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Is my profile too explicit/porno?
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Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ? |
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Yeah bit too much for me. But that’s just me, I prefer a profile that leaves something to be desired.
Different folks …. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Total turn off for me |
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Yeah looks like you favour yourself as porn not it's bad but question what with writing all your accomplished meets down does look put off would they not verify you? |
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Looks like a bareback action picture, which is double no for me on a single man’s profile. It being the profile pic is even worse. Definite turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off! Why are your veris in the bio text when I could just read them from published verifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Off.
Not interested in seeing your conquests. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
We always block single men's profiles that contain pictures of women that may not have given their consent, plus if we're looking at a single male profile, we'd rather see a single male - turn-off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some great cumshots in there!
If you ever need anyone to clean up....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago
London |
It’s a no from us we’re afraid |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Do whatever if you want with your own profile if you think that is the best representation of you then show it. You won't appeal to everyone on here .
Would yours appeal to me
no not really. But there are those who will like it. |
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It's a good selection of pics and vids, yes very porno, but it looks like that's what your into so be honest and show it!
Anyone looking knows they are going to get done up the bum, bent into all sorts of positions and have a big load on their face... Good to know if you seek that sort of thing.
I was going to say pasting veri's in your profile was lazy, but reading them you have other people writing a rather good profile for you, which is actually rather great. |
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Appreciate all the candid feedback thanks  |
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"Looks like a bareback action picture, which is double no for me on a single man’s profile. It being the profile pic is even worse. Definite turn off."
Condom is clearly visible in that photo. But thanks for your candid views |
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"Sorry turn off "
Don’t apologise I asked for the feedback! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
I've not looked at your profile but people meet people. I remember there's guys with 300 veris and women with 500+ who have no trouble meeting.
If you have tropical holiday or some moody lighting pics and gangbang throughout, I don't think people mind as they see 'luxury sex'.. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
DUNSTABLE BEDFORDSHIRE LOVE HOTEL MEETS-OR SOCIALS |
Looks like Lots of repeated photos why?.
Not seen a clear facepic. I may be wrong there.
No humour seen.
I did have 50 on mine.
Took it down to 30 on advise of a nice lady.
Looking at the lady replies here maybe I should restrict more to favourites/Private or remove.
Any help/thoughts/suggestions appreciated.
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Pics are fine for me. I didn't watch any vids, tbh the sheer quantity was too much. Maybe have fewer on public and rotate them?
Pics are good tho  |
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Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol. |
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol. "
I don’t think it’s too explicit and the pics of you are great!
Just a difference in preference! |
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Turn off , way too explicit for me too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol. "
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Appreciate all the candid feedback thanks "
Like thanks for sharing! |
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You would do very well attracting men I'm sure. Women not so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Action shots put me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol.
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules"
He’s not joking !
Anyway mate you got your feedback but your profile pic is still up in all it’s glory !
Ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You wouldn’t be for me, but it’s your profile, so you should run it how you wish. |
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol.
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules"
Yeah, just for clarity... I wasn’t saying this guy in particular the women on the pics don’t know.... just in general and why it’s a turn off! No accusations of illegal behaviour personally! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you want a bloody good rogering then you're the guy to go to, going by your veris.
If I was nearer, slimmer and fitter I'd be knocking on your door  |
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol.
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules"
Big assumption there . I never post any content with my lady friends in without there consent. |
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol. "
Was there pics I missed? All of them I could clearly see a condom... |
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Me personally? Nope.
Very "look what I can do" instead of "look at who I am" |
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol.
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules
He’s not joking !
Anyway mate you got your feedback but your profile pic is still up in all it’s glory !
Ffs "
I’ve put a zoomed in copy of my profile pic for the visually challenged. Condom clearly visible. |
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol.
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules
He’s not joking !
Anyway mate you got your feedback but your profile pic is still up in all it’s glory !
Ffs
I’ve put a zoomed in copy of my profile pic for the visually challenged. Condom clearly visible. "
Apologies from the “visually challenged”.... not sure that’s needed....
The pic you’ve put the close up on of wasn’t the one I thought was bare
But appreciate your saying it wasn’t bare.  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
The pictures are sexy but they suggest too many notches on bed posts, which personally I would not want to be one of so many conquests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turn off for me.
I get it, you’ve had sex... I don’t need to see every position with random women along the way haha!
I also don’t like bare pics. And single male profiles with women all over, looks more couple like. half of them women don’t even know they are online and it just makes me cringe lol.
Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules
He’s not joking !
Anyway mate you got your feedback but your profile pic is still up in all it’s glory !
Ffs
I’ve put a zoomed in copy of my profile pic for the visually challenged. Condom clearly visible. "
Mate get yourself out of your ma’s basement and close the computer you been peddling at the last day and go get some sunshine !
Looks like you been down there weeks hope this all works out for you tho
Swear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to mention that posting such pictures of others without their consent is illegal and also against site rules
Big assumption there . I never post any content with my lady friends in without there consent. "
I was making no assumptions. Merely stating a fact. I didn't suggest that YOU had posted pictures without consent. |
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
Hyde |
I guess what you're trying to show is that you've been trusted by a number of people to meet and have fun oh and that you've a big cock.
Well..... IMO.... try and avoid too many of the same pics. The cock pics seem to be repeated in different clothing or positions. And like others have said... I do prefer engaging some imagination.
