Pre-lockdown I found men were always trying to get me to go bareback, I'd enforce the condom issue and they'd still try and put it in without one - that stops all play as it shows total disrespect for me plus lands in the grey area of law as I consented to protected sex not unprotected! |
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"Just been told that im ‘strange’ for not wanting to do bareback with a couple on first meet.. thoughts?  "
Thats not strange your being careful ignore them your safety is your priority and if they dont understand that then clearly not worth meeting  |
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No. That's not strange.
Some people are up for it.
In my experience, most aren't willing to play bareback.
We don't and won't. No matter what.
Don't let anyone persuade you to do something you're not happy with.
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At the end of the day stuck to your guns, if it doesn't feel right then don't do it 