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"Does your wife know you are bi?" She started it! Lol | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge " On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction." Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males | |||
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"Mrs don’t know I’m on here or that I want nice hard cock in my mouth. " Do you feel bad hiding your bi side from your wife? | |||
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"Mrs don’t know I’m on here or that I want nice hard cock in my mouth. Do you feel bad hiding your bi side from your wife?" Must be like leading a double life? | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males" My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" | |||
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"Mine did Thankfully, I told her early on about my curiosity (and early life experiences) My honesty did, however, drive a wedge between us If, for any reason, I wasn't 'up for it' or 'couldn't rise to the occasion' it was pretty much always thrown back in my face and she wasn't afraid of telling me how bad it had made her feel I was never unfaithful, but it was sex that drove us apart as she used it to seek the approval of other men So, whilst honesty should always be a preferred course of action, that in itself may steer the relationship down a new road - and not always for the better" Ahh man, I'm really sorry to hear it went that way for you. I'd like to think it's rare that someone would react that way, but in truth I've no idea. My ex very much valued the 'typical' manly man - straight, alpha, and dominant, but wasn't open about it and that was part of the issue between us so I think that whilst it absolutely sucks that honesty caused issues for you, I wouldn't think doing it any differently in future would be beneficial. | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating"" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women. | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women." May I ask why? Just curious | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women." Because it made him 'less of a man'? Because the idea of male bi-sexuality is distasteful to you? Because you'd think you weren't what he REALLY wanted? | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women. May I ask why? Just curious "Because it would be as if our whole relationship was a lie. | |||
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"Mine did Thankfully, I told her early on about my curiosity (and early life experiences) My honesty did, however, drive a wedge between us If, for any reason, I wasn't 'up for it' or 'couldn't rise to the occasion' it was pretty much always thrown back in my face and she wasn't afraid of telling me how bad it had made her feel I was never unfaithful, but it was sex that drove us apart as she used it to seek the approval of other men So, whilst honesty should always be a preferred course of action, that in itself may steer the relationship down a new road - and not always for the better Ahh man, I'm really sorry to hear it went that way for you. I'd like to think it's rare that someone would react that way, but in truth I've no idea. My ex very much valued the 'typical' manly man - straight, alpha, and dominant, but wasn't open about it and that was part of the issue between us so I think that whilst it absolutely sucks that honesty caused issues for you, I wouldn't think doing it any differently in future would be beneficial. " I wouldn't change a thing If she wanted a man who lived in the shadows to suit her own ideals, then we weren't suited If she wanted a man too 'scared' to share his sexual thoughts and his emotional / sexual dilemma, then we weren't well suited We had a ball for 7 years - I look at that and not the shit times that reared up on the odd occasion I was too tired, too pissed or too wrapped up in 'life' to be wanting and enjoying sex | |||
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"Mine did Thankfully, I told her early on about my curiosity (and early life experiences) My honesty did, however, drive a wedge between us If, for any reason, I wasn't 'up for it' or 'couldn't rise to the occasion' it was pretty much always thrown back in my face and she wasn't afraid of telling me how bad it had made her feel I was never unfaithful, but it was sex that drove us apart as she used it to seek the approval of other men So, whilst honesty should always be a preferred course of action, that in itself may steer the relationship down a new road - and not always for the better Ahh man, I'm really sorry to hear it went that way for you. I'd like to think it's rare that someone would react that way, but in truth I've no idea. My ex very much valued the 'typical' manly man - straight, alpha, and dominant, but wasn't open about it and that was part of the issue between us so I think that whilst it absolutely sucks that honesty caused issues for you, I wouldn't think doing it any differently in future would be beneficial. I wouldn't change a thing If she wanted a man who lived in the shadows to suit her own ideals, then we weren't suited If she wanted a man too 'scared' to share his sexual thoughts and his emotional / sexual dilemma, then we weren't well suited We had a ball for 7 years - I look at that and not the shit times that reared up on the odd occasion I was too tired, too pissed or too wrapped up in 'life' to be wanting and enjoying sex" I really applaud the maturity and level headed in that, and I'm equally glad it hasn't in any way put you off being yourself  | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women. May I ask why? Just curious
Because it would be as if our whole relationship was a lie. "If he's bi, that doesn't have any bearing on how he does or doesn't feel about you though? I mean sure it's absolutely cheating and definitely wrong, but it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't still love and care for you. | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women. May I ask why? Just curious
Because it would be as if our whole relationship was a lie.
