a year ago

Maidstone


"I have been a BBW all my adult life, and am afraid of skinny guys. I am drawn to the rugby player build. Also drawn to taller guys. Like a guy to be taller than me when I am in heels.

Also love hairy guys, facial hair, body hair - makes me weak at the knees.

"

Please form an orderly queue madam!

I'm so with you babes... I recently had a handsome hung guy but he was slim... Nay, skinny!

When I hauled my big thighs and ass over his hips to ride him... I was convinced his bones will just snap and crumble ...

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