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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here. "
This, and not only the fact that many people lack the knowledge of what it is, how the prepare for it, how to do it and not all people are receptive of it.
It's about spiritual progression and connection not a physical thrill. |
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here. "
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this"
People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self."
Sadly, it's a fuck and go site for a lot of people. They don't want to invest time with anyone without genitals touching, and they focus on the orgasm. |
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self."
I think I need some this today but it's Easter holidays here. So know out body relaxation today. |
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self.
I think I need some this today but it's Easter holidays here. So know out body relaxation today."
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Yes, it's in the name... I'm a trained tantric masseur.
It's meditation for mind and body, a mental state as much as a physical one. It's sexual but it's not about sex. I rarely 'get off' at all when I do a massage - it's a gift and if you have a goal beyond the recipient's pleasure in the moment you're not doing tantra. When you give to someone selflessly and you see their divine beauty shine through regardless of age, looks or build, then you're on the right track. |
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So there’s proper Tantra as described by others in here which is more to with meditation abd various techniques
And then there’s tantric pleasures - which is about exploring the senses - it works best with two people focussing on each other
And of course tantric massage and yoni massage which I think most in here associate with the words
I worked at the yantra yoga centre in Oxford for a bit and have combined all 3
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Tantra is a wholesome experience and I find it more fulfilling to explore and tailor the experience to the person I am with. After all each individual is different and we don’t all have the same pleasure points
Tantra offers a way to explore, provide and derive pleasure. It’s not just a massage as that makes the experience very impersonal. It’s not always full sex (I prefer it not to be) either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here. "
Very very true and also the fact that it's impossible within the casual/NSA bracket anyway ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here. This, and not only the fact that many people lack the knowledge of what it is, how the prepare for it, how to do it and not all people are receptive of it.
It's about spiritual progression and connection not a physical thrill."
The guys who act qualified just to get a grope are my favourite  |
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
Very very true and also the fact that it's impossible within the casual/NSA bracket anyway ... "
This. With all the pressure to satisfy and be satisfied as soon as possible... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
Very very true and also the fact that it's impossible within the casual/NSA bracket anyway ...
This. With all the pressure to satisfy and be satisfied as soon as possible..."
It is something I’ve recently been in conversations about.... |
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"Tantra is a wholesome experience and I find it more fulfilling to explore and tailor the experience to the person I am with. After all each individual is different and we don’t all have the same pleasure points
Tantra offers a way to explore, provide and derive pleasure. It’s not just a massage as that makes the experience very impersonal. It’s not always full sex (I prefer it not to be) either. "
Well put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it "
Different to a tantric massage ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it
Different to a tantric massage ... "
Which differs from a sensual massage ... |
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it
Different to a tantric massage ...
Which differs from a sensual massage ..."
Yes it is different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it
Different to a tantric massage ...
Which differs from a sensual massage ...
Yes it is different "
So do explain please. |
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it
Different to a tantric massage ...
Which differs from a sensual massage ...
Yes it is different
So do explain please. "
It is long to explain
Google will give you ample and detailed explanations. |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here. "
Not a surprise - it’s not that kind of site. We practise it between ourselves but it’s all about deepening our connection. So whilst you can have a sensual connection with others you meet on a swinger site, you’re unlikely (in our estimation anyway) to get into tantra. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
Very very true and also the fact that it's impossible within the casual/NSA bracket anyway ... "
Yes, which the men on here don’t seem to understand, or they try and hook women by pretending. |
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
Very very true and also the fact that it's impossible within the casual/NSA bracket anyway ...
Yes, which the men on here don’t seem to understand, or they try and hook women by pretending. "
Most guys rush & get over excited ....  |
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I joined this site hoping to find a Tantra community, however that hasn't happened. So, I've adapted, and offer a Tantra massage occasionally to curious Fabbers. I'm very well trained, and experienced, and don't offer Tantric sex here, as I've never made that depth of connection. Most guys don't get this, but many women understand that intimacy, connection,and who you're with, matter when having sex. Tantric sex is best had with your lover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I joined this site hoping to find a Tantra community, however that hasn't happened. So, I've adapted, and offer a Tantra massage occasionally to curious Fabbers. I'm very well trained, and experienced, and don't offer Tantric sex here, as I've never made that depth of connection. Most guys don't get this, but many women understand that intimacy, connection,and who you're with, matter when having sex. Tantric sex is best had with your lover. "
At least someone can describe it without being referred to Google!