If he's bi, that doesn't have any bearing on how he does or doesn't feel about you though? I mean sure it's absolutely cheating and definitely wrong, but it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't still love and care for you. "My hubby came out to me as bi ,long story but he has no intention of setting up home with a guy im his main focus and his life ,but doesnt mean we cant be on here for mutually agreed fun .. | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? " This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. " So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship" Yes I would, and have. V x | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males My ex said the following to me "I don't care if it's a woman or a man, cheating is cheating" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women. May I ask why? Just curious
Because it would be as if our whole relationship was a lie.
If he's bi, that doesn't have any bearing on how he does or doesn't feel about you though? I mean sure it's absolutely cheating and definitely wrong, but it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't still love and care for you. My hubby came out to me as bi ,long story but he has no intention of setting up home with a guy im his main focus and his life ,but doesnt mean we cant be on here for mutually agreed fun ..". You guys have got it sorted lol | |||
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" Yes she Knows.. We have no secrets. life is much more simple that way..." And that is the way it should be. | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship" . I don't know, I can understand where bluebell is coming from with the "living a lie" thing, I would say though that "curiosity" can come later in life to many | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship . I don't know, I can understand where bluebell is coming from with the "living a lie" thing, I would say though that "curiosity" can come later in life to many "I'm not out to demonise anyone, let alone the OP We all draw our lines in the sand in different places That's what makes life a true dynamic | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship . I don't know, I can understand where bluebell is coming from with the "living a lie" thing, I would say though that "curiosity" can come later in life to many
"Yes, our society does have a tendency to cause blokes to bury this element of themselves (if it's there). Later as we mature and become more confident in ourselves, and place in the world. We can be braver about not being in the "normal" group (which of course does not really exist anyway)! ;-) | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship . I don't know, I can understand where bluebell is coming from with the "living a lie" thing, I would say though that "curiosity" can come later in life to many
I'm not out to demonise anyone, let alone the OP
We all draw our lines in the sand in different places
That's what makes life a true dynamic". No didn't think you were demonising lol, it's just an interesting topic of discussion tbh | |||
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside." Guilt, shame, embarrassment, and denial were the cocktail of emotions I had (and still have) to a degree surrounding my curious tendencies. Almost certainly social stigma (or at least the fear of it). | |||
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"Yes we share cock together x"Couples who play together, stay together, or so the saying goes | |||
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"Yes we share cock together x
Couples who play together, stay together, or so the saying goes "Haha indeed, we play lots together x | |||
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside. Guilt, shame, embarrassment, and denial were the cocktail of emotions I had (and still have) to a degree surrounding my curious tendencies. Almost certainly social stigma (or at least the fear of it). " . If it helps, the older you get the less you give a monkeys what others think | |||
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside." I can only speak from personal experience 99.9% of the time it wasn't a factor Then a trigger, maybe seeing a good looking guy getting hot & sticky on the TV, and it would yet again be in the forefront of my mind for a few days I did tinker with lads when I was a teenager and the experience never left my head Undoubtedly, there are unhappy men out there and unhappy wives who suffer as a result, but most just get on with life and seldom, if ever, act on their curiosity - or, if they do, they wait til they are single to test it out There are also women who positively encourage it  | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Yes and is happy that I’m open about my sexuality with her. | |||
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"Yes we share cock together x
Couples who play together, stay together, or so the saying goes
Haha indeed, we play lots together x"C and I wouldn't mind a little play either  | |||
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"the other way of looking at it is: if your husband is cheating with another women then you are not satisfying him sexually if he is cheating with a man perhaps he needs something you cant give? This is true but i would always wonder if he ever wanted to be with me in the first place or just done what was expected of him. So, putting a little spin on this... would you go into a relationship with a guy knowing he was bi, or would his craving for an occasional bit of cock just put you off right from the start? I only ask because, reading between the lines, it sounds like a little bit of your brain tells you that there is no such thing as a bi-man, just a load of gays who are in denial and seek the conformity of a straight relationship . I don't know, I can understand where bluebell is coming from with the "living a lie" thing, I would say though that "curiosity" can come later in life to many
Yes, our society does have a tendency to cause blokes to bury this element of themselves (if it's there).
Later as we mature and become more confident in ourselves, and place in the world. We can be braver about not being in the "normal" group (which of course does not really exist anyway)!
