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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So does anyone husbands always want more, I love that he lets me play but there’s always a request like “can you” do this or that when you film it next time. Now he wants him to be tied up while my lover comes round… just want to enjoy and not be a performing monkey lol… rant over xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does anyone husbands always want more, I love that he lets me play but there’s always a request like “can you” do this or that when you film it next time. Now he wants him to be tied up while my lover comes round… just want to enjoy and not be a performing monkey lol… rant over xx"
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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" just want to enjoy and not be a performing monkey"
But perhaps he wants to enjoy it too? You've got some great pics and vids on your profile, but it does seem to me that you've got the sweeter end of the deal!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP, I think the most important thing you need to do is talk to your husband and tell him how you feel.
I will be truthful with you I think you have come across as self centred, when you should be giving consideration to what enjoyment your husband gets from you being a hotwife...this is after all an extension of your sex life together, not a replacement of it. It's not actually all about you. You are in this together and you must listen, discuss, compromise and respect each others desires and limitations.
Maybe hubby is wanting to move towards cuckold, he may want to push his boundaries and is letting you know his new fantasies.
I am not criticising you, I am just giving you my observation from your OP.
Good luck  
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need a conversation with your husband and you both need to be honest, and you need to listen to his wants and needs and explain your own.
Swinging needs to be fun for both of you, not just you. |
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He's giving you the opportunity to have fun with other men etc the least you can do is try and make his experiences as good as they can if he wants something done as it turns him on etc you should be happy to do it , if not then you need to talk to him and stop doing it as you both want different things and are on different wavelengths |
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Dynamics change over time, either with the same bull or stag (or whatever the extra feels he is) as well as with the husband and or wife.
Being receptive to those changes and listening to what excites each other i have found can help add to the fun and keep it going.
As with many things listening, talking and sharing is the way forward. Who knows it may lead to even more fun…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be guilty of this.
When Mrs has played alone, I wanted pictures and video clips but it just spoils the moment, we couldn't find the balance to get enough 'proof' whilst they enjoyed their time together.
We did find an answer, we set up an indoor give security camera, they enjoyed their time together and I got to witness it all.
We don't play this way anymore, just on a few occasions and Mrs learned she prefers me being there.
Despite our dynamics or anyone else's, the idea of swinging is we're in this together.
We consider one another's wants, needs and fantasies and we find a balance.
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"Hi OP, I think the most important thing you need to do is talk to your husband and tell him how you feel.
I will be truthful with you I think you have come across as self centred, when you should be giving consideration to what enjoyment your husband gets from you being a hotwife...this is after all an extension of your sex life together, not a replacement of it. It's not actually all about you. You are in this together and you must listen, discuss, compromise and respect each others desires and limitations.
Maybe hubby is wanting to move towards cuckold, he may want to push his boundaries and is letting you know his new fantasies.
I am not criticising you, I am just giving you my observation from your OP.
Good luck
NBVN x"
This is a great answer. +1 to this. |
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