Hello all. I hope everyone is keeping safe and well. I have a question that's been irking me. I've messaged a few ladies that have taken my interest and have made an effort to read their profile etc; message them accordingly/sincerely. Some havnt even replied. Given it is their choice which I respect. What I don't seem to understand is that I view their pics/vids/verifications and the people they have been with... Without trying to sound mean in the slightest way are not as physically attractive as me. I send face pics etc and it's my choice not to display alot on my profile. I hope this post has not made me come across in a bad light. Appologies if anyone has taken offence in advance. Happy fabbing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Remember physical attraction is different for different people. You may not be their type, though to others you may definitely be their type. "
Exactly this.
What you consider to be attractive isn't the same as someone else.
To be fair OP, your post comes across as somewhat arrogant and entitled - not a good look |
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"Hello all. I hope everyone is keeping safe and well. I have a question that's been irking me. I've messaged a few ladies that have taken my interest and have made an effort to read their profile etc; message them accordingly/sincerely. Some havnt even replied. Given it is their choice which I respect. What I don't seem to understand is that I view their pics/vids/verifications and the people they have been with... Without trying to sound mean in the slightest way are not as physically attractive as me. I send face pics etc and it's my choice not to display alot on my profile. I hope this post has not made me come across in a bad light. Appologies if anyone has taken offence in advance. Happy fabbing "
I see where you’re coming from. It’s like if a guy messaged me, I check out the women in their profile, and 9/10 they are smaller than me, and I come away thinking they won’t want to play with a bbw girl  |
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"A case of think before you post here hah"
Not at all. It is a genuine question and nothing arrogant about it. This is a forum and I think it's fair to relay my thoughts. I've appologised in advance if my post offends and one and like to think most level headed people will see the post for what it is... A genuine question without prejudice. Thanks |
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"Bluntly... To that person your not all that,,,, therefore move on
Wow what's with the saltyness gents?  "
No saltyness sir. Sorry you see it that way. None of us are everyone's cup of tea. You are questioning someone else's choices because of how you see yourself in comparison to her previous verifications. There is a hint of you saying YOU feel that YOU would be a better match..... YOUVE decided...... Are you getting it yet |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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Personally I tend to look at a profile before I decide whether to even open a message. If that profile has absolutely nothing on it that intrigues me or captures my interest, then I probably wouldn't read the message.
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Hmm dont think the OP is coming across arrogant, entitled slightly but not arrogant as some have suggested. I get where hes coming from as I can relate, example if I message a lady who is only after ‘bbc’and they dont reply to me am like ‘whats wrong with me’ lol but as others have mentioned it maybe other factors involved such as your veris, cant accomadate, or profile just wasnt appealing. Not everything is down to the physical. I have probably slept with other women where guys were thinkin the same about me. The game is the game. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
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Looks are so subjective though. Mrs. C. wouldn't be most guys cup of tea I'm sure, and nor would I for that matter, it's just finding the right person/people - which I'll grant you can be frustrating at times.
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Hello all. I hope everyone is keeping safe and well. I have a question that's been irking me. I've messaged a few ladies that have taken my interest and have made an effort to read their profile etc; message them accordingly/sincerely. Some havnt even replied. Given it is their choice which I respect. What I don't seem to understand is that I view their pics/vids/verifications and the people they have been with... Without trying to sound mean in the slightest way are not as physically attractive as me. I send face pics etc and it's my choice not to display alot on my profile. I hope this post has not made me come across in a bad light. Appologies if anyone has taken offence in advance. Happy fabbing "
It sounds like you are comparing your body to their body - for a lot of the ladies, the face is more important than the body.
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women have loads of criteria upon which they base their choice of man here and elsewhere. I'm not being rude here or referring to anyone personally but a lot of men seem to be very confused by women not liking what men think they should.
If a woman chooses someone other than you (generic you) it's because *in her opinion* they fit what she finds attractive, your (again generic) opinion doesn't come into it.
Plenty of women will find you're what they like op, I wish you luck in finding them |
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