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside. Guilt, shame, embarrassment, and denial were the cocktail of emotions I had (and still have) to a degree surrounding my curious tendencies. Almost certainly social stigma (or at least the fear of it). . If it helps, the older you get the less you give a monkeys what others think "Well, I'm quite fortunate to have found kink and swinging relatively young so I guess that's a big help. If I'm honest though I find the kink world ridiculously accepting (to the point of absurdity), but the swinging world is a lot more opinionated  | |||
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside. Guilt, shame, embarrassment, and denial were the cocktail of emotions I had (and still have) to a degree surrounding my curious tendencies. Almost certainly social stigma (or at least the fear of it). . If it helps, the older you get the less you give a monkeys what others think
Well, I'm quite fortunate to have found kink and swinging relatively young so I guess that's a big help. If I'm honest though I find the kink world ridiculously accepting (to the point of absurdity), but the swinging world is a lot more opinionated ". You sound pretty level headed anyway lol, we're not exactly experienced but we've found folks in both worlds (in clubs) to be just the friendliest bunch of people you could hope for
We did find on kink nights, everything seems to be more laid back and relaxed though lol | |||
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside. Guilt, shame, embarrassment, and denial were the cocktail of emotions I had (and still have) to a degree surrounding my curious tendencies. Almost certainly social stigma (or at least the fear of it). . If it helps, the older you get the less you give a monkeys what others think
Well, I'm quite fortunate to have found kink and swinging relatively young so I guess that's a big help. If I'm honest though I find the kink world ridiculously accepting (to the point of absurdity), but the swinging world is a lot more opinionated
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You sound pretty level headed anyway lol, we're not exactly experienced but we've found folks in both worlds (in clubs) to be just the friendliest bunch of people you could hope for
We did find on kink nights, everything seems to be more laid back and relaxed though lol "Oh absolutely. In terms of how friendly and accepting I personally find people, vanilla folk are the worst by far
We've only been to a few clubs, but the Attic on party nights is outstanding. It's such a good laugh - like going out on the town, only with considerably fewer of the idiots looking to cause trouble, and everyone is liberally-minded. That and good grief there's some hot bodies about the place
Ahh why did I have to go and reminisce? Now I'm missing it all over again | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge" Yes she does.....but does’nt want to see it so I am careful not to be too obvious | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Yes | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Yes my wife is aware and is fully supportive. | |||
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" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women." That's the opposite to what my Mrs said. | |||
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"i was married to a secretly gay man who kept it hidden from me.when i found out(after we had been married 8 years,and had a son together). i kicked him out. But before i did i found the man my ex was seeing and got him to come back to my home with me to confront my ex husband who was home from work having he's tea.the look on my ex'es face said it all. He left that same evening. We are long divorced." Obviously I don't know the circumstances but that snapshot sounds unnecessarily mean and vindictive. | |||
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"i was married to a secretly gay man who kept it hidden from me.when i found out(after we had been married 8 years,and had a son together). i kicked him out. But before i did i found the man my ex was seeing and got him to come back to my home with me to confront my ex husband who was home from work having he's tea.the look on my ex'es face said it all. He left that same evening. We are long divorced. Obviously I don't know the circumstances but that snapshot sounds unnecessarily mean and vindictive." he lied to me making me believe he was straight. How should have i reacted then? | |||
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" Yes she Knows.. We have no secrets. life is much more simple that way... And that is the way it should be." I am not convinced that life/ sexuality is that simple. | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Yes the wife knows, we're in fact both Bi, we both a singles profile and a couples profile... we do find a lot of women aren't interested and are turned off by Bi guys... | |||
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" If i were married i think it would hurt me more knowing that my husband had been having sexual encounters with a male rather than a women. That's the opposite to what my Mrs said." It’s so interesting that what unites us to be in a place like this also has so many different unique perspectives. I’m the exact opposite too. Loved my ex boyfriend meeting men. (but then again I loved him meeting any variety of humans)
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"My honesty did, however, drive a wedge between us" I dont currently have a partner, but have experienced this too so keep it quiet unless I think its going to be welcome news | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males" I get loads of messages from males looking for bi fun even though my profile says I’m straight.........the fact is some Men would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping long enough ! | |||
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"Define "bi". I love to suck and wank cock and love to get a faceful of hot spunk. I look at women and girls in the street or in the pub and lust after them .However I have NEVER looked at a guy and thought that." I would define bi as someone who engages in sexual activities with someone of the same sex. Feel feee to correct me if i am wrong. | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males I get loads of messages from males looking for bi fun even though my profile says I’m straight.........the fact is some Men would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping long enough ! "So long as they didn't do it in their car.. They might get toad away... Sorry, I'll get me coat | |||
