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Tall women short blokes..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I am 5ft 6 and therefore rules me out of many taller woman who like men to be equal in height or taller than them. However I have found that despite my height everything else seems to be ideal on many wish lists.
So shall we create a short bloke group???? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At 5'4 I've been turned down by quite a few because of my height (or lack of!).
Always fancied getting with a really tall woman though. Death by snu snu! |
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Being short, but having had long-term relationships with three tall women (one of whom I originally joined Fab with), I've found that although it's a very individual thing it predominantly comes down to the individual woman - and a lot of that (according to them) has been about finding me attractive once they've got to know me as a person.
All have said their preconceptions of being with a shorter man disappeared after, which is something I've always thought of as hugely flattering. The biggest factors have been stated as being funny, a gentleman, confident without arrogance and being genuinely interested in them, having made them feel they mattered to me (they absolutely did - and in one case still do). All three said they always felt safe when they were with me - it doesn't get any better than that.
In essence it's about preconceptions and also accepting that a woman has every right to like what she likes. Not having 'small man syndrome' helps too! |
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"I've found myself dismissed for being too tall...
Or maybe they were just being nice  "
Madness, but itsdown to individual taste ultimately I guess. I could be wrong, but from a mans point of view I'd say that's down to The male ego or a guys lack of personal confidence. For me smooching on a dance floor could potentially be an issue, (though unlikely for me personally) but there's not a single reason why it would put me off otherwise. It's all about the whole package. I'd be proud to be seen with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I am 5ft 6 and therefore rules me out of many taller woman who like men to be equal in height or taller than them. However I have found that despite my height everything else seems to be ideal on many wish lists.
So shall we create a short bloke group????
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I'm in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf, unless you are over 6'4" (the average height of the men in my family, including my son) you aren't tall, to me  ... My Dad was shorter than my Mum so spose that might be why it doesn't bother me.... I think shorter guys often have nicer legs n bums too |
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Only ever had one knock back on here for lack of height
On our couples account on here (where obviously there’s a lot more action/messaging) I will mention our heights (my fwb is a shortie!) but so far it’s never been an issue for anyone we’ve spoken to or met - I did have a play with a woman of about 6ft at LB once which was a bit strange |
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In real life as opposed to Planet Fab I have never struggled with dating in spite of being a modest 5'6".
My wife on the other hand struggled massively in the real world to attract men. Standing at way over 6' in heels it seemed to intimidate them I think.
On fab however it is the reverse. |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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At 163cm (5'4" old money) my bf and I are the same height.
My issue is my mahoosive collection of killer heels, I tower over him when I wear them...
So he's now amassing a collection of kinky platforms himself!
In parallel, my feet are thanking me for the flats I now tend to wear...!
Male, tall, blond, blue eyes...
No diversity there folks!
The last time we thought being Arian is the ideal, the world got into a bit of trouble... |
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"He’s 5’9 but loves tall ladies. But many women won’t entertain the thought of meeting anybody shorter than them. Which is a shame.  "
Yes, although in my experience it's not proved an issue at socials or in a club. Almost always been great then, whether single, or with a female friend with me. |
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"Tbf, unless you are over 6'4" (the average height of the men in my family, including my son) you aren't tall, to me ... My Dad was shorter than my Mum so spose that might be why it doesn't bother me.... I think shorter guys often have nicer legs n bums too "
Possibly my best features, (so I'm told) so interesting theory! |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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"I've found myself dismissed for being too tall...
Or maybe they were just being nice "
I would never dismiss you for being too anything. You seem absolutely lovely and that body is hot. Who cares about height |
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