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"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman" . Although now a single guy looking for hook ups I was previously on here while attached and did used to admit I was an “ attached,but playing” guy for which I received shed loads of abuse from 99% Amazingly so I did have the odd reply allegedly from a female stating “ it turned her on getting another ladies man’s cock”. | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman. Although now a single guy looking for hook ups I was previously on here while attached and did used to admit I was an “ attached,but playing” guy for which I received shed loads of abuse from 99% Amazingly so I did have the odd reply allegedly from a female stating “ it turned her on getting another ladies man’s cock”. " Yeah it does seem very one sided on here doesn't it? Surprised i haven't had someone say something to me yet from the fab police | |||
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"I don’t meet cheats. I don’t want to be an accessory to someone else’s destruction. " This... This is me also, well said  | |||
"Because guys generally (not all) don't care if a woman is married and will take whatever they can get. " Yep bang on. Also if they don't like it they have to either turn a blind eye or go without, as not many women available. Whereas women have plenty of choice, much easier to keep your moral standards up when you have nothing to lose! Having said all that I have seen a few profiles of women (and couples) saying they're into married men, some because they get a kick out of cheating others cos they believe they will be more discreet and/or "safe". | |||
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"Women generally keep quiet about either liking married men or playing away themselves. If they do mention it they usually get an easier ride than men. There's a fab double standard Man cheating = the man's fault Woman cheating = the man's fault " Food for thought. Look listen and learn. | |||
"Everybody is here for one reason or another " Mostly ideas,discussion window shopping, Is there any real action,pleasures,of fun being had off here?? | |||
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"Because guys generally (not all) don't care if a woman is married and will take whatever they can get. " This ,plus most women don't start threads about it looking for approval. | |||
"Because guys generally (not all) don't care if a woman is married and will take whatever they can get. This ,plus most women don't start threads about it looking for approval." I'm not looking for approval, genuinely interested in people's opinions about the blatent double standards on fab haha | |||
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"Women generally keep quiet about either liking married men or playing away themselves. If they do mention it they usually get an easier ride than men. There's a fab double standard Man cheating = the man's fault Woman cheating = the man's fault " So true xx | |||
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"I meet attached guys, it's a Thrill ! Though they have to meet on my time which makes it difficult, but sometimes our schedules connect xxx"Shame you only meet up to a certain age tho  | |||
"Women that cheat are just as bad as men that cheat .I think the reason why men get a lot of shit is that it’s very rare you will see a thread made by a woman seeking validation for cheating .Women cheat they just go about their business quietly." See my last reply | |||
"Women that cheat are just as bad as men that cheat .I think the reason why men get a lot of shit is that it’s very rare you will see a thread made by a woman seeking validation for cheating .Women cheat they just go about their business quietly." This xx | |||
"Women generally keep quiet about either liking married men or playing away themselves. If they do mention it they usually get an easier ride than men. There's a fab double standard Man cheating = the man's fault Woman cheating = the man's fault " | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman" Both are quite simply cheats. | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman Both are quite simply cheats. " Say no more | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman Both are quite simply cheats. " Be careful with your generalisations, just because someone is married it doesn’t mean they are cheating. My wife and I play separately by choice as do many others. | |||
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"I've known plenty of women who deliberately target married men." Wish I did. | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman" Mrs G here, Hi…. I think Men want married women because it’s an automatic safety net for them…. Women, we never really know what we want and like to change the goal posts, so you guys have no chance of figuring us out……sorry xxx | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman" I am not here to meet married men unless their wife is aware. | |||
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"We dont play with cheats and liars. Its a nasty trait not at all sexy. We feel incredibly sorry for their partners having to put up with them " I thought I was old fashioned thinking this! I’d had a few meets with someone who said he was single (and I had no reason to think he wasn’t). Then I discovered accidentally that he’d got engaged! Immediately called it a day and said I don’t play with attached men… only to be told “just because I’m getting married doesn’t change how I feel about you, I want to keep seeing you” 
All I could think was “that poor woman”… I assume she’s still happily planning her wedding | |||
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"I meet attached guys, it's a Thrill ! Though they have to meet on my time which makes it difficult, but sometimes our schedules connect xxx"Well said!!! | |||
"Nothing dries me up faster than deceitful liars." speaking on behalf of all married men I hope we all give you a massive wide berth. | |||
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"Nothing dries me up faster than deceitful liars. speaking on behalf of all married men I hope we all give you a massive wide berth. " I hope so too. I’ve been cheated on and it’s devastating, I don’t want to be involved in anyone else’s pain. | |||
"Nothing dries me up faster than deceitful liars. speaking on behalf of all married men I hope we all give you a massive wide berth. I hope so too. I’ve been cheated on and it’s devastating, I don’t want to be involved in anyone else’s pain." Inspiring An angel Thank you  | |||
"Nothing dries me up faster than deceitful liars. speaking on behalf of all married men I hope we all give you a massive wide berth. I hope so too. I’ve been cheated on and it’s devastating, I don’t want to be involved in anyone else’s pain. Inspiring An angel Thank you "There’s nothing inspiring about having empathy and compassion for other women who are being cheated on. | |||
"Nothing dries me up faster than deceitful liars. speaking on behalf of all married men I hope we all give you a massive wide berth. I hope so too. I’ve been cheated on and it’s devastating, I don’t want to be involved in anyone else’s pain. Inspiring An angel Thank you
There’s nothing inspiring about having empathy and compassion for other women who are being cheated on. "Ok Change inspiring for compassionate | |||
"Because guys generally (not all) don't care if a woman is married and will take whatever they can get. This ,plus most women don't start threads about it looking for approval." Now that is an absolute zinger. Mic drop moment | |||
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I have enough complications in my single professional life.