I think far too many people get confused about Tantra and think only about the 'sex' bit. Also, the terms 'tantric sex' or 'tantric massage' are also used as a euphemism for softer sex or sensual massage etc. The connection part is lost as is the idea of 'giving' as a loving service to your partner without the need or expectation of anything in return.
You're very unlikely to find this through casual hookups or sites focused on sex. |
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it
Different to a tantric massage ... "
Tantric massage doesn't usually end with sex... it can but the recipient is usually more than satisfied!
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"any fans on here?
So describe 'tantric sex' and how this is differs from regular sex please OP.
Best is to goole it
Different to a tantric massage ...
Tantric massage doesn't usually end with sex... it can but the recipient is usually more than satisfied!
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I am a fan of tantric sex and would like to learn more .not shure if i have right idea but i see it as long slow sensual buildup or slow burn and keep going through all the difrent levels of orgasam if that the idea |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"I am a fan of tantric sex and would like to learn more .not shure if i have right idea but i see it as long slow sensual buildup or slow burn and keep going through all the difrent levels of orgasam if that the idea"
Not about sex, about the movement of energies around the body, connected to kundalini energy and developing a closer connection with your inner-self, the part of you which is connected to the universal consciousness. You can create the same energy through meditation, Kriya being one.
There is left handed and right handed tantra. |
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"I am a fan of tantric sex and would like to learn more .not shure if i have right idea but i see it as long slow sensual buildup or slow burn and keep going through all the difrent levels of orgasam if that the idea Not about sex, about the movement of energies around the body, connected to kundalini energy and developing a closer connection with your inner-self, the part of you which is connected to the universal consciousness. You can create the same energy through meditation, Kriya being one.
There is left handed and right handed tantra."
Great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self."
^ this
It's something I'd like to deeply explore
Lets add peoples misunderstanding of a yoni massage! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I joined this site hoping to find a Tantra community, however that hasn't happened. So, I've adapted, and offer a Tantra massage occasionally to curious Fabbers. I'm very well trained, and experienced, and don't offer Tantric sex here, as I've never made that depth of connection. Most guys don't get this, but many women understand that intimacy, connection,and who you're with, matter when having sex. Tantric sex is best had with your lover. "
Exactly, I hope one day to have a partner/lover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here. This, and not only the fact that many people lack the knowledge of what it is, how the prepare for it, how to do it and not all people are receptive of it.
It's about spiritual progression and connection not a physical thrill."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any fans on here?
There are few yes
Dude your replying to yourself "
Maybe he was chatting to his inner-self
Nice to see interesting topics like this on here, gets a bit heavy and negative this forum at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... need to actually know someone and have a really good connection first. Probably very difficult to find on fab
Not difficult!! "
Haha! Really! I'd love to spend more time in this thread as it's of interest to me. But well I cant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any fans on here?
There are few yes
Dude your replying to yourself
Maybe he was chatting to his inner-self
Nice to see interesting topics like this on here, gets a bit heavy and negative this forum at times "
I like the topic |
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"any fans on here?
There are few yes
Dude your replying to yourself
Maybe he was chatting to his inner-self
Nice to see interesting topics like this on here, gets a bit heavy and negative this forum at times
I like the topic"
Ty |
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By *andm300Man
over a year ago
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We love tantric practices. Learning to fuck yourselves using movement, sound, breath deep core articulations for us was key. Then when we do that whilst connecting to another it’s beyond mind blowing.
Yoga and developing a strong and articulate pc/ pelvic floor is key in preparation.
For me it’s been deeply healing and ended up going far beyond sex. So it should come with a warning as it can change the direction of your life in the same way a psychedelic can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love tantric practices. Learning to fuck yourselves using movement, sound, breath deep core articulations for us was key. Then when we do that whilst connecting to another it’s beyond mind blowing.
Yoga and developing a strong and articulate pc/ pelvic floor is key in preparation.
For me it’s been deeply healing and ended up going far beyond sex. So it should come with a warning as it can change the direction of your life in the same way a psychedelic can."
