I recently had a conversation with a friend, who had no sex for 5 years and they are married. No idea if he or she is cheating as I know they definitely not Swingers.
But my question is do you know anyone who doesn't have sex for a long time? Or doesn't enjoy sex that they stopped doing it?
Anyone you know are born again virgins??    |
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By *rinity666Man
over a year ago
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Yes we have a female friend of ours whos not had sex in 7 years since she and her hubbie broke up.. she yearns for it but is putting out all the wrong vibes..to pardon the pun..we ve tried to help arrange dates but its all been a failure..shes coming to terms with the fact it may never happen.. we keep our fingers crossed.. she believes she is Asexual now ...no desire to follow up on anything. |
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over a year ago
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My ex didn't want sex with me (told me no one would want sex with me because i was undesirable) i went without for many years.
Luckily my (now) hubby likes sex with me  |
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"I recently had a conversation with a friend, who had no sex for 5 years and they are married. No idea if he or she is cheating as I know they definitely not Swingers.
But my question is do you know anyone who doesn't have sex for a long time? Or doesn't enjoy sex that they stopped doing it?
Anyone you know are born again virgins?? "
It's not that uncommon. |
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I think there is a lot of it, a lot more than people imagine. One woman we met here had not had sex with her husband (or anyone else) for well over 5 years. She said they had had an argument, she wasn't sure what it is she'd said because he wouldn't discuss it (any part of it) but that was that - no more sex ever.
A failry couple who posed as Mr & Mrs Very Contented haven't had sex in over a decade- he's definitely not contented about it and they don't advertise the fact that they just don't. (He was flying a flag for Dead French Girlfriend for years, before the Big Off Switch, which may account for it).
So no, not uncommon I think. It's just that when you aren't you imagine everyone else is at it like rabbits. |
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My wife's fuckbuddy is married and his wife stopped having sex with him, just told him she not interested anymore, she quite open about it, and knows he gets it else where, was talking with him and he said maybe he should have got her into swinging, when I told him it revamped our sex life, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the reason I've joined Fabswingers. My wife & I had sex twice last year! But we have a happy, loving, caring marriage of over 35 years. As someone said, or words to the effect, the less you do it the less you want it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have friends who haven't even slept in the same bed for several years. They have a great marriage otherwise & are both happy with the situation. "
At least we sleep together & cuddle. |
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I (Luke) started swinging because my wife would only have sex with me once a year at most. She told me I wasn't going to get it from her so I might as well get it somewhere else.
I resisted at first because I didn't want to damage the relationship. She got even more shitty with me than usual if I suggested we have sex after that and told me she had already told to go elsewhere.
I started going to clubs occasionally and found a swinging partner. Then my wife got pissed off with me for getting action with somebody else.
We're not married any more. Irreconcilable differences.  |
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"My ex didn't want sex with me (told me no one would want sex with me because i was undesirable) i went without for many years.
Luckily my (now) hubby likes sex with me "
boooo to those people who say narcissistic comments. I met them types and they feed you lies, trying to control you. Good to hear you came out the other end and found love. yay  |
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"I recently had a conversation with a friend, who had no sex for 5 years and they are married. No idea if he or she is cheating as I know they definitely not Swingers.
But my question is do you know anyone who doesn't have sex for a long time? Or doesn't enjoy sex that they stopped doing it?
Anyone you know are born again virgins?? It's not that uncommon."
Not doubting it's uncommon. I know from first hand about it and how it can destroy relationships. But my male friends tell me how important it is for relationships to stay together. it's good to hear people stay together regardless of not having sex |
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"My wife's fuckbuddy is married and his wife stopped having sex with him, just told him she not interested anymore, she quite open about it, and knows he gets it else where, was talking with him and he said maybe he should have got her into swinging, when I told him it revamped our sex life, "
I don't think that would suddenly make her interested in sex again |
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"My ex didn't want sex with me (told me no one would want sex with me because i was undesirable) i went without for many years.
Luckily my (now) hubby likes sex with me
boooo to those people who say narcissistic comments. I met them types and they feed you lies, trying to control you. Good to hear you came out the other end and found love. yay "
Thank you i met my (now) hubby while swinging, we have a great life x |
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When the sex goes it’s an indication of something being wrong. We all have periods of illness , tiredness, stress from work and kids can make things difficult but in general if it’s not happening at least 2-3 times a week something deeper isn’t quite right |
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this was us at one point. Lost all mojo after first child. Totally lost interest in sex would happen once every few months. I could take it or leave it. No idea why. Probably mentally and physically exhausted.
We now have 2 children.
Fast forward to now and the last 8 months have been like a flick has been switched. It went to several times a day and now has evened out to 5 or 6 days a week.