Your profile though at the end of the day and you seem to be getting meets- so why do you care? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No sorry...it smacks of any holes a goal.. |
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"I guess what you're trying to show is that you've been trusted by a number of people to meet and have fun oh and that you've a big cock.
Well..... IMO.... try and avoid too many of the same pics. The cock pics seem to be repeated in different clothing or positions. And like others have said... I do prefer engaging some imagination.
Your profile though at the end of the day and you seem to be getting meets- so why do you care?"
Yes definitely a big element of that . I do want to present that I am genuine, reliable , respectful and also can perform. Marketing yourself on fab as a single guy is not easy and the feedback I’m getting is proving that. Yes I do very well so why do I care you ask ? Well everyone would like more choices wouldn’t they ? The feedback has been brutal but I’m ok with that it may make me adjust my approach |
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"Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ?"
As a male, I had a read of your profile. Comes across as you’d shag anything that moves.
Presuming that would be a turn off for most women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t read any comments above but It’s a bit too much for me.
I can tell you are vwe from just a few pictures so you don’t need them all in different positions.
I also don’t find it a turn in to see a lot of pictures of a man fucking another women or multiple women.
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Back in Gatwick! |
I feel I’d just be like a sex toy if I ever met you and just whacked from behind. While sometimes it can be hot, it is not what I’m looking for.
So turnoff. Sorry! |
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Turn off. Not a fan of action shots with multiple women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess what you're trying to show is that you've been trusted by a number of people to meet and have fun oh and that you've a big cock.
Well..... IMO.... try and avoid too many of the same pics. The cock pics seem to be repeated in different clothing or positions. And like others have said... I do prefer engaging some imagination.
Your profile though at the end of the day and you seem to be getting meets- so why do you care?
Yes definitely a big element of that . I do want to present that I am genuine, reliable , respectful and also can perform. Marketing yourself on fab as a single guy is not easy and the feedback I’m getting is proving that. Yes I do very well so why do I care you ask ? Well everyone would like more choices wouldn’t they ? The feedback has been brutal but I’m ok with that it may make me adjust my approach "
Mate people a genuinely fair on here but if you put your self on a plate and ask for an opinion as brash as you did and the fact you said only for the women just makes this thread look like one big ploy to grab attention off girls ! Sorry market urself ! Oops my bad
Make sure to bring free t-shirts to the next social with your profile on it |
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"I guess what you're trying to show is that you've been trusted by a number of people to meet and have fun oh and that you've a big cock.
Well..... IMO.... try and avoid too many of the same pics. The cock pics seem to be repeated in different clothing or positions. And like others have said... I do prefer engaging some imagination.
Your profile though at the end of the day and you seem to be getting meets- so why do you care?
Yes definitely a big element of that . I do want to present that I am genuine, reliable , respectful and also can perform. Marketing yourself on fab as a single guy is not easy and the feedback I’m getting is proving that. Yes I do very well so why do I care you ask ? Well everyone would like more choices wouldn’t they ? The feedback has been brutal but I’m ok with that it may make me adjust my approach
Mate people a genuinely fair on here but if you put your self on a plate and ask for an opinion as brash as you did and the fact you said only for the women just makes this thread look like one big ploy to grab attention off girls ! Sorry market urself ! Oops my bad
Make sure to bring free t-shirts to the next social with your profile on it "
I genuinely wanted the feedback. Most of it has been constructive albeit it brutal. Of course I’m more interested in feedback from women as that’s who I want to connect with. As for you all you want to do is pick a fight. Maybe that’s what you’re in here for? Clearly having no luck in the meets department are you! |
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I don't think the feedback has been brutal in the slightest, it's been no more or less than honest views. In fact, there's not been any nastiness at all in response to turn on or off. Just plenty of offs. |
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You seem to have lost your suit |
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"I don't think the feedback has been brutal in the slightest, it's been no more or less than honest views. In fact, there's not been any nastiness at all in response to turn on or off. Just plenty of offs."
It’s been brutally honest which is fine and what I wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess what you're trying to show is that you've been trusted by a number of people to meet and have fun oh and that you've a big cock.
Well..... IMO.... try and avoid too many of the same pics. The cock pics seem to be repeated in different clothing or positions. And like others have said... I do prefer engaging some imagination.
Your profile though at the end of the day and you seem to be getting meets- so why do you care?
Yes definitely a big element of that . I do want to present that I am genuine, reliable , respectful and also can perform. Marketing yourself on fab as a single guy is not easy and the feedback I’m getting is proving that. Yes I do very well so why do I care you ask ? Well everyone would like more choices wouldn’t they ? The feedback has been brutal but I’m ok with that it may make me adjust my approach
Mate people a genuinely fair on here but if you put your self on a plate and ask for an opinion as brash as you did and the fact you said only for the women just makes this thread look like one big ploy to grab attention off girls ! Sorry market urself ! Oops my bad
Make sure to bring free t-shirts to the next social with your profile on it
I genuinely wanted the feedback. Most of it has been constructive albeit it brutal. Of course I’m more interested in feedback from women as that’s who I want to connect with. As for you all you want to do is pick a fight. Maybe that’s what you’re in here for? Clearly having no luck in the meets department are you! "
Look I don’t wanna pick a fight today or any day ! Just some of your comments came across crass and just another dude trying to grab attention talking shite making a joke out of this site !
But look maybe I went to far my bad alright |
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"Looks like a bareback action picture, which is double no for me on a single man’s profile. It being the profile pic is even worse. Definite turn off.
