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Ladies, have you ever messaged first?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey! So have a question for the ladies of the site.
Have you ever messaged a solo guy here first? I know ladies get 100s of messages, so what makes a guy stand out that you will message him first? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
Yes I have, quite a few times tbh. A witty forum post, an amusing status or a friend suggesting him all makes me take a look at his profile - I've never been one to do a search as such. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup a few times. The one I messaged first most recently had fabbed almost every pic on my profile so I decided to just go for it, apparently he had messaged me on a previous profile and I deleted so he didn’t bother to message me on this one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The mrs gets a stupid amount of messages a day so I understand why some women don’t send messages first as there trying to filter through the rubbish ones to find the one decent one lol |
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"Only two types of single lady messages firsts
Fakes or Forumites. Can’t remember when we had a message that was not either of the above.
Se La Vie 
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Sweeping statement ... I regularly send the first message , Only started looking in the forum the last couple of weeks even though I have been on here forever .... Doesn't make me a fake |
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I message first; my first meet on here I messaged first actually thinking back
I message guys mainly from the forums; if they're profile pic is interesting and they're fun on the forums that makes me look at their profile and if their profile is interesting I'll message.
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I rarely do it. I did it once as an experiment. Just put an icebreaker quick message to 20 men to see what the response would be from a women's point of view... pretty much 99% success rate in response. Made really good friends with one of them but because of covid situation, we still haven't met. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Only two types of single lady messages firsts
Fakes or Forumites. Can’t remember when we had a message that was not either of the above.
Se La Vie
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Sweeping statement ... I regularly send the first message , Only started looking in the forum the last couple of weeks even though I have been on here forever .... Doesn't make me a fake "
I know but I just thought I’d even the balance a bit in the generalisation stakes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey! So have a question for the ladies of the site.
Have you ever messaged a solo guy here first? I know ladies get 100s of messages, so what makes a guy stand out that you will message him first?"
No I haven't ever messaged first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've messaged guys first because
*of something they said on the forum.
*a photo of theirs I've seen that I liked.
*their status update.
*because I've checked out their photos and profile, think I may be right for them and they for me and I'd like to get naked with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have and do - if all my messages are from guys that don’t interest me I will do a search and either hotlist or wink at a guy. If he really interests me then I will message, particularly if he has posted an update that is relevant or I have seen something on the Forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey! So have a question for the ladies of the site.
Have you ever messaged a solo guy here first? I know ladies get 100s of messages, so what makes a guy stand out that you will message him first?
No I haven't ever messaged first "
I doubt you would need to  |
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