No idea why the change just glad Mr never left me  |
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"When the sex goes it’s an indication of something being wrong. We all have periods of illness , tiredness, stress from work and kids can make things difficult but in general if it’s not happening at least 2-3 times a week something deeper isn’t quite right "
I don't think you can say how many times a week couples should be having sex. Some people are happy with once a month while some are happy with once a day. It's only a problem in my opinion when a once a day person is in a relationship with a once a month person. |
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Occasionally we’ve met someone in a club who, er, appears, to have a great time, sociable, sexy fun etc, but they’ve also said they haven’t had sex for months or years, and then afterwards we may not see them again for a year or more. That does see a bit strange to us.
It’s a bit like when Chris plays golf with someone who says they’re just getting back into it and haven’t played for years. Chris can’t get his head around anyone willingly stopping playing golf. |
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Broke up with hubby at 26. Couple of fumbles the following year then i didnt have sex from when i was 28 till i was 34...6 years. But to be honest, i had no idea what i was missing anyway! Wasnt untill then i discovered the good stuff lol |
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"Occasionally we’ve met someone in a club who, er, appears, to have a great time, sociable, sexy fun etc, but they’ve also said they haven’t had sex for months or years, and then afterwards we may not see them again for a year or more. That does see a bit strange to us.
It’s a bit like when Chris plays golf with someone who says they’re just getting back into it and haven’t played for years. Chris can’t get his head around anyone willingly stopping playing golf."
my sexless love life wasn't out of choice this year... government decision  |
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"Broke up with hubby at 26. Couple of fumbles the following year then i didnt have sex from when i was 28 till i was 34...6 years. But to be honest, i had no idea what i was missing anyway! Wasnt untill then i discovered the good stuff lol "
I think that maybe true with some people, I thought that when my friend told me. They publicly admitted they really weren't bothered. |
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over a year ago
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Similar situation to me me and wife had sex twice this year she list interest after a major illness 4yrs ago, that's why I'm on here but more chance of sex with wife again as soon as people see your married not interested. |
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I know a married couple who went 5.5 years without sex. Entirely her decision. Now divorced. She refuses to acknowledge that he did anything out of the ordinary by not cheating on her or give him any credit for it. She's absolutely dripping with entitlement. |
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"Broke up with hubby at 26. Couple of fumbles the following year then i didnt have sex from when i was 28 till i was 34...6 years. But to be honest, i had no idea what i was missing anyway! Wasnt untill then i discovered the good stuff lol
I really wasnt. I did have 2 kids under 2 when he left..but i had my couple of fumbles of after so, not being headed new i could if k really wanted lol, but i didnt wven think about. Or masturbate.
I think that maybe true with some people, I thought that when my friend told me. They publicly admitted they really weren't bothered. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently had a conversation with a friend, who had no sex for 5 years and they are married. No idea if he or she is cheating as I know they definitely not Swingers.
But my question is do you know anyone who doesn't have sex for a long time? Or doesn't enjoy sex that they stopped doing it?
Anyone you know are born again virgins?? "
Due to my stupid crush with chocolate and being a twat diabetic we havnt had sex as in full in sex in over ten years which is the main reason we are on here.
But we do have orgasms together most days!!!! Yay!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get a service fuck or hand once every 6 months.
I love my wife and we have been together 30 years but she has no desire, wants, or needs for sex.
I have been told to find it elsewhere but as I work for myself the market is very sparse.
During the pandemic it has been worse as I can't even have a flirt in the pub.
Being straight with people is the only policy but my word are these " liberal swingers" judgemental.
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"I recently had a conversation with a friend, who had no sex for 5 years and they are married. No idea if he or she is cheating as I know they definitely not Swingers.
But my question is do you know anyone who doesn't have sex for a long time? Or doesn't enjoy sex that they stopped doing it?
Anyone you know are born again virgins?? "
Me and my wife 5 years ago didn’t have sex. Due to a prick... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Was with my ex for nearly 5 years and she had no desire for sex I found it really hard to be with her as I have a high sex drive, in the end I even had to force her to kiss me it made me feel so worthless so had to end the relationship. Glad I did now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mate not had sex with his wife for 3 years but they happy with family life
He does wank alot tho
Thank god for the fleshlight invention? "
Fleshlight?? |
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"Was with my ex for nearly 5 years and she had no desire for sex I found it really hard to be with her as I have a high sex drive, in the end I even had to force her to kiss me it made me feel so worthless so had to end the relationship. Glad I did now "
hard? I would find that totally impossible and wouldn't stayed with someone like that for that long. Any future partner needs to be kinky as me or it just never work out. life too short to be miserable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have my best mate and his girlfriend don’t have sex for months he tells me she’s never in the mood or too tired been together 4 years and for the last few years he’s told me this |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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Whenever I get into a serious relationship I find that I am the one to lose my sexual appetite whereas they're gagging for it. Would rather watch a boxset or get some actual sleep. There was one person I was in a brief relationship with and I just always wanted to fuck her. But we only saw each other at weekends so I suppose that was a factor. If we lived together maybe it would have gone the same way. I do like boxsets and sleep though...
Night all zzzz... |
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