Condom is clearly visible in that photo. But thanks for your candid views "
It’s visible in your public pics because it’s bigger, but not on the little profile pic. You have to go into your pics to see it clearly. |
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"Looks like a bareback action picture, which is double no for me on a single man’s profile. It being the profile pic is even worse. Definite turn off.
Condom is clearly visible in that photo. But thanks for your candid views
It’s visible in your public pics because it’s bigger, but not on the little profile pic. You have to go into your pics to see it clearly. "
Apology accepted xx |
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Turnoff for me too, I am not a great fan of explicit action shots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A turn off for me, I don’t like to see action shots of the man with women, but that’s just me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big turn off I dont like profiles with action shots and you have wayyy too many on public. But thats just my personal preference the less I see the more intrigued I am. |
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Confused as to this sudden bunch of people who who keep asking for opinions on profiles?
Isnt it just a bit attention seeking maybe more than anything anything? |
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Honestly, to me it's just awful |
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"Confused as to this sudden bunch of people who who keep asking for opinions on profiles?
Isnt it just a bit attention seeking maybe more than anything anything? "
Yep |
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"Big turn off I dont like profiles with action shots and you have wayyy too many on public. But thats just my personal preference the less I see the more intrigued I am."
Getting women’s opinion is why I started this thread so appreciate your view. The dynamic of this is quite intriguing. It’s clear the overwhelming view is it’s a turn off.However I have had a lot of DMs from people saying turn on! But I’m wondering why they haven’t posted that view on the public thread!!! ??? |
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Big turn off
With havin piccys shaggin women
BAREBACK but u say safe sex on ur profile
Major turn off big time
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
As someone who gets nothing from MF pics and videos they don't do it for me.
I prefer MM. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
Not so much turn off but def bored after the first 3. Want to see a man in a man’s profile not man/woman.
V x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off for me. |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
Definitely turn off...
I think I need to wash my eyes after seeing those pics |
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It would be a no from me as well I'm afraid...to many explicit action shots and too many cock pics...one or two is more then enough |
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"Definitely turn off...
I think I need to wash my eyes after seeing those pics "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the fact you even ask, probably answers your own question? |
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"I think the fact you even ask, probably answers your own question? "
Well I had a lady I liked mention it to me which prompted me to ask |
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Big turn off. You're in decent shape but are massively reducing your chances of genuine meets. A jack hammer springs to mind! Agree that it's a shame your "lots" of DMs saying "turn on", haven't commented here. |
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Definitely a turn off. For me, too explicit and on a single man's profile I do not want to see action shots or women.
I know you said further up that they've all given their permission to be featured, but we don't know that from viewing
I didn't dare look at your videos.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the fact you even ask, probably answers your own question?
Well I had a lady I liked mention it to me which prompted me to ask "
Did she like it? Or did she mention it cos she didn't like it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about mine...turn on or off |
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"Big turn off. You're in decent shape but are massively reducing your chances of genuine meets. A jack hammer springs to mind! Agree that it's a shame your "lots" of DMs saying "turn on", haven't commented here."
I’ve just had one now and asked them exactly that . There reply “ what and get attacked by everyone! No chance “ |
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By *rs BxxWoman
over a year ago
Chippenham, Wiltshire. |
Totally turned off. Drilling tarmac springs to mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wtf
Woman saying sex vids ...are a turn off....on an explicit sex site.
Whit?
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Turn off for me also… but am sure some will like it |
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"Big turn off. You're in decent shape but are massively reducing your chances of genuine meets. A jack hammer springs to mind! Agree that it's a shame your "lots" of DMs saying "turn on", haven't commented here.
I’ve just had one now and asked them exactly that . There reply “ what and get attacked by everyone! No chance “"
People don't get attacked for liking a different flavour to others, people get "attacked" for things that are morally wrong, offensive or illegal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off |
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"Wtf
Woman saying sex vids ...are a turn off....on an explicit sex site.
Whit?
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I didn’t look at the vids and like any dic pick there’s only the need for one preferably not balls deep!  |
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Turn off I'm afraid. Not because of the content really, more the repetitive same position, anal, cum shot. All a little boring sorry |
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"Big turn off. You're in decent shape but are massively reducing your chances of genuine meets. A jack hammer springs to mind! Agree that it's a shame your "lots" of DMs saying "turn on", haven't commented here.
I’ve just had one now and asked them exactly that . There reply “ what and get attacked by everyone! No chance “
People don't get attacked for liking a different flavour to others, people get "attacked" for things that are morally wrong, offensive or illegal."
Just telling you what they said !! |
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Yes. Turn off.
If it's a single profile, I expect to see the single person, not an assortment of bodies. As an adult, I know what sex is and expect others to have experience it or learned. That anyone can pose for a pic with another person proves zilch about ability or being matched.
If someone insists on including others in their pics - and having consent is always a big alert - the single person should be over 90% of the flesh shown.
If a potential partner doesn't grasp that I need to assess their suitability, whilst having other profiles to check out too and they have made my job avoidably difficult, it is a reg flag that they are self-obsessed, clueless, thoughtless about my needs, or worse. |
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Turn off I'm afraid. Not because of the content really, more the repetitive same position, anal, cum shot. All a little boring sorry |
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Well it must be working for some !! |
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"Big turn off. You're in decent shape but are massively reducing your chances of genuine meets. A jack hammer springs to mind! Agree that it's a shame your "lots" of DMs saying "turn on", haven't commented here.
