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Do you feel like your weird being into this lifestyle/ kink
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me |
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Some people think that people who go train spotting are weird.
Some people think vegans and vegetarians are weird.
Some people think those who watch Love Island are weird.
Different strokes, different folks? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people think that people who go train spotting are weird.
Some people think vegans and vegetarians are weird.
Some people think those who watch Love Island are weird.
Different strokes, different folks?"
That's what I like to think too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes Mr NBVN reminds me that my brain is wired differently to others regarding kinks etc but he likes that about me and I like being able to be completely myself with him.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We still have a vanilla head and when we are using that we look at each other and think ‘WTF are we doing?’
Then we laugh and get on with it 
K"
End of the day its just sex isn't it ..its a pleasure ..its not like its harming anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't feel weird.. I love having a secret little life no one knows about
That one main things i always liked. I love listening to vanilla people talk saying how can men share there wives etc.
Mrs x"
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"We still have a vanilla head and when we are using that we look at each other and think ‘WTF are we doing?’
Then we laugh and get on with it
K"
Exactly this, before every meet I turn to my husband and ask him WTF we are doing, then go ahead and have the most amazing evening!! Very vanilla school mum the rest of the time (except for the fact I’m always horny!!)
J
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I think people in monogamous (monotonous) long term relationships are weird. The idea you only have physical attraction that you act on, and sexual experiences with one person from marriage to death is bizarre.
I reckon those not in the lifestyle are missing out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am not sure how long it will take to change outside attitudes about this but ye can be a pain to think like that. just remember it's s okay to be you, no one else gets to decide that and there is nothing strange about it really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think people in monogamous (monotonous) long term relationships are weird. The idea you only have physical attraction that you act on, and sexual experiences with one person from marriage to death is bizarre.
I reckon those not in the lifestyle are missing out.
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I actually think if the idea was bought up in marriage most would be game . |
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"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me"
Many folk are programmed to behave in a certain way and anything outside that is 'weird' to them. Some fantasize about swinging but don't have the nerve to try for fear of someone finding out, ridiculing them, losing their job, being spread all over Facebook or whatever. Many don't realise that life is for living, love for giving and that we only live once, that it can be much shorter than we'd hope too.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me
Many folk are programmed to behave in a certain way and anything outside that is 'weird' to them. Some fantasize about swinging but don't have the nerve to try for fear of someone finding out, ridiculing them, losing their job, being spread all over Facebook or whatever. Many don't realise that life is for living, love for giving and that we only live once, that it can be much shorter than we'd hope too...."
Brilliant reply hit the nail on the head there .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me"
I was thinking about swinging just today like how it’s weird guys like other guys fucking their wife but heyho it’s all fun and everyone happy |
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"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me
I was thinking about swinging just today like how it’s weird guys like other guys fucking their wife but heyho it’s all fun and everyone happy "
I know right me too |
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By *redjMan
over a year ago
gloucestershire |
Are we really weird ?? When people do accidentally find out their soooo intrigued and ask lots of questions, they may judge us they may not 
The way i see it we’re not weird, we’re living a lifestyle lots of others wish they could !! |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"I don't feel weird but I do think it's like a secret world that the vanilla folk wouldn't understand  "
Yes and especially prior to Internet it was much more underground and very much unknown as generally opposed to present times. |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me
I was thinking about swinging just today like how it’s weird guys like other guys fucking their wife but heyho it’s all fun and everyone happy "
Yes admit that many would consider me weird but it has been addictive and very much fun that other men have fucked my wife |
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"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me
I was thinking about swinging just today like how it’s weird guys like other guys fucking their wife but heyho it’s all fun and everyone happy
I know right me too"
So, have you plucked up the courage to ask your wife yet? |
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There will always be judgemental people,but those people are judgemental because they arent happy ,but i wonder how many of these people watch gangbang porn ,3 somes etc ,lol ,their loss,judge away,were the people with smiles on our faces  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all, the hardiest thing I find is want a regular partner the same!!
My thoughts I love sex fun some people like golf or cricket
Some men have sex on birthdays with lights off
I like sex all the time
Maybe it's me lol |
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"Do you feel like your weird and outsiders will think omg how can someone do that if their in a relationship type of thing ? Us all here at in the same boat .. I question myself sometimes and think am I weird for liking this? Is it just a thing for weirdos or are we the more fun people who aren't vanilla ? It Still shocks me on here when I see people near by who are into the same kinks like there's actually people out there the same as me"
There are three types of people.
Those who are not interested in swinging.
Those who are interested in trying it but haven't got the balls to do it.
And us.
I'm glad I'm in the latter group and I couldn't care less what people think about it. |
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Gogglebox last night had a scene from the short series on BBC - Cheaters.
A character came home to find his girlfriend shagging (neighbour) and started wanking off outside the door.
The goggle box folk’s reaction made me question things in my head - this lifestyle definitely isn’t normal lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Gogglebox last night had a scene from the short series on BBC - Cheaters.
A character came home to find his girlfriend shagging (neighbour) and started wanking off outside the door.
The goggle box folk’s reaction made me question things in my head - this lifestyle definitely isn’t normal lol"
Haha yeah I watched that on gogglebox to looks good |
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