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Single Women Club advice please ??
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By *anKate OP Woman
over a year ago
Kidsgrove |
Hello!
Just looking for some advice/conversations with fellow single ladies in club settings.
I've been to Xtasia once with my partner but was lockdown so no play. He's now back out on the road working for 6 weeks.
And I am interested in going to a club night, but will be on my own and don't really know anyone.
How do people get on with this?
What are your experiences? Do you tend to chat first online and then plan to meet up with others?
Or just go and see what happens?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a special rule where women on their own have to dress as meerkats and say "Eep! Eep!"
When they do that, they are welcomed with open arms.
But don't dress as a badger, whatever you do. That's frowned on seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your pics are fantastic, you are beautiful. As always with clubs, most if not all are respectful of rules and boundaries. Just go, enjoy yourself, chat to whomever you feel comfortable with and there are no expectations except your own. |
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By *anKate OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There's a special rule where women on their own have to dress as meerkats and say "Eep! Eep!"
When they do that, they are welcomed with open arms.
But don't dress as a badger, whatever you do. That's frowned on seriously."
Wow thanks. So glad I asked for advice, I had my Badger outfit ready. Glad to have insider knowledge now. Phew! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a special rule where women on their own have to dress as meerkats and say "Eep! Eep!"
When they do that, they are welcomed with open arms.
But don't dress as a badger, whatever you do. That's frowned on seriously.
Wow thanks. So glad I asked for advice, I had my Badger outfit ready. Glad to have insider knowledge now. Phew! "
Happy to help. Here's an easy way to remember: cripes! Don't wear stripes! |
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"Hello!
Just looking for some advice/conversations with fellow single ladies in club settings.
I've been to Xtasia once with my partner but was lockdown so no play. He's now back out on the road working for 6 weeks.
And I am interested in going to a club night, but will be on my own and don't really know anyone.
How do people get on with this?
What are your experiences? Do you tend to chat first online and then plan to meet up with others?
Or just go and see what happens?
"
Cant honestly talk about Xtasia as never been but.....
Honestly depends what you're after. You're a babe so standing at the bar on your own would probably be enough. You'll have people coming and talking to you in no time. We're not the most Club hardened couple but on our few ventures to one we've never seen a single lady struggle.
Point in case, our last visit to a club had a single lady right behind us as we entered. Whilst talking in que, she told us it was her first ever club visit and she was very nervous. Just friendly conversation as we all waited in line.
20 mins later she was up against the wall in the bar with her tongue down two guys throats. She seemed really happy (wont say what we saw later in the evening).
Obviously its club and crowd dependant but as a single lady in a club, people will probably come to you, not the other way around.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hello!
Just looking for some advice/conversations with fellow single ladies in club settings.
I've been to Xtasia once with my partner but was lockdown so no play. He's now back out on the road working for 6 weeks.
And I am interested in going to a club night, but will be on my own and don't really know anyone.
How do people get on with this?
What are your experiences? Do you tend to chat first online and then plan to meet up with others?
Or just go and see what happens?
Cant honestly talk about Xtasia as never been but.....
Honestly depends what you're after. You're a babe so standing at the bar on your own would probably be enough. You'll have people coming and talking to you in no time. We're not the most Club hardened couple but on our few ventures to one we've never seen a single lady struggle.
Point in case, our last visit to a club had a single lady right behind us as we entered. Whilst talking in que, she told us it was her first ever club visit and she was very nervous. Just friendly conversation as we all waited in line.
20 mins later she was up against the wall in the bar with her tongue down two guys throats. She seemed really happy (wont say what we saw later in the evening).
Obviously its club and crowd dependant but as a single lady in a club, people will probably come to you, not the other way around.
"
She must have dressed as a meerkat  |
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By *anKate OP Woman
over a year ago
Kidsgrove |
"Hello!
Just looking for some advice/conversations with fellow single ladies in club settings.
I've been to Xtasia once with my partner but was lockdown so no play. He's now back out on the road working for 6 weeks.
And I am interested in going to a club night, but will be on my own and don't really know anyone.
How do people get on with this?
What are your experiences? Do you tend to chat first online and then plan to meet up with others?
Or just go and see what happens?
Cant honestly talk about Xtasia as never been but.....
Honestly depends what you're after. You're a babe so standing at the bar on your own would probably be enough. You'll have people coming and talking to you in no time. We're not the most Club hardened couple but on our few ventures to one we've never seen a single lady struggle.
Point in case, our last visit to a club had a single lady right behind us as we entered. Whilst talking in que, she told us it was her first ever club visit and she was very nervous. Just friendly conversation as we all waited in line.
20 mins later she was up against the wall in the bar with her tongue down two guys throats. She seemed really happy (wont say what we saw later in the evening).
Obviously its club and crowd dependant but as a single lady in a club, people will probably come to you, not the other way around.
She must have dressed as a meerkat "
Impressive split tongue action there... |
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By *anKate OP Woman
over a year ago
Kidsgrove |
"Hello!
Just looking for some advice/conversations with fellow single ladies in club settings.
I've been to Xtasia once with my partner but was lockdown so no play. He's now back out on the road working for 6 weeks.
And I am interested in going to a club night, but will be on my own and don't really know anyone.
How do people get on with this?
What are your experiences? Do you tend to chat first online and then plan to meet up with others?
Or just go and see what happens?
Cant honestly talk about Xtasia as never been but.....
Honestly depends what you're after. You're a babe so standing at the bar on your own would probably be enough. You'll have people coming and talking to you in no time. We're not the most Club hardened couple but on our few ventures to one we've never seen a single lady struggle.
Point in case, our last visit to a club had a single lady right behind us as we entered. Whilst talking in que, she told us it was her first ever club visit and she was very nervous. Just friendly conversation as we all waited in line.
20 mins later she was up against the wall in the bar with her tongue down two guys throats. She seemed really happy (wont say what we saw later in the evening).
Obviously its club and crowd dependant but as a single lady in a club, people will probably come to you, not the other way around.
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OK, that's good to know. I guess it's just that initiating bit.
I like to chat with people and see if I can get on first.
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"Hello!
Just looking for some advice/conversations with fellow single ladies in club settings.
I've been to Xtasia once with my partner but was lockdown so no play. He's now back out on the road working for 6 weeks.
And I am interested in going to a club night, but will be on my own and don't really know anyone.
How do people get on with this?
What are your experiences? Do you tend to chat first online and then plan to meet up with others?
Or just go and see what happens?
Cant honestly talk about Xtasia as never been but.....
Honestly depends what you're after. You're a babe so standing at the bar on your own would probably be enough. You'll have people coming and talking to you in no time. We're not the most Club hardened couple but on our few ventures to one we've never seen a single lady struggle.
Point in case, our last visit to a club had a single lady right behind us as we entered. Whilst talking in que, she told us it was her first ever club visit and she was very nervous. Just friendly conversation as we all waited in line.
20 mins later she was up against the wall in the bar with her tongue down two guys throats. She seemed really happy (wont say what we saw later in the evening).
Obviously its club and crowd dependant but as a single lady in a club, people will probably come to you, not the other way around.
OK, that's good to know. I guess it's just that initiating bit.
I like to chat with people and see if I can get on first.
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Completely fair and we like to chat to people too but odds are, people are more likely to approach you than the other way around so you'll be in control we assume. |
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I have often gone to clubs on my own with no issues. I prefer to go to chams in Darlaston but I'm sure it translates to other clubs. Guys will approach so just be clear in what you are looking for and choose who you want to play with. |
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