I’ve just had one now and asked them exactly that . There reply “ what and get attacked by everyone! No chance “
People don't get attacked for liking a different flavour to others, people get "attacked" for things that are morally wrong, offensive or illegal.
Just telling you what they said !!"
And I was just making things clear. I don't want people fearing posting due to feeling they'll get attacked for liking something others don't, not when there's nothing to be ashamed of. Everyone is different. |
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By *rs BxxWoman
over a year ago
Chippenham, Wiltshire. |
"Totally turned off. Drilling tarmac springs to mind "
OP... please reply in the forum and not PM so that everyone can see and give their views. |
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I feel like it’s worth saying that I think you take GREAT photos. I think they’re very hot, if they were a video on Pornhub (or similar), then I’d watch. And I wish my photos were as good.
The reason I said they were a turn off is because, for a single man’s profile I think the photos should be of you only. So they would make me not want to meet you. I’m a bit of a hypocrite though because I sometimes post pics/vids of me with my FWB on my profile and I’m a single woman. I post them because it turns me on knowing that people have seen us playing, and really I’m not trying to attract anyone through Fab, so it doesn’t matter.
If you get a kick out of posting the pics then I totally get that, but if you’re really wanting to use Fab to find meets you might be limiting your opportunities. |
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Your profile clearly works for some but for me it’s a turn off.
It’s too much like a porn casting couch. |
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I have no objections but yes I am male lol. You know what your getting what it says on the tin.
To be that isn't a bad thing at all. |
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"I feel like it’s worth saying that I think you take GREAT photos. I think they’re very hot, if they were a video on Pornhub (or similar), then I’d watch. And I wish my photos were as good.
The reason I said they were a turn off is because, for a single man’s profile I think the photos should be of you only. So they would make me not want to meet you. I’m a bit of a hypocrite though because I sometimes post pics/vids of me with my FWB on my profile and I’m a single woman. I post them because it turns me on knowing that people have seen us playing, and really I’m not trying to attract anyone through Fab, so it doesn’t matter.
If you get a kick out of posting the pics then I totally get that, but if you’re really wanting to use Fab to find meets you might be limiting your opportunities. "
That’s what I’m thinking! You can see I do pretty well on fab so if m not complaining, but I also don’t want to put off hot sexy women. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"I feel like it’s worth saying that I think you take GREAT photos. I think they’re very hot, if they were a video on Pornhub (or similar), then I’d watch. And I wish my photos were as good.
The reason I said they were a turn off is because, for a single man’s profile I think the photos should be of you only. So they would make me not want to meet you. I’m a bit of a hypocrite though because I sometimes post pics/vids of me with my FWB on my profile and I’m a single woman. I post them because it turns me on knowing that people have seen us playing, and really I’m not trying to attract anyone through Fab, so it doesn’t matter.
If you get a kick out of posting the pics then I totally get that, but if you’re really wanting to use Fab to find meets you might be limiting your opportunities.
That’s what I’m thinking! You can see I do pretty well on fab so if m not complaining, but I also don’t want to put off hot sexy women. "
Why not switch it about from time to time?
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"I feel like it’s worth saying that I think you take GREAT photos. I think they’re very hot, if they were a video on Pornhub (or similar), then I’d watch. And I wish my photos were as good.
The reason I said they were a turn off is because, for a single man’s profile I think the photos should be of you only. So they would make me not want to meet you. I’m a bit of a hypocrite though because I sometimes post pics/vids of me with my FWB on my profile and I’m a single woman. I post them because it turns me on knowing that people have seen us playing, and really I’m not trying to attract anyone through Fab, so it doesn’t matter.
If you get a kick out of posting the pics then I totally get that, but if you’re really wanting to use Fab to find meets you might be limiting your opportunities.
That’s what I’m thinking! You can see I do pretty well on fab so if m not complaining, but I also don’t want to put off hot sexy women. "
It doesn't look like you're doing as well as you'd like people to think. Agree with above, if it's Fabs off guys you're after, you're doing well. |
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"I feel like it’s worth saying that I think you take GREAT photos. I think they’re very hot, if they were a video on Pornhub (or similar), then I’d watch. And I wish my photos were as good.
The reason I said they were a turn off is because, for a single man’s profile I think the photos should be of you only. So they would make me not want to meet you. I’m a bit of a hypocrite though because I sometimes post pics/vids of me with my FWB on my profile and I’m a single woman. I post them because it turns me on knowing that people have seen us playing, and really I’m not trying to attract anyone through Fab, so it doesn’t matter.
If you get a kick out of posting the pics then I totally get that, but if you’re really wanting to use Fab to find meets you might be limiting your opportunities.
That’s what I’m thinking! You can see I do pretty well on fab so if m not complaining, but I also don’t want to put off hot sexy women.
It doesn't look like you're doing as well as you'd like people to think. Agree with above, if it's Fabs off guys you're after, you're doing well."
Ok your right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously hate to say it cause this lad was annoying the fuck out of me today his profile is none of my business probably brazzers he’s knocking boots with anyway !
but he said he’d market himself not saying in a good way but it’s an interesting thread and he’s taking a lot of shit today and he’s took it well !
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"I feel like it’s worth saying that I think you take GREAT photos. I think they’re very hot, if they were a video on Pornhub (or similar), then I’d watch. And I wish my photos were as good.