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"Define "bi". I love to suck and wank cock and love to get a faceful of hot spunk. I look at women and girls in the street or in the pub and lust after them .However I have NEVER looked at a guy and thought that. I would define bi as someone who engages in sexual activities with someone of the same sex. Feel feee to correct me if i am wrong." Think you'll find bi is having sex with both sexes bi meaning two  | |||
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"i was married to a secretly gay man who kept it hidden from me.when i found out(after we had been married 8 years,and had a son together). i kicked him out. But before i did i found the man my ex was seeing and got him to come back to my home with me to confront my ex husband who was home from work having he's tea.the look on my ex'es face said it all. He left that same evening. We are long divorced. Obviously I don't know the circumstances but that snapshot sounds unnecessarily mean and vindictive.he lied to me making me believe he was straight. How should have i reacted then?" Why did the guy come back with you ? Was he a gay man that the ex hubby had lied to as well, So was equally pissed off ? What was the benefit / reason the guy felt bothered to come back with you and confront ? | |||
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"Define "bi". I love to suck and wank cock and love to get a faceful of hot spunk. I look at women and girls in the street or in the pub and lust after them .However I have NEVER looked at a guy and thought that. I would define bi as someone who engages in sexual activities with someone of the same sex. Feel feee to correct me if i am wrong.Think you'll find bi is having sex with both sexes bi meaning two "Yes that is what i meant. Sorry i am crap at wording stuff. I did mean same sex as well as opposite sex | |||
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"Define "bi". I love to suck and wank cock and love to get a faceful of hot spunk. I look at women and girls in the street or in the pub and lust after them .However I have NEVER looked at a guy and thought that. I would define bi as someone who engages in sexual activities with someone of the same sex. Feel feee to correct me if i am wrong.Think you'll find bi is having sex with both sexes bi meaning two
Yes that is what i meant. Sorry i am crap at wording stuff. I did mean same sex as well as opposite sex "its early you're excused | |||
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" Obviously I don't know the circumstances but that snapshot sounds unnecessarily mean and vindictive he lied to me making me believe he was straight. How should have i reacted then?" I don't think I want to clog up this interesting thread with this and add to your anger. It may be best to just leave it there. Maybe in another thread. | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males I get loads of messages from males looking for bi fun even though my profile says I’m straight.........the fact is some Men would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping long enough !
So long as they didn't do it in their car.. They might get toad away... Sorry, I'll get me coat ". Yes get your coat.... and hop to it | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge On FAB without their wive's knowledge? Or that are bi without their wive's knowledge? Asking because I think it's an interesting distinction. Both. I get alot of messages from men who admit they are married. I notice alot are bi or looking to meet tvs and wondered if their wives were aware of their interest in males I get loads of messages from males looking for bi fun even though my profile says I’m straight.........the fact is some Men would fuck a frog if it stopped hopping long enough !
So long as they didn't do it in their car.. They might get toad away... Sorry, I'll get me coat "Ok. I’m sad. I liked that | |||
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"Yes I know my husband is bi I actually prefer him meeting men to meeting other women" Why is that, do you think? Is it because you percieve them as less of a threat/competition, maybe? Fuzz | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Oh yes! | |||
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"Yes I know my husband is bi I actually prefer him meeting men to meeting other women Why is that, do you think? Is it because you percieve them as less of a threat/competition, maybe? Fuzz" I honestly don't know considering my ex left me for a man he was seeing behind my back it surprises me I'm more comfortable that way round | |||
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"Wife introduced bi play after using her strapon and wanted to take things further , haven't looked back since , it's good fun " I find it incredibly hot when that's the situation. | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi? Oh yes! "Well, there's certainly no confusion about it in your username | |||
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"Yes I know my husband is bi I actually prefer him meeting men to meeting other women Why is that, do you think? Is it because you percieve them as less of a threat/competition, maybe? Fuzz I honestly don't know considering my ex left me for a man he was seeing behind my back it surprises me I'm more comfortable that way round" That is surprising.....hard, ingrained social conditioning/expectancy is difficult to recondition, although having said that I suppose we have different levels of trust with the different people we meet. Fuzz | |||
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"I don’t think it’s alpha and dominant OR bisexual. I have a friend who is all of those things and his wife does not know about his bisexuality, she would find it unpalatable. V x " So would mine! | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Of course! | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" Yes and encourages it | |||
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"No wife has no idea am bi Wife has no idea am on here If she finds out am on here am dead Am here because it’s a sexless marriage I have needs so please don’t judge me " ditto | |||
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"No wife has no idea am bi Wife has no idea am on here If she finds out am on here am dead Am here because it’s a sexless marriage I have needs so please don’t judge me ditto "Double ditto | |||
