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The worst thing said in a club.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I generally go to club's alone but if I meet a man to go with I always hear something inappropriate. The worst, I'd gone with a couple in a room with a guy and he said to the other man. Oh do you want a turn, about me.
From there on I shut down. I continued play with the other couple but swiftly moved on in the club.
So what's the worst thing someone said in a club to you or about you that killed your mojo? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We heard a young Woman say to her partner "If you can't get a boner, go and look at the Women out there"  "
Actually laughed out loud at this.
She delegated  |
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A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction "
What the hell is wrong with people? I had someone try to do that as well. Disgusting does not even begin to describe it…. fortunately in my case he stopped as soon as I said so but I don’t know what some people think sometimes. Sorry you had to go through that. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction
What the hell is wrong with people? I had someone try to do that as well. Disgusting does not even begin to describe it…. fortunately in my case he stopped as soon as I said so but I don’t know what some people think sometimes. Sorry you had to go through that. x "
Wtf do they not know what the word consent means?? People like that give this world a bad name |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
There is a fat twat in a collar - well that was me!!! Clearly a big lad in a collar wasn’t for her.
I don’t want to hear your life story, this was from a guy who was outside of a room me and a couple were in after we were chatting for a bit
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Signing in to one well-known club in the NW, the host greeted me with;
"Have you been here before?"
"Yes, I have" I replied.
"Well just remember there's always someone watching, so behave yourself"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Signing in to one well-known club in the NW, the host greeted me with;
"Have you been here before?"
"Yes, I have" I replied.
"Well just remember there's always someone watching, so behave yourself"
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I would have questioned why they asked if there's always someone watching?
Odd |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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''im not a simgle guy im here with my wife that puts me above single guys ....i should come first being part of a couple'' me n hubs said politely erm no fuck off ...what a melt .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw an older couple having a barney. She was shouting at him ‘you’ve gone too far this time, get your coat’ … love to know what he did but she was fuming haha |
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"Signing in to one well-known club in the NW, the host greeted me with;
"Have you been here before?"
"Yes, I have" I replied.
"Well just remember there's always someone watching, so behave yourself"
I would have questioned why they asked if there's always someone watching?
Odd "
I was lost for words tbh.... |
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"''im not a simgle guy im here with my wife that puts me above single guys ....i should come first being part of a couple'' me n hubs said politely erm no fuck off ...what a melt ...."
I think I would have said some thing like “No, your wife should come first. Now go home and practice until you can do that for her” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction "
Wtf lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction
What the hell is wrong with people? I had someone try to do that as well. Disgusting does not even begin to describe it…. fortunately in my case he stopped as soon as I said so but I don’t know what some people think sometimes. Sorry you had to go through that. x "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can I have a go !! ( the cheeky fucker !!)
But you are at a sex party"
Oh gosh. This is why single men are usually limited at events.
The entitlement for the fee.
Even in jest, not funny. That's why I won't walk around a bigger club alone. |
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My first time solo at a club a guy tried to finger me in the hot tub, I moved away but moved close and tried again. I told him not to touch me.
He turned and looked at another guy sat opposite and said 'Shall you and me double team her, mate?'
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"A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction
Wtf lol"
If nothing else you know what your limit is before you take action. When does no really mean no, I guess for some When he's told to fuck off. If you ask nicely and discreetly someone to stop and he keeps going is that considered gentle r#pe. Soon as I hear stop how long before it's considered can it continue? |
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Not the worst thing said, just the worst thing.
I went to a club (on my own) but the whole place was empty by midnight! Was literally in my own hoping it was going to get busy. I was told it was just one of those nights! |
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"My first time solo at a club a guy tried to finger me in the hot tub, I moved away but moved close and tried again. I told him not to touch me.
He turned and looked at another guy sat opposite and said 'Shall you and me double team her, mate?'
Ms x"
Presumably you showed clean pair of heels and was out asap begore you heard the other guys response to the invitation? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My first time solo at a club a guy tried to finger me in the hot tub, I moved away but moved close and tried again. I told him not to touch me.