The reason I said they were a turn off is because, for a single man’s profile I think the photos should be of you only. So they would make me not want to meet you. I’m a bit of a hypocrite though because I sometimes post pics/vids of me with my FWB on my profile and I’m a single woman. I post them because it turns me on knowing that people have seen us playing, and really I’m not trying to attract anyone through Fab, so it doesn’t matter.
If you get a kick out of posting the pics then I totally get that, but if you’re really wanting to use Fab to find meets you might be limiting your opportunities.
That’s what I’m thinking! You can see I do pretty well on fab so if m not complaining, but I also don’t want to put off hot sexy women. "
Maybe do an overhaul for a few months, see if you get more meets. If you don’t you may as well put the pics back up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont see why your even asking to be honest the fact that you have had meets must tell you that its working for you ..
also the forums is a very small part of the whole site so your only getting a very small opinion...
as for you pics i dont see anything wrong with them i dont get all this its too rude we are on a adult site but the we are all different... |
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Do not wink us op , big turn off. Your pics are just wank material for guys ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some very interesting insights to be found on this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wtf
Woman saying sex vids ...are a turn off....on an explicit sex site.
Whit?
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And complaining of too many conquests. I almost spat my tea. So funny. But each ti their own, this place is full of crazy basket cases, hypocrisy and loveliness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wtf
Woman saying sex vids ...are a turn off....on an explicit sex site.
Whit?
And complaining of too many conquests. I almost spat my tea. So funny. But each ti their own, this place is full of crazy basket cases, hypocrisy and loveliness. "
If he was moaning about no attention we still give him shit hypocrisy? On here ? Naaa |
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"Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ?"
You have some great photos. I actually like your profile. |
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"Some very interesting insights to be found on this thread. "
Yep, always amazes me what things people choose to have a strong opinion on... It's never what you think it will be either!!
The real takeaway for me is that the best path is "just be yourself", because it's an unnavigable minefield trying to work out what pleases others, and really the best outcome is to find people that are pleased by you being you, not you being someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some very interesting insights to be found on this thread.
Yep, always amazes me what things people choose to have a strong opinion on... It's never what you think it will be either!!
The real takeaway for me is that the best path is "just be yourself", because it's an unnavigable minefield trying to work out what pleases others, and really the best outcome is to find people that are pleased by you being you, not you being someone else."
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"Some very interesting insights to be found on this thread.
Yep, always amazes me what things people choose to have a strong opinion on... It's never what you think it will be either!!
The real takeaway for me is that the best path is "just be yourself", because it's an unnavigable minefield trying to work out what pleases others, and really the best outcome is to find people that are pleased by you being you, not you being someone else."
Totally agree. I tried to be pretty sitting in fancy underwear but was way out my comfort zone. My profile now is just me and probably many don't like it but I will not apologise for being myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surprised you got that profile picture past admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a turn off for me, sorry. But it sounds like you’re doing okay for yourself so if it ain’t broke and all that |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
I'm sure it will appeal to some people, and you must like it yourself to have designed it in the way you have, it's not for me personally though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surprised you got that profile picture past admin "
Tell tale |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wtf
Woman saying sex vids ...are a turn off....on an explicit sex site.
Whit?
And complaining of too many conquests. I almost spat my tea. So funny. But each ti their own, this place is full of crazy basket cases, hypocrisy and loveliness. "
I really don't understand all the pissy responses...eg "you're single, why are you showing shagging lots of people"
What ? |
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It’s too in your face for me, I’m more for a subtle approach but it looks like it works for you so carry on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolute turn off. I detest seeing single guys profiles with pictures of them hanging out of some bird. Like why do guys think a picture of them with another woman would be a turn on.
In a site where men massively outnumber women I wouldn’t put pictures up that are only going to appeal to a very small percentage of people.
So yeah it’s a turn off, did I say it’s a turn off, yes, massively off putting. |
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I don’t think you need so many dick and action pics, gets boring really. I prefer sexy shots where my imagination gets going |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
london |
OP you are doing way better than the vast majority of men on this site so clearly you are doing something right. You won't appeal to everyone but if it ain't broke don't fix it stud |
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Admin is shite here, I'm sure it wasn't hard at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP is obviously popular, oh and an attention seeker |
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"OP is obviously popular, oh and an attention seeker"
Absolutely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread escalated whilst the OP isn’t for me, I fully support his choices on his profile and I’m a little surprised at some of the attitudes in here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And did you change your bio? I prefer this one! |
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"And did you change your bio? I prefer this one! "
Tbh I change things all the time particularly my profile photo.
Having requested and read all the feedback I think I will be adjusting my profile going forward. I think I can still be true to my personality and what I can offer but maybe not shove that in peoples faces from the outset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And did you change your bio? I prefer this one!
Tbh I change things all the time particularly my profile photo.
Having requested and read all the feedback I think I will be adjusting my profile going forward. I think I can still be true to my personality and what I can offer but maybe not shove that in peoples faces from the outset. "
Seems sensible! And if you’re happy with it and it’s attracting who you want I wouldn’t be too concerned! |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Let’s be honest OP this thread was a great marketing exercise to raise awareness and draw attention to your profile! And why not?
You clearly know your target audience and are clearly having success. You obviously have your sexual preferences and your profile (note you have updated and I have not really looked at new one) reflects your personality and how you approach swinging. So that will appeal to the type of people you hope to find. I suspect the people turned off or not attracted to your more explicit profile are probably not the kind you want to meet and play with anyway!
I say don’t change, be yourself, have fun. |
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"And did you change your bio? I prefer this one!
Tbh I change things all the time particularly my profile photo.