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"No wife has no idea am bi Wife has no idea am on here If she finds out am on here am dead Am here because it’s a sexless marriage I have needs so please don’t judge me ditto
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"No wife has no idea am bi Wife has no idea am on here If she finds out am on here am dead Am here because it’s a sexless marriage I have needs so please don’t judge me ditto
Double dittosounds painful "Depends | |||
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"Wife knows I'm bi and loves it" lucky you | |||
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"No wife has no idea am bi Wife has no idea am on here If she finds out am on here am dead Am here because it’s a sexless marriage I have needs so please don’t judge me ditto
Double dittosounds painful
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"No wife has no idea am bi Wife has no idea am on here If she finds out am on here am dead Am here because it’s a sexless marriage I have needs so please don’t judge me ditto
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"Wife knows I'm bi and loves it lucky you ", thanks, she can't wait for the next time | |||
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"Wife knows I'm bi and loves it lucky you , thanks, she can't wait for the next time"post some pics of the next meeting | |||
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"Wife knows I'm bi and loves it lucky you , thanks, she can't wait for the next time post some pics of the next meeting "hope to if we ever get round to it | |||
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"We have had long conversations around my bi side , told my wife almost immediately in our relationship. We have swung with couples and 3somes . Some worked some didn’t. Now at the stage where red doesn’t want to play but is keen for me to meet guys , My problem is I don’t want to feel like I’m cheating , but I love sex , not sure where I go with this . She assured me it didn’t matter but I have reservations , any advice ? " . Now that really is a moral dilemma and probably not that uncommon
If she really doesn't want to play any more then only you can decide if she's being honest with you that she doesn't mind you scratching your itch
I'm guessing that she would rather you swinging with fellow bi guys as it's less threatening to your relationship and a fair compromise now that she doesn't want to take part.
Is it cheating if you have permission, I'd say no but I'm sure others would say different and that if one wants to give up the other should too.
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"Define "bi". I love to suck and wank cock and love to get a faceful of hot spunk. I look at women and girls in the street or in the pub and lust after them .However I have NEVER looked at a guy and thought that. I would define bi as someone who engages in sexual activities with someone of the same sex. Feel feee to correct me if i am wrong.Think you'll find bi is having sex with both sexes bi meaning two
Yes that is what i meant. Sorry i am crap at wording stuff. I did mean same sex as well as opposite sex "..... I get that but I don't FANCY blokes at all. A man who fancies men and women could be described as "bi" . I only like the COCK and spunk ... I have no desire to have a LOVING relationship with a guy . It's not simple is it  | |||
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"I just feel sad for the men. They must feel really tormented inside." ..nope | |||
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"Yes she knows im bi and also on a sister site for gay and bi guys she ecourages me to meet and play with guys and loves hearing all about what ive been upto. She also loves to watch too" Same here.. Although we don't meet separately, it help finding genuine bi guys | |||
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"Define "bi". I love to suck and wank cock and love to get a faceful of hot spunk. I look at women and girls in the street or in the pub and lust after them .However I have NEVER looked at a guy and thought that. I would define bi as someone who engages in sexual activities with someone of the same sex. Feel feee to correct me if i am wrong.Think you'll find bi is having sex with both sexes bi meaning two
Yes that is what i meant. Sorry i am crap at wording stuff. I did mean same sex as well as opposite sex ..... I get that but I don't FANCY blokes at all. A man who fancies men and women could be described as "bi" . I only like the COCK and spunk ... I have no desire to have a LOVING relationship with a guy . It's not simple is it "I don't understand how you can have any sexual contact with someone you don't find sexually attractive | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" No. Do your relations Know your a swinger? Mine know I am a naturist, some disagree with it. each to their own. | |||
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"What we don't agree with are the people that use bi-sexuality as some sort of get out of jail free card. Cheating is cheating whether you are bisexual, homosexual or heterosexual." Times like this I wish there was a like button! | |||
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"Yes she knows and to be honest she encouraged it more and we only ever play together never alone, she even helps to dress me as well as doing make up we even go out to buy clothes and we both enjoy same sex and male female fun. So bi sex is you like both sexes. " How have I not seen you two before now? Fantastic profile and pics. | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" She knows, yes. | |||
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"Can anyone show me a thread, any thread older than one day, that doesn't have a self-righteous 'cheat' comment on it please?" well said mate | |||
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"Sorry i was really referring to the bi married men on fab without there wives knowledge" lol problematic | |||
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"As an obedient cuck, I am often used as a fluffer by my mistress." Good man Terry keep the cocks hard for June | |||
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"Does your wife know you are bi?" I think that when Char was playing with her pussy while watching me suck another guys cock, then she got a pretty good idea | |||
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