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Do you let your wife play alone or always present?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do |
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I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.
For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.
I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.
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"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.
For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.
I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.
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I don't mean let she could do whatever she likes but I just couldn't see her doing that .she's not that type but who knows I didn't know she would be into this lmao |
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"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.
For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.
I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.
I don't mean let she could do whatever she likes but I just couldn't see her doing that .she's not that type but who knows I didn't know she would be into this lmao"
I've discovered I enjoy all sorts of things that I hadn't even considered 15 years ago  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.
For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.
I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.
I don't mean let she could do whatever she likes but I just couldn't see her doing that .she's not that type but who knows I didn't know she would be into this lmao
I've discovered I enjoy all sorts of things that I hadn't even considered 15 years ago "
Yes I guess time will tell .. I hope that doesn't happen that she wants to play alone anyway I wouldn't be happy with that but then il get "well why did you get into this lifestyle" won't i |
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When we started I was adamant I'd only meet alone as I wouldn't be able to be myself and relax with my husband present & he was fine with that as long as I let him know so he knew I was safe
Fast forward a few months & we had our first theeesome together abd I quickly realised I didn't care whether he was there or not
Since then he has been present but mainly because we like to film & take photos during our meets, so he plays camera man while I'm having fun |
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To me swinging is adding to our sex life not instead of our sexlife I wouldn’t want to meet someone/ or people without him. Also he is my safety net incase it’s dodgy etc
Before anyone says it i’m not saying meeting alone is wrong it’s just not for me |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
Skegness |
"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "
i with you on the play together but she dos play same room on her own when i worn out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To me swinging is adding to our sex life not instead of our sexlife I wouldn’t want to meet someone/ or people without him. Also he is my safety net incase it’s dodgy etc
Before anyone says it i’m not saying meeting alone is wrong it’s just not for me"
Sensible reply well said . I agree |
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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago
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Mrs Smith is bi so she attends Skirt Club parties and meets other bi girls privately by herself.
In return she’s happy I meet couples on my own.
‘Letting’ isn’t really the correct adjective, it’s more a case of respecting each other’s desires and both enjoying all that that brings.
One day she’ll bring a friend home! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
She likes ladies, so her sexuality needs means she does occasionally.
She has been with other men, not for awhile for some reason.
I play alone to satisfy my D/s need.
However, we prefer to play with others together. |
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"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
we now happily play seperately
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "
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"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
we now happily play seperately
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "
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"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.
For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.
I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.
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Surely the "mutual agreement" is to "let" either partner play alone? |
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I don't play alone.
I will meet others with Husband present only.
He doesn't always want to join in, that's up to him... but if he isn't there, it doesn't happen.
Other way around too.
Our swinging only works when we do it with both present even if only one plays. |
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We have done both and absolutely loved it.
Met a great gentleman at a club and knew he had chemistry with my gorgeous lady. He got in touch saying he’d love to see her again.
Who was I to stop this from happening.
So whilst I was at work she popped round to his for round 2.
Made for the horniest afternoon as she sent me photos and even left a voicemail on my phone.
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"I always play alone. V stays at home & watches on an app, i go off to play.
We cant host & have children so cant both travel."
What is the app called please, we'd love to try doing something like that xx |
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"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "
We are the same. For us this is about us as a couple wether the play is with couples or singles we get an extra thrill from being there and invovled in the play.
If anyone judges that wrong move on. We will.   |
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We both play alone and together, having a child quite often means one of us stays home while the other goes out.
When we first started I never thought I'd be comfortable with the arrangement, but now find it quite a turn on.
I do enjoy it when the wife send pictures and videos while out. |
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Depends on the guy, how well we know and where our relationship is at with him.
Over the years I’ve stayed at home whilst the guy has taken her out of a date, as cuck it’s both exciting and frustrating ! |
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We didn't think we would either for a start but things change and you realise it's all just about having fun.
She has met guys now a couple times on her own and it's been a turn on for both of us, she says she still prefers when I'm there but there was a different excitement to being alone and the same for me. Getting pics and videos sent while not there is pretty horny.
What you think you want now to what your comfortable with and turns you on will change over time. |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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I've asked my wife to have a cuckold relationship but she point blank refused. If she had agreed I would have preferred us to play together as I enjoy the watching and taking part at the end, (cleaning up),but would also like the feeling of her coming home after a meet and telling me exactly what happened while she either cages me or releases me to wank while telling me of her fun meet. |
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My wife goes out and plays with her “friend” alone.
They go to clubs together and both he and she enjoy the freedom this brings her.
We also attend clubs together and play together with single guys and couples.
So to answer your questions we do both. |
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We mix it up, clubs together and trusted friends Jane meets on her own.
The thrill of them acting like a couple (away from home area) is such a turn on. Kissing in public, holding hands and touching. By the time she comes home the next day I’m rampant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had our first cuckold experience yesterday, I was at work when my wife had someone over. Was a great experience all round, the guy was supposedly lovely and very considerate. Could imagine this scenario has the potential to go wrong if the guy involved is a bit mental! |
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By *ita7Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
I have been meeting alone with my sub for couple if years now, first meet of the year this Friday. First met her as a couple with hubby 4/5 years ago. It was after one hot meet that he said to me she is your sub now. That was real special moment & it's been fantastic hot sex ever since. |
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"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "
My wife has played with her girlfriends without me, but never with a guy. I would have to know him really well to trust that. Plus I would be so jealous to watch her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.
For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.
I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.
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well said we do thing we not him not her simple convo between loving adults mr can do as please mrs can do as please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences
I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening
As the female, I don't want, nor would feel comfortable playing alone, and I wouldn't feel comfortable with M playing alone either. We're doing this together, so for us that's how it is.
J x
Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "
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