Having requested and read all the feedback I think I will be adjusting my profile going forward. I think I can still be true to my personality and what I can offer but maybe not shove that in peoples faces from the outset. "
Keep the pics with others private!  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Honestly, I’d rather see pics of just you and keep dick pics to a minimum. You do have some great pics where nothing is on show. Also since you do have a big cock some girls will be put off. |
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"Honestly, I’d rather see pics of just you and keep dick pics to a minimum. You do have some great pics where nothing is on show. Also since you do have a big cock some girls will be put off. "
Thanks for the feedback. I can change y profile but I’m afraid I’m stuck with my cock |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Back in Gatwick! |
"Totally turned off. Drilling tarmac springs to mind "
Exactly this.... I have chatted to the OP on a few occasions in the past, he is very polite, eloquent and I honestly think he is in great shape, great body and great cock! But from all the photos and videos it looks like it’s a one trick show, just being rammed from behind, and according to some veris “for hours...” no way I could stand that!
And also I wouldn’t want to be fucked like the last woman he’d met in his life (as per profile text) and then see photos/videos with more women 2 days later!  of course that has more to do with me than the profile critique but I wouldn’t want to be part of a catalogue, so to speak.
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"Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ?
You have some great photos. I actually like your profile."
That’s because your photos are equally naughty…..and we love them |
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"Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ?
You have some great photos. I actually like your profile.
That’s because your photos are equally naughty…..and we love them "
Thank you because I love taking them. |
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"It's a good selection of pics and vids, yes very porno, but it looks like that's what your into so be honest and show it!
Anyone looking knows they are going to get done up the bum, bent into all sorts of positions and have a big load on their face... Good to know if you seek that sort of thing.
I was going to say pasting veri's in your profile was lazy, but reading them you have other people writing a rather good profile for you, which is actually rather great."
“Done up the bum” pmsl |
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"Totally turned off. Drilling tarmac springs to mind
Exactly this.... I have chatted to the OP on a few occasions in the past, he is very polite, eloquent and I honestly think he is in great shape, great body and great cock! But from all the photos and videos it looks like it’s a one trick show, just being rammed from behind, and according to some veris “for hours...” no way I could stand that!
And also I wouldn’t want to be fucked like the last woman he’d met in his life (as per profile text) and then see photos/videos with more women 2 days later! of course that has more to do with me than the profile critique but I wouldn’t want to be part of a catalogue, so to speak.
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Thanks for the insight. What would be really interesting is to hear what sort of bio, photos and video on a guys profile would turn your head? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
"Let’s be honest OP this thread was a great marketing exercise to raise awareness and draw attention to your profile! And why not?
You clearly know your target audience and are clearly having success. You obviously have your sexual preferences and your profile (note you have updated and I have not really looked at new one) reflects your personality and how you approach swinging. So that will appeal to the type of people you hope to find. I suspect the people turned off or not attracted to your more explicit profile are probably not the kind you want to meet and play with anyway!
I say don’t change, be yourself, have fun. "
I'd agree with this. OP, what you're doing works for you. As a marketing strategy this has been top notch but the reality is you don't need to change your profile to appease those you're incompatible with.
We all use Fab in different ways and there's no right or wrong way to use it - you'll find the women who suit you if you keep to your original profile. |
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I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods? |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods? "
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Let’s be honest OP this thread was a great marketing exercise to raise awareness and draw attention to your profile! And why not?
You clearly know your target audience and are clearly having success. You obviously have your sexual preferences and your profile (note you have updated and I have not really looked at new one) reflects your personality and how you approach swinging. So that will appeal to the type of people you hope to find. I suspect the people turned off or not attracted to your more explicit profile are probably not the kind you want to meet and play with anyway!
I say don’t change, be yourself, have fun.
I'd agree with this. OP, what you're doing works for you. As a marketing strategy this has been top notch but the reality is you don't need to change your profile to appease those you're incompatible with.
We all use Fab in different ways and there's no right or wrong way to use it - you'll find the women who suit you if you keep to your original profile."
Gonna go further here - I suspect this was primarily a marketing exercise. The profile has hardly changed and new first pic is a screenshot showing over 1000 views. Something the OP is clearly proud of.
The “is my profile too explicit” was a rhetorical question.
I reckon there is a bit of a “flasher syndrome” at work here. The OP gets a kick out of women who might not normally look at his profile doing so. They are looking at his big cock and explicit pics and giving feedback. That is a turn on like flashing!
NOT a criticism! Hey whatever works right? If you have a kinky itch to scratch then Fab is the right place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a good selection of pics and vids, yes very porno, but it looks like that's what your into so be honest and show it!
Anyone looking knows they are going to get done up the bum, bent into all sorts of positions and have a big load on their face... Good to know if you seek that sort of thing.
I was going to say pasting veri's in your profile was lazy, but reading them you have other people writing a rather good profile for you, which is actually rather great."
This made me chuckle |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you "
No I meant the one that shows you have no messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let’s be honest OP this thread was a great marketing exercise to raise awareness and draw attention to your profile! And why not?
You clearly know your target audience and are clearly having success. You obviously have your sexual preferences and your profile (note you have updated and I have not really looked at new one) reflects your personality and how you approach swinging. So that will appeal to the type of people you hope to find. I suspect the people turned off or not attracted to your more explicit profile are probably not the kind you want to meet and play with anyway!
I say don’t change, be yourself, have fun.
