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Is there such thing as a black man that he is sub
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By *rixiepeep OP Woman
over a year ago
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I love meeting Blackman, but what I find with the ones that I've met so far is they're very dominant. That doesn't float my boat as I'm a little Dom.
I'm wondering is there any black man that likes to be donimated by a woman.I don't mean anything to hard and dominant just soft sensuous dominant play with a little bit of force now and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only ever came across this once he was very attentive but just wanted to be belittled he also wanted me to be racist towards him which I just couldn't do. He was a royal marine so I think that had something to do with it. |
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Interesting post OP as a black male although I dont deem myself dominant I would definately not see myself as a sub, my attitude towards it is that males should be masculine. Me personally I couldnt accept a woman dominating me |
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"Interesting post OP as a black male although I dont deem myself dominant I would definately not see myself as a sub, my attitude towards it is that males should be masculine. Me personally I couldnt accept a woman dominating me"
Potentially missing out on some serious fun there... |
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Of course there is. Black men are just the same as White men - some are sub, some are Dom, some a switch, some are sissy's, some are TV's, etc etc.
Anyone can be anything, its 2021 
I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for eventually, happy Fabbing. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"
That's rubbish and a very outdated view.
I like to dominate men and they are definitely still men.
There are probably plenty of black men who like to be dominated, just not in your circle of friends x |
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This made me smile. When I first started my kinky journey my biggest fantasy was to be dominated by a woman. I was lucky enough to find a woman who wanted to Domme me but by our third date I was dominating her, that remained our dynamic over the following three years. I have always seen myself as very chilled so my inner dominant streak took me by surprise at the time.
Anyway back to the main topic although the opportunities for me have unfortunately been rare I love being dominated by a woman. However when it comes to guys (I'm bicurious) its either mutual respect or me in charge. So much so that when I'm fucking someone's wife if the guys says "fuck my wife" in a firm voice my natural instinct is to reply "well maybe I won't then" That's the first thought that can pop into my head. Not very productive lololol.
So I'm careful about what dynamic the couple goes for with single guys. |
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"I love meeting Blackman, but what I find with the ones that I've met so far is they're very dominant. That doesn't float my boat as I'm a little Dom.
I'm wondering is there any black man that likes to be donimated by a woman.I don't mean anything to hard and dominant just soft sensuous dominant play with a little bit of force now and then. "
Yes I am keen to explore submissive side |
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How terribly insecure one must be to believe that submission in any way compromises their masculinity.
Or, for that matter, to fetishise their own "masculinity" to a point where they are worried about compromising it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"
The irony of defining “manhood” and “masculinity” with an Xbox controller in the background of a profile picture. |
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"Black men arent subs only white men mainly. XD And men aint men if they a sub"
Sorry mate that's nonsense, that's the sort of ignorance that racists use to discriminate others..
Black men are no different to men from any other part of the globe, they are gay, bi, straight, Dom, sub and everything in between those..
Having the confidence, trust etc to give control to another is nothing to do with any concept of 'masculinity'.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a strange question to be sure.
Dom or sub is about how the brain works.
Skin colour has nothing to do with how the brain works.
The idea that any group based on gender or skin colour are homogenous beings who all think the same shows how far society and cultural expectations are entrenched in stereotypes.
Think about friends and colleagues who are different races, do they all fit into a narrow box.
I think most people work on a scale and no one is 100% one thing or another.
(at least I'd hope not as that would make for really dull sex, being the same every time.)
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"Of course there is. Black men are just the same as White men - some are sub, some are Dom, some a switch, some are sissy's, some are TV's, etc etc.
Anyone can be anything, its 2021
I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for eventually, happy Fabbing. x"
Exactly just go with the flow  |
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