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By *lowhands7 OP Man
over a year ago
South Leics and regularly stay in Staffs |
and frustration.
On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.
I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.
Is it me?!!!
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By *lowhands7 OP Man
over a year ago
South Leics and regularly stay in Staffs |
"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com  "
It's not just me!! Yay!! Thought I was missing something  |
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"and frustration.
On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.
I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.
Is it me?!!!
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They might be asking for tributes from established friends.
People asking for face pictures might have some in private. I always think that people can ask for anything they want, it doesn't mean I have to give it to them. My kids would have had ponies at age 3 and motorbikes at age 6 if that was the case  |
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"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com "
Maybe they met them at one of the large organised socials and the signal man sent them a verification to get one back, that happens a lot |
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By *jsantagCouple
over a year ago
Hfd/Shrop/Worc area |
"and frustration.
On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.
I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.
Is it me?!!!
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If it helps balance things....we are looking for males, females, couples (and top of the list multiple males) 
And yes please to tributes too....love them!   |
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By *lowhands7 OP Man
over a year ago
South Leics and regularly stay in Staffs |
"and frustration.
On another post within the forum, a couple are asking for tributes, yet their profile states not interested in single males.
I am similarly bemused by people asking (some demanding) face pics but they don't have any themselves.
Is it me?!!!
If it helps balance things....we are looking for males, females, couples (and top of the list multiple males)
And yes please to tributes too....love them! "
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"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com
Maybe they met them at one of the large organised socials and the signal man sent them a verification to get one back, that happens a lot "
Mystery solved |
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"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com "
I like meeting men. My "looking for" (when I'm not hidden) says "not looking for single guys". It's automatic when you turn on the filter to stop men messaging you. |
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"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com
I like meeting men. My "looking for" (when I'm not hidden) says "not looking for single guys". It's automatic when you turn on the filter to stop men messaging you."
We have the filter on too. If we post a pic with the filter off we need a PA for the messages! |
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"Loads of couples and single Ladies not looking for Men have one verification, that being from a Man! Confused.com
I like meeting men. My "looking for" (when I'm not hidden) says "not looking for single guys". It's automatic when you turn on the filter to stop men messaging you. We have the filter on too. If we post a pic with the filter off we need a PA for the messages!"
Haha same. But it's why it might look inconsistent.
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We don’t list ourselves as looking for single men as we don’t want to get lots of messages, we already get a few from men and that’s manageable but after reading the forums it seems some ladies and couples get inundated with them and then men get upset if they’re ignored or rejected. I’m sure we wouldn’t be the type of couple to get inundated but to not advertise the fact we’d meet men saves hassle. Perhaps others feel the same.
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