I'd agree with this. OP, what you're doing works for you. As a marketing strategy this has been top notch but the reality is you don't need to change your profile to appease those you're incompatible with.
We all use Fab in different ways and there's no right or wrong way to use it - you'll find the women who suit you if you keep to your original profile.
Gonna go further here - I suspect this was primarily a marketing exercise. The profile has hardly changed and new first pic is a screenshot showing over 1000 views. Something the OP is clearly proud of.
The “is my profile too explicit” was a rhetorical question.
I reckon there is a bit of a “flasher syndrome” at work here. The OP gets a kick out of women who might not normally look at his profile doing so. They are looking at his big cock and explicit pics and giving feedback. That is a turn on like flashing!
NOT a criticism! Hey whatever works right? If you have a kinky itch to scratch then Fab is the right place!"
That's a great theory. I like how you think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What the OP is doing is no different to all the other threads of people asking to help with their profiles...your profile is what it is,I'm not your target audience so it's not for me to say if it's good or not x |
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"Let’s be honest OP this thread was a great marketing exercise to raise awareness and draw attention to your profile! And why not?
You clearly know your target audience and are clearly having success. You obviously have your sexual preferences and your profile (note you have updated and I have not really looked at new one) reflects your personality and how you approach swinging. So that will appeal to the type of people you hope to find. I suspect the people turned off or not attracted to your more explicit profile are probably not the kind you want to meet and play with anyway!
I say don’t change, be yourself, have fun.
I'd agree with this. OP, what you're doing works for you. As a marketing strategy this has been top notch but the reality is you don't need to change your profile to appease those you're incompatible with.
We all use Fab in different ways and there's no right or wrong way to use it - you'll find the women who suit you if you keep to your original profile.
Gonna go further here - I suspect this was primarily a marketing exercise. The profile has hardly changed and new first pic is a screenshot showing over 1000 views. Something the OP is clearly proud of.
The “is my profile too explicit” was a rhetorical question.
I reckon there is a bit of a “flasher syndrome” at work here. The OP gets a kick out of women who might not normally look at his profile doing so. They are looking at his big cock and explicit pics and giving feedback. That is a turn on like flashing!
NOT a criticism! Hey whatever works right? If you have a kinky itch to scratch then Fab is the right place!"
I can genuinely say the thread was not a marketing exercise. I’ve had a few gorgeous ladies recently approach me but then put off saying I’m too active. Hence asking you lovely ladies for feedback. What they don’t realise is I’ve been on fan nearly 10 years and I have a sizeable back catalogue  pics and videos are from that and yes I post regularly to keep interest in my profile which is definitely a marketing exercise. Most of my fwbs are into taking photos etc and I only post on my profile if I have there consent. Pre Covid I would average having sex about once every 4-6 weeks. It’s hardly prolific. By fab standards. It’s easy to make assumptions about people on here and I have created my own problem by how my profile comes across. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever you're doing, seems to be working to be honest.
Are you sure you're not posting to get more attention on here?
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
No I meant the one that shows you have no messages
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No unread ones no I haven’t |
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"Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ?"
No need for people to meet you as they have seen it all, leaves nothing to the imagination. |
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"Interested in what the ladies think about my profile! Turn on or turn off ?
No need for people to meet you as they have seen it all, leaves nothing to the imagination."
Lots of men posting comments on here when OP clearly asked what ladies think about his profile ! |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
Brighton |
"Let’s be honest OP this thread was a great marketing exercise to raise awareness and draw attention to your profile! And why not?
You clearly know your target audience and are clearly having success. You obviously have your sexual preferences and your profile (note you have updated and I have not really looked at new one) reflects your personality and how you approach swinging. So that will appeal to the type of people you hope to find. I suspect the people turned off or not attracted to your more explicit profile are probably not the kind you want to meet and play with anyway!
I say don’t change, be yourself, have fun.
I'd agree with this. OP, what you're doing works for you. As a marketing strategy this has been top notch but the reality is you don't need to change your profile to appease those you're incompatible with.
We all use Fab in different ways and there's no right or wrong way to use it - you'll find the women who suit you if you keep to your original profile.
Gonna go further here - I suspect this was primarily a marketing exercise. The profile has hardly changed and new first pic is a screenshot showing over 1000 views. Something the OP is clearly proud of.
The “is my profile too explicit” was a rhetorical question.
I reckon there is a bit of a “flasher syndrome” at work here. The OP gets a kick out of women who might not normally look at his profile doing so. They are looking at his big cock and explicit pics and giving feedback. That is a turn on like flashing!
NOT a criticism! Hey whatever works right? If you have a kinky itch to scratch then Fab is the right place!
I can genuinely say the thread was not a marketing exercise. I’ve had a few gorgeous ladies recently approach me but then put off saying I’m too active. Hence asking you lovely ladies for feedback. What they don’t realise is I’ve been on fan nearly 10 years and I have a sizeable back catalogue pics and videos are from that and yes I post regularly to keep interest in my profile which is definitely a marketing exercise. Most of my fwbs are into taking photos etc and I only post on my profile if I have there consent. Pre Covid I would average having sex about once every 4-6 weeks. It’s hardly prolific. By fab standards. It’s easy to make assumptions about people on here and I have created my own problem by how my profile comes across."
As I say, if you prefer your meets to be hardcore fucking (someone said jackhammer) then fill your suited boots! Do what YOU enjoy with likeminded ladies.
Quite a few very attractive ladies have provided consistent advice in this thread but you are yet to act on it. Again, as I say, I suspect they may not really be for you either as won’t enjoy same things.
