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over a year ago
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"Do you always share the intimate details of your meet or do you prefer not to kiss an tell?"
Mrs nw is not that interested my solo meets, I love to hear about hers. |
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We have met separately in and out of clubs but usually only mention who and where etc, phone numbers and adresses just incase were murdered lol. The odd detail does crop up in naughty conversation now and then though  |
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"Do couples want a girlfriend either for both or one of them? "
For us personally, we dont want to put lables on it but a regular freind for fun would be where we would start. Meeting together or seperetly and going from there. |
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"We meet separately and I will happily share what I have gotten up to if he asks and wants to know.
Equally I will ask him to tell me what he gets up to when he meets solo.
MJ x"
When I had a regular partner on here we both used to meet others separately and always enjoyed sharing our experiences. That said we enjoyed talking about the fun we had together more |
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We play together with girls but I play alone with girls - we’re in a Ds relationship.
She enjoys knowing what I’ve been up to. I’ll show Chiara how I’ve fucked other women but I don’t bother with pictures and videos. |
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"We play together with girls but I play alone with girls - we’re in a Ds relationship.
She enjoys knowing what I’ve been up to. I’ll show Chiara how I’ve fucked other women but I don’t bother with pictures and videos."
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We're a solo poly couple so to date most of our swinging experiences have been separate.
Speaking as the male half I'm always happy and excited to hear about my ladies adventures.
We're hoping to have more adventures together though which is why we're excited by what could potentially happen when we go to AbFab's tomorrow night. |
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And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing. |
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"And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing. "
I'd say it depends on the dynamic of the couple but also on respect for people not in a relationship with the couple.
Not all partners want to know the details and if the male/female couple respects ones wishes then details beyond the fact that they met you won't be passed on.
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"And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing.
I'd say it depends on the dynamic of the couple but also on respect for people not in a relationship with the couple.
Not all partners want to know the details and if the male/female couple respects ones wishes then details beyond the fact that they met you won't be passed on.
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So far I haven't had that impression from the couples who've contacted me. I'm very uncomfortable about the idea of intimacies with a partner being talked about with someone else. I don't want to be talked about. I've refused to share intimate details with others too. |
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Filters are essential here to stop the shit-storm of weirdos, wasters and wannabees.
Occasionally, we take them off for a day or two - catch a few decent guys in our net and then turn them on again quick!
Might be a no-single-male-filters-turned-off-day coming up soon, because it's about time Miniskirt had a line of well-hung men ready to service her, again. |
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"Filters are essential here to stop the shit-storm of weirdos, wasters and wannabees.
Occasionally, we take them off for a day or two - catch a few decent guys in our net and then turn them on again quick!
Might be a no-single-male-filters-turned-off-day coming up soon, because it's about time Miniskirt had a line of well-hung men ready to service her, again."
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"Do couples want a girlfriend either for both or one of them? "
I was the GF to a couple a few years ago and it was loads of fun not just sexually but in other ways too! |
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"Do couples want a girlfriend either for both or one of them?
I was the GF to a couple a few years ago and it was loads of fun not just sexually but in other ways too! "
I'm sure they enjoyed every moment in your company  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do couples want a girlfriend either for both or one of them?
I was the GF to a couple a few years ago and it was loads of fun not just sexually but in other ways too!
I'm sure they enjoyed every moment in your company "
Haha hopefully  |
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"Do you always share the intimate details of your meet or do you prefer not to kiss an tell?"
We always share details because it helps our relationship to be honest with each other, but it is also a huge turn on hearing about what naughty things have been done to her. |
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"Do couples want a girlfriend either for both or one of them?
I was the GF to a couple a few years ago and it was loads of fun not just sexually but in other ways too!
I'm sure they enjoyed every moment in your company
Haha hopefully "
They definitely must have enjoyed your company, you’re incredibly hot.
Do let us know if you’d ever like to repeat that dynamic! |
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We don't meet alone as a couple and prefer to see each other having fun when we do play.
But I am happy for him to go meet men alone. I don't expect to be told anything when he comes home as that is his thing but I do love it when he does tell me x |
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We meet alone and always share experiences- Obviously I meet a lot more men that Buck does women, however he does get off on me coming home with a nice wet pussy and me telling him all about how I was fucking as he licks my pussy (and ass if need be) clean. Gets me off again too. x |
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"We meet alone and always share experiences- Obviously I meet a lot more men that Buck does women, however he does get off on me coming home with a nice wet pussy and me telling him all about how I was fucking as he licks my pussy (and ass if need be) clean. Gets me off again too. x"
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"And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing.
I'd say it depends on the dynamic of the couple but also on respect for people not in a relationship with the couple.
Not all partners want to know the details and if the male/female couple respects ones wishes then details beyond the fact that they met you won't be passed on.
So far I haven't had that impression from the couples who've contacted me. I'm very uncomfortable about the idea of intimacies with a partner being talked about with someone else. I don't want to be talked about. I've refused to share intimate details with others too. "
We meet solo and love hearing the details of what happened at meets. However we always check that the person we are meeting is happy for pics/vids/details to be shared. If they aren't happy then we respect that.
Mr had a solo meet and to this day I have no idea what happened. I have no idea if it was purely social, if they kissed or did more...
Ms x |
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By *moretwoCouple
over a year ago
Feltham |
We have both had a few solo meets part of it for us is
Not knowing at the time what is happening. Most solo meets are filmed which is explained why and agreed well before the meet.