He turned and looked at another guy sat opposite and said 'Shall you and me double team her, mate?'
Ms x"
Oh that's awful. Did you report it to club X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not the worst thing said, just the worst thing.
I went to a club (on my own) but the whole place was empty by midnight! Was literally in my own hoping it was going to get busy. I was told it was just one of those nights!"
In those situations I pretend in my head in rich and it belongs to me X. Especially when I used to go to Marriott swimming. Pretend I'm Rich for an hour |
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"Not the worst thing said, just the worst thing.
I went to a club (on my own) but the whole place was empty by midnight! Was literally in my own hoping it was going to get busy. I was told it was just one of those nights!"
Did you not get the infamous “Should have been here last week”? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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There was a guy at the playrooms at a club a few years ago asking everyone who came out, if he could clean them up.
I don't have a problem with people cleaning up, I just felt hanging around the playrooms and asking this to everyone, as soon as you opened the door to come out, seemed a little much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There was a guy at the playrooms at a club a few years ago asking everyone who came out, if he could clean them up.
I don't have a problem with people cleaning up, I just felt hanging around the playrooms and asking this to everyone, as soon as you opened the door to come out, seemed a little much."
Perhaps he was just hungry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An eastern European guy years ago paid entrance fee walked in and said to a blonde near the bar "I'll have her" The owner said "you joking?"
The Guy replied "I want her I have money" Owner quite rightly threw him out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"An eastern European guy years ago paid entrance fee walked in and said to a blonde near the bar "I'll have her" The owner said "you joking?"
The Guy replied "I want her I have money" Owner quite rightly threw him out. "
Ooof. What a knobber |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never been a club but reading these is enough to put me off..."
You gotta spread it out. These are rare. I've been to clubs 5 yrs and only two times have I been spoken to badly. |
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"A woman called me frigid & said I shouldnt be in clubs if I didn't want to be touched, when i told her husband to F off when he was trying to insert his toes into me uninvited in a Hottub , I'd politely & discreetly asked him to stop twice before, the third was when I told him to F off which is what caused her reaction "
Consent is everything. You should have broken his toes, lol |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Someone in a club once, (who I add, did seem to have some social difficulties), asked me how it works, he wanted to know, does he just choose a lady, approach her and go somewhere private with her.
Also does he need to chat to her partner at all if she is with one.
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
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In a club with my fwb who is bi, was with another couple and after the guy had us both he turned to me and said
how does it feel that your fella fucks and sucks better than you
Some heated words followed and my fwb layed into him, his wife was horrified at what he said and the host ended up asking them to leave |
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Second time at lachambre in Sheffield, Rhi and I were in a room together with door closed having some fu together. Door starts rattling and banging with someone shouting "hurry up, we want a go in her" . Nearly ripped door open and tore into them but rhi stopped me. Never went back to that club. |
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"Second time at lachambre in Sheffield, Rhi and I were in a room together with door closed having some fu together. Door starts rattling and banging with someone shouting "hurry up, we want a go in her" . Nearly ripped door open and tore into them but rhi stopped me. Never went back to that club. "
On her even , not in. Still gets me mad just remembering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who is yet to sample a club I must admit this has opened my eyes, I genuinely thought naively that people wouldn't attempt to grope others without Neen invited |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"As someone who is yet to sample a club I must admit this has opened my eyes, I genuinely thought naively that people wouldn't attempt to grope others without Neen invited"
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A lot depends on the club. I've probably been to 8 different clubs over the last 8 years, totalling approximately 150 visits and I've been touched inappropriately 3 times by a man and once by a woman. Thankfully it is rare. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I've actually enjoyed my experience of clubs but one club I went to I got chatting to a lady that had two male guests with her and she told me she only met them at the pub about 30 mins ago and invited them to the club which I thought wasn't so bad until she went on further to tell me that they are both brothers and they informed their wives they just nipped out to the shops together. I wasn't quite sure what to say after that lol |
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