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By *rmbtsTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Any crossdressing couples out there where the wife started it?"
I was always the way I am from a very early age, but my now wife did introduce it to our relationship
After a few years going out together and after a night out asked me to put some lingerie of hers on and then get intimate
Made our relationship stronger
After our night of passion I decided to tell her about my fem side a week later after a night out and in a neutral location told her and put our relationship on the line
Very tense, a long time later found out she had lesbian relationship before me so probably why she loved my fem side, even to girly nights out
We now married and consider myself very lucky
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"Any crossdressing couples out there where the wife started it?
I was always the way I am from a very early age, but my now wife did introduce it to our relationship
After a few years going out together and after a night out asked me to put some lingerie of hers on and then get intimate
Made our relationship stronger
After our night of passion I decided to tell her about my fem side a week later after a night out and in a neutral location told her and put our relationship on the line
Very tense, a long time later found out she had lesbian relationship before me so probably why she loved my fem side, even to girly nights out
We now married and consider myself very lucky
Emma dressed "
You are incredibly lucky ... your wife is one in a million xxx |
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over a year ago
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I met my partner when he was fully dressed and I loved it; added a whole new dimension to our relationship.
After about 6 months Rachel went back into the suitcase and sex stopped completly. 5 and a half years later I'm in a sexless relationship with a male who refuses to discuss the existance of his fem side or the lack of intimacy.
I dont know what happened but it makes me feel very sad and at times confused.
The one thing he did say was that because i was so welcoming of his alter ego, Rachel, I took the fun and danger of discovery away |
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"I met my partner when he was fully dressed and I loved it; added a whole new dimension to our relationship.
After about 6 months Rachel went back into the suitcase and sex stopped completly. 5 and a half years later I'm in a sexless relationship with a male who refuses to discuss the existance of his fem side or the lack of intimacy.
I dont know what happened but it makes me feel very sad and at times confused.
The one thing he did say was that because i was
so welcoming of his alter ego, Rachel, I took the
fun and danger of discovery away"
That's very sad for you and for him, but there is more than likely another problem you both need to address that he hasn't mentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met my partner when he was fully dressed and I loved it; added a whole new dimension to our relationship.
After about 6 months Rachel went back into the suitcase and sex stopped completly. 5 and a half years later I'm in a sexless relationship with a male who refuses to discuss the existance of his fem side or the lack of intimacy.
I dont know what happened but it makes me feel very sad and at times confused.
The one thing he did say was that because i was
so welcoming of his alter ego, Rachel, I took the
fun and danger of discovery away
That's very sad for you and for him, but there is more than likely another problem you both need to address that he hasn't mentioned. "
I've tried talking to him but he just clams up and refuses to discuss anything of a sexual nature |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Before me and Nikki got together I often thought about cross dressing but never had the courage to. One night after night out and very pissed she undressed and went to bed while I had one more. Her dress was on the floor as I picked it up thought what the hell and put it on and walked in the bedroom to surprise nikki.......
I got the surprise of my life seeing her stood in only her high heeled boots whip in hand - so you like wearing my dress? She asked as I tried to explain the whip struck me her mood changed and she pointed at box on our bed. Before I knew I was wearing stocking, bra, dress and heels and doing whatever she said and she loves it nearly as much as me
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"I met my partner when he was fully dressed and I loved it; added a whole new dimension to our relationship.
After about 6 months Rachel went back into the suitcase and sex stopped completly. 5 and a half years later I'm in a sexless relationship with a male who refuses to discuss the existance of his fem side or the lack of intimacy.
I dont know what happened but it makes me feel very sad and at times confused.
The one thing he did say was that because i was
so welcoming of his alter ego, Rachel, I took the
fun and danger of discovery away
That's very sad for you and for him, but there is more than likely another problem you both need to address that he hasn't mentioned.
I've tried talking to him but he just clams up and refuses to discuss anything of a sexual nature"
You definitely need to find out what the problem is with him not wanting to talk about sexual things with you, likes, dislikes, fantasies, desires, the real reason he doesn't feel the way he use to. It's not good at all if he won't, that's not normal for any couple that wants a close relationship.