We both find watching the film back together such a turn on.Not for everyone but works for us and have had a few solo meets so also works for others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing.
I'd say it depends on the dynamic of the couple but also on respect for people not in a relationship with the couple.
Not all partners want to know the details and if the male/female couple respects ones wishes then details beyond the fact that they met you won't be passed on.
So far I haven't had that impression from the couples who've contacted me. I'm very uncomfortable about the idea of intimacies with a partner being talked about with someone else. I don't want to be talked about. I've refused to share intimate details with others too.
We meet solo and love hearing the details of what happened at meets. However we always check that the person we are meeting is happy for pics/vids/details to be shared. If they aren't happy then we respect that.
Mr had a solo meet and to this day I have no idea what happened. I have no idea if it was purely social, if they kissed or did more...
Ms x"
It's good to know that you respect the preferences of the person you're meeting. Thank you for replying to my comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing. "
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I like to hear every detail when my wife gets back from a meet. Really exciting to hear it. We don’t bother with pictures, I can visualise what went on in my head.
Holly is not so bothered about the details when I meet but I tell her the main bits. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really a couple here but I share absolutely everything with my fb if that counts for anything.
Barring Romantic relationships of course just have to tell her when I'm getting down for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s why I won’t meet the male half of a couple, I don’t want my intimate details shared! "
Same here. I find it very interesting that only one couple have addressed this as I said something early on. And yet couples will also ask why single women aren't interested!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s why I won’t meet the male half of a couple, I don’t want my intimate details shared!
Same here. I find it very interesting that only one couple have addressed this as I said something early on. And yet couples will also ask why single women aren't interested! "
I totally agree with you |
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I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
I'll know it when I find it. |
Nope. For one, my fiancé doesn't really want to hear about it bar me being happy and semi sated.
Another... well I just feel a bit uncomfortable. My dynamic with someone else is just that - between the two of us. I'm not meeting them as a Hotwife or anything else, just me. I've not yet explored why but I wouldn't be too keen on my ins and outs being discussed with someone who isn't present. It doesn't work for me.
But hey, I'm not a swinger so it doesn't really matter. |
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"And this is one reason why I've said no to the males from couples. Because they want to go back and talk about me to their partner. I just don't find that appealing. "
I never kiss and tell to anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site."
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site.
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
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Apart from ourselves we dicuss our sex lives with no one, they are two completely different worlds for us.
So watching someone boasting about their weekend conquests is completely cringe worthy to us and an indication why fab gets flooded by chancers and people that think most women are gagging for it non stop. |
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site.
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
Apart from ourselves we dicuss our sex lives with no one, they are two completely different worlds for us.
So watching someone boasting about their weekend conquests is completely cringe worthy to us and an indication why fab gets flooded by chancers and people that think most women are gagging for it non stop."
Just to add that their are many very decent singles and couples on here that do get the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site.
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
Apart from ourselves we dicuss our sex lives with no one, they are two completely different worlds for us.
So watching someone boasting about their weekend conquests is completely cringe worthy to us and an indication why fab gets flooded by chancers and people that think most women are gagging for it non stop.
Just to add that their are many very decent singles and couples on here that do get the lifestyle."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site.
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
Apart from ourselves we dicuss our sex lives with no one, they are two completely different worlds for us.
So watching someone boasting about their weekend conquests is completely cringe worthy to us and an indication why fab gets flooded by chancers and people that think most women are gagging for it non stop.
Just to add that their are many very decent singles and couples on here that do get the lifestyle."
If the lifestyle means that intimate details about me are shared with someone I don't know, then I will never be a swinger. |
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site.
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
Apart from ourselves we dicuss our sex lives with no one, they are two completely different worlds for us.
So watching someone boasting about their weekend conquests is completely cringe worthy to us and an indication why fab gets flooded by chancers and people that think most women are gagging for it non stop.
Just to add that their are many very decent singles and couples on here that do get the lifestyle.
If the lifestyle means that intimate details about me are shared with someone I don't know, then I will never be a swinger. "
Unfortunately you'll never know who talks about their meets..after being on the scene for many years now we actually trust very few people.. our circle of swing friends is pretty small. |
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"I have seen a couple of posts from women on here saying they wouldn't want to meet the male of a couple because they don't want the details shared which is perfectly fine..
We share details of our meets and as a couple that tries to stay under the radar everything stays between the two of us however I worked with a single male that uses this site and is very well verified who happily sits in the works canteen telling all his work colleagues about who as he calls it he's smashed this weekend.
We have him blocked and he has absolutely no idea who we are and he's one of the reasons we stopped meeting singles from the site.
Realistically, many people discuss their meets with anyone who will listen. Main reason I won't meet anyone on this profile.
They may have met me on a different profile but they don't know it.
Apart from ourselves we dicuss our sex lives with no one, they are two completely different worlds for us.
So watching someone boasting about their weekend conquests is completely cringe worthy to us and an indication why fab gets flooded by chancers and people that think most women are gagging for it non stop.
Just to add that their are many very decent singles and couples on here that do get the lifestyle.
If the lifestyle means that intimate details about me are shared with someone I don't know, then I will never be a swinger.
Unfortunately you'll never know who talks about their meets..after being on the scene for many years now we actually trust very few people.. our circle of swing friends is pretty small."
That makes a lot of sense. I am a lot more cynical after only 9 months.  |
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