Wow sounds amazing |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self.
Sadly, it's a fuck and go site for a lot of people. They don't want to invest time with anyone without genitals touching, and they focus on the orgasm."
Nothing sad about that. I love tantric sex, but equally love fuck and go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am, but sadly a true knowledge of what tantra is seems to be lacking on here.
I gathered by the alck of answers to the thread.. More bang bang on here.
I wanted to Privately message you all this People are under the misconception that tantra is a sexual act, mention kundalini energy or the using te root and sacral chakra energy between two people to create a closer spiritual connection, the people tell you that this is a sex site.
It is a healing tool as well as helping connect with the inner-self.
Sadly, it's a fuck and go site for a lot of people. They don't want to invest time with anyone without genitals touching, and they focus on the orgasm.
Nothing sad about that. I love tantric sex, but equally love fuck and go. "
Best of both worlds |
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"Would be wonderful to find someone really into this.
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I've knowledge of this and know without true mental connection on the same vave lenght you can't truly experience what your body is
capable of .
On different subject would be interested in following the quest for the golden pubes of the virgin elthel
In the story section .
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"Would be wonderful to find someone really into this.
I've knowledge of this and know without true mental connection on the same vave lenght you can't truly experience what your body is
capable of .
On different subject would be interested in following the quest for the golden pubes of the virgin elthel
In the story section .
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Yes I'm assuming tantric only really works when you're in love... I'm guessing some of the couples practise it? And use swinging as one of their kinks? As I love to explore tantric but i have afew kinks that would involve casual affairs |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, it's in the name... I'm a trained tantric masseur.
It's meditation for mind and body, a mental state as much as a physical one. It's sexual but it's not about sex. I rarely 'get off' at all when I do a massage - it's a gift and if you have a goal beyond the recipient's pleasure in the moment you're not doing tantra. When you give to someone selflessly and you see their divine beauty shine through regardless of age, looks or build, then you're on the right track. "
And you’re a single man on fab website - kind of invalidates everything you just said doesn’t it.
I known tantras , they wouldn’t come on here |
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"Shame there's not more people into it on here. They say it only works on long term partnership. Probably where it's most needed as sex can get dull after awhile with only one partner "
It certainly would be further enhanced if their was a love connection also but with the right mental and physical connection you can acheave wonderus things
And even have other thrilling adventure with self knowledge and that of other minds and bodies |
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"Yes, it's in the name... I'm a trained tantric masseur.
It's meditation for mind and body, a mental state as much as a physical one. It's sexual but it's not about sex. I rarely 'get off' at all when I do a massage - it's a gift and if you have a goal beyond the recipient's pleasure in the moment you're not doing tantra. When you give to someone selflessly and you see their divine beauty shine through regardless of age, looks or build, then you're on the right track.
And you’re a single man on fab website - kind of invalidates everything you just said doesn’t it.
I known tantras , they wouldn’t come on here "
I duno, my fab meet was very good at convincing me and all his other past lovers that we were the most important person in the world. He made me believe i was on a pedestal and he worshipped me all night long. He was very clever at fucking, I give him that. Made me crave for him like I was on class A drugs.  |
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"Yes, it's in the name... I'm a trained tantric masseur.
It's meditation for mind and body, a mental state as much as a physical one. It's sexual but it's not about sex. I rarely 'get off' at all when I do a massage - it's a gift and if you have a goal beyond the recipient's
pleasure in the moment you're not
doing tantra. When you give to
someone selflessly and you see
their divine beauty shine through
regardless of age, looks or build,
then you're on the right track.
And you’re a single man on fab website - kind of invalidates everything you just said doesn’t it.
I known tantras , they wouldn’t come on here
I duno, my fab meet was very good at convincing me and all his other past lovers that we were the most important person in the world. He made me believe i was on a pedestal and he worshipped me all night long. He was very clever at fucking, I give him that. Made me crave for him like I was on class A drugs. "
That's the whole point about mental and physical connection becomeing at one together nothing else in world exits its just you two |
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I got Urban Tantra as a gift, more than I expected it really resonated with me, I would love to practice more with my wife and learn from others who enjoy it.
Very interesting subject if you have the patience to explore… I’m sure there are many good groups on Reddit Twitter etc… |
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