Just keep trying, or things will get worse with time. Best wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met my partner when he was fully dressed and I loved it; added a whole new dimension to our relationship.
After about 6 months Rachel went back into the suitcase and sex stopped completly. 5 and a half years later I'm in a sexless relationship with a male who refuses to discuss the existance of his fem side or the lack of intimacy.
I dont know what happened but it makes me feel very sad and at times confused.
The one thing he did say was that because i was
so welcoming of his alter ego, Rachel, I took the
fun and danger of discovery away
That's very sad for you and for him, but there is more than likely another problem you both need to address that he hasn't mentioned.
I've tried talking to him but he just clams up and refuses to discuss anything of a sexual nature
You definitely need to find out what the problem is with him not wanting to talk about sexual things with you, likes, dislikes, fantasies, desires, the real reason he doesn't feel the way he use to. It's not good at all if he won't, that's not normal for any couple that wants a close relationship.
Just keep trying, or things will get worse with time. Best wishes."
Thank you for the advice but after nearly 6 years of trying I no longer look at him as a potential life partner or in a sexual way. I have no intention of ever asking him to move in with me and look upon our relationship as one of friendship.
I dont even try to hold hands with him now, he says my hands are either too hot and sticky or too cold. I feel very unattractive and unloved most of the time
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Mrs always knew I was bi.
I 'came out'as a dresser to her with a selfie of me in her best camisole.
She was very uncomfortable with it....
With a lot of talking we're now at a point where she dresses me from time to time.
We sometimes go to clubs with me dressed.
Some close friend know and we talk openly about it with them. |
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"I met my partner when he was fully dressed and I loved it; added a whole new dimension to our relationship.
After about 6 months Rachel went back into the suitcase and sex stopped completly. 5 and a half years later I'm in a sexless relationship with a male who refuses to discuss the existance of his fem side or the lack of intimacy.
I dont know what happened but it makes me feel very sad and at times confused.
The one thing he did say was that because i was so welcoming of his alter ego, Rachel, I took the fun and danger of discovery away"
That is such a shame. I have tried to suggest it to my wife but she is totally against it which is a pity for me but I accept that everyone has different things they enjoy. I just see it as a bit like fancy dress, for a time you can pretend to be someone else and enjoy that feeling and then switch back when you want. It's a shame that your partner was not comfortable enough to be able to do that. |
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Many years ago when I was 19/20 I had a relationship with an older lady (early 30s) who told me an awful lot about sex!
One night when we played she suggested I wear her stockings for some fun which I was up for and it went from there.
We started having sex with both wearing s&s, then she bought me my own set.
Before long we'd go out together to buy matching lingerie, sets, basques etc and we'd do photo shoots etc, sending the film off to PO boxes in the back of Escort!
Eventually we'd be going out for nights out, regular vanilla nights to normal clubs, dressed normal but with matching lingerie on, knowing each others secrets.
Once or twice she went as far as making me up for a night of fun at home. I can't say I ever loved dressing and I certainly was never convincing but she found it incredibly horny and it drove her wild. That I did love!
It was on holidays in PdI that we first met a few genuine dressers on a night out and that really intrigued us both - and made us fuck like crazy back at the hotel. One of the last nights on holiday, a visit to the old yumbo centre saw one thing lead to another and ended with the most gorgeous dresser masturbating in front of us until they came over my partners feet in her sandals.
That was the night I discovered I was attracted to dressers. Also, it was the night that led to our adventures involving others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex loved / loves to dress me , she buys clothes for me , only came out to her that I wear make up too last week , she enjoyed that as well , it’s great being able to dress with her , I know she is a little bi so adores the look , I know I do ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every weekend my wife and I will wear some form of lingerie for sex.
Holidays are best.
We are both in stockings day and night for most of the week.
Not sure how it all started but yes she often buys me bits to wear for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a gf at uni who enjoyed me wearing nylons. She liked me to wear most of the time even when going about boring days lol. She wore nylons all the time too which was very horny.  |
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