There is no wrong or right way of doing Fab (except being polite to people). We are all exploring our own kinks and hoping to find like-minded people to play with.
If you are genuinely disappointed that the “few gorgeous ladies recently approach me but then put off saying I’m too active” thing then you should action the advice.
Personally, I don’t think you should. Just be yourself and find likeminded people to be filthy with. |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you "
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already. "
Show off |
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over a year ago
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And here's me thinking I've had a great day with 81 people viewing my profile today |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already. "
Your competitive about that aren’t you? |
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It’s really simple....
If you like your profile, keep it your not here to please anyone else!
It’s up to you what you do with the feedback you asked for, but don’t change who you are and what you like what’s the point in that!
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"It’s really simple....
If you like your profile, keep it your not here to please anyone else!
It’s up to you what you do with the feedback you asked for, but don’t change who you are and what you like what’s the point in that!
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Agree with this. Whilst the photos are gorgeous, beautifully shot, maybe too many and could be kept private and sent out when needed.
Not a fan of videos in general, though yours are more tasteful than many.
Remember your first suited and booted profile, that had a different flavour all together.
Keep happy x |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you? "
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures. |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures. "
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it |
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over a year ago
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it "
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time. |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you? "
very |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time. "
Congratulations |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations "
I don't believe for a moment there was any fishing for congratulations, merely stating facts.
Unless of course your congratulations were insincere and an attempt at sarcasm. In which case, wasted. |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations
I don't believe for a moment there was any fishing for congratulations, merely stating facts.
Unless of course your congratulations were insincere and an attempt at sarcasm. In which case, wasted."
100% sarcasm in response to sarcasm. You are very active on the forums yet every single post you make is either negative or critical so I won’t lose any sleep over your opinion tbh |
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over a year ago
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations "
You brought up the page 1 thing. I simply stated that it’s not a big deal for me as it happens all the time. There’s nothing I want from this site so I don’t want compliments, don't need views of my profile, don’t want messages. I don’t want anything that could disturb my peace. |
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I've been tempted to ask for advice on my profile before but was scared of what replies I'd get and the amount of messages. As long as you are meeting decent people and having fun it's all good |
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over a year ago
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It's ok - nice cock lol |
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations
I don't believe for a moment there was any fishing for congratulations, merely stating facts.
Unless of course your congratulations were insincere and an attempt at sarcasm. In which case, wasted.
100% sarcasm in response to sarcasm. You are very active on the forums yet every single post you make is either negative or critical so I won’t lose any sleep over your opinion tbh "
Princess Peach is awesome! Yes she is active on the forums she is not always negative or critical but she is funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations
I don't believe for a moment there was any fishing for congratulations, merely stating facts.
Unless of course your congratulations were insincere and an attempt at sarcasm. In which case, wasted.
100% sarcasm in response to sarcasm. You are very active on the forums yet every single post you make is either negative or critical so I won’t lose any sleep over your opinion tbh "
You’re coming across as very unkind in this thread |
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"I've been tempted to ask for advice on my profile before but was scared of what replies I'd get and the amount of messages. As long as you are meeting decent people and having fun it's all good"
I totally get what you’re saying. Had a lot of dm messages saying don’t change it but they are scared to put that on the thread due to the powerful critics that rule the forums . I’ve got the skin of a Rhino so for me it’s been worth the risk and the flack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time. "
A bit like a balloon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations
I don't believe for a moment there was any fishing for congratulations, merely stating facts.
Unless of course your congratulations were insincere and an attempt at sarcasm. In which case, wasted.
100% sarcasm in response to sarcasm. You are very active on the forums yet every single post you make is either negative or critical so I won’t lose any sleep over your opinion tbh "
Ahh you’ve done it now mate. You don’t want to ruffle the feathers of two of the most ball busting bitches on here. Think legion of doom with lipstick and cute tits. I’d retract if I were you. Can’t see it ending well to be honest but consider this, neither peach or I want anything from anyone on here, no agenda, nobody we want to impress so when you take all that away all you have are honest views and opinions.
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"I'm more curious as to how you got a screenshot passed photo mods?
Oh yeah , you mean the one showing I got over 1000 profile views yesterday? I will remove it now if it’s offending you
Meh, 16,842 views of my profile already.
Your competitive about that aren’t you?
Not really. If it was something to boast about I’d maybe take a screen shot of it and post it on my public pictures.
Well if it helped keep you on page 1 I’m sure you would consider it
I was top of page 1 for 2 days but what goes up must come down. It’s the natural order of things. When I upload a new picture it will go to page 1 again, from there it will make its way to the top and then make its decline. Happens. All. The. Time.
Congratulations
I don't believe for a moment there was any fishing for congratulations, merely stating facts.
Unless of course your congratulations were insincere and an attempt at sarcasm. In which case, wasted.
100% sarcasm in response to sarcasm. You are very active on the forums yet every single post you make is either negative or critical so I won’t lose any sleep over your opinion tbh
Ahh you’ve done it now mate. You don’t want to ruffle the feathers of two of the most ball busting bitches on here. Think legion of doom with lipstick and cute tits. I’d retract if I were you. Can’t see it ending well to be honest but consider this, neither peach or I want anything from anyone on here, no agenda, nobody we want to impress so when you take all that away all you have are honest views and opinions.
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You've got rid of the silly fake pasted veris, so that's made your profile a little better already |
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