Have fun all and be truthful at least with yourself | |||
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"Firstly, don't judge until you have lived the exact same life. I am married but due to medication don't have a sex life, when I'm not yet ready to give up. What am I to do? We are still in love with each other and I have no intention of leaving. So again, what am I to do? Even when we did have a sex live, she was never into swinging or anything kinky come to that ( I have experience as a Dom). We had a long, hard and tearful discussion several years ago. The result wasn't ideal but we came up with a compromise. 1) I was not to fall in love with anyone else 2) I must be discrete at all times 3) She does not want to know who I meet or what we get up to. What else am I supposed to do? As has been mentioned, all of us, EVERYONE SINGLE ONE whether as a single or couple is here for a reason looking for something. We are all different which is as it should be, (otherwise we'd all be same and what a boring world this would be). We all have different views. We live in what is probably the most diverse country on the planet. (yes we have our problems but I like to think we are getting there). We all have different desires, wants needs and preferences but we are not all in the same position as everyone else. I know my situation is not to everyone's taste and I accept that, (even from downright rude and aggressive replies I receive). Just as everyone's idea of their desired partner (or partners) is different so is everyone's situation, just remember that. " I have been in that situation. 7 years without even a kiss from my other half. I am judging. I’ve also been in the other side and had my life, trust and confidence destroyed by cheating. I am judging from both sides. I’d have rather he just left than cheated! I’d have gotten over that. It’s shitty behaviour and there are no excuses for it. | |||
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"Firstly, don't judge until you have lived the exact same life. I am married but due to medication don't have a sex life, when I'm not yet ready to give up. What am I to do? We are still in love with each other and I have no intention of leaving. So again, what am I to do? Even when we did have a sex live, she was never into swinging or anything kinky come to that ( I have experience as a Dom). We had a long, hard and tearful discussion several years ago. The result wasn't ideal but we came up with a compromise. 1) I was not to fall in love with anyone else 2) I must be discrete at all times 3) She does not want to know who I meet or what we get up to. What else am I supposed to do? As has been mentioned, all of us, EVERYONE SINGLE ONE whether as a single or couple is here for a reason looking for something. We are all different which is as it should be, (otherwise we'd all be same and what a boring world this would be). We all have different views. We live in what is probably the most diverse country on the planet. (yes we have our problems but I like to think we are getting there). We all have different desires, wants needs and preferences but we are not all in the same position as everyone else. I know my situation is not to everyone's taste and I accept that, (even from downright rude and aggressive replies I receive). Just as everyone's idea of their desired partner (or partners) is different so is everyone's situation, just remember that. I have been in that situation. 7 years without even a kiss from my other half. I am judging. I’ve also been in the other side and had my life, trust and confidence destroyed by cheating. I am judging from both sides. I’d have rather he just left than cheated! I’d have gotten over that. It’s shitty behaviour and there are no excuses for it." Bit confused by your response. You have cheated and been cheated on? | |||
"Amazingly so I did have the odd reply allegedly from a female stating “ it turned her on getting another ladies man’s cock”. " I had a playmate who actually told me at one meet that it was a huge turn-on for her "to be taking the spunk your wife isn't interested in"... "I meet attached guys, it's a Thrill ! Though they have to meet on my time which makes it difficult, but sometimes our schedules connect xxx" Ladies like you are few and far between, but it's always good to know they're out there... "It doesn't bother me, but with a married man there's less chance of him wanting to be more involved and it helps hubby to feel less threatened, not that he feels threatened." I've been contacted by and met a number of couples specifically because as I'm married, they've felt there's a reduced risk of an attachment developing... | |||
"Firstly, don't judge until you have lived the exact same life. I am married but due to medication don't have a sex life, when I'm not yet ready to give up. What am I to do? We are still in love with each other and I have no intention of leaving. So again, what am I to do? Even when we did have a sex live, she was never into swinging or anything kinky come to that ( I have experience as a Dom). We had a long, hard and tearful discussion several years ago. The result wasn't ideal but we came up with a compromise. 1) I was not to fall in love with anyone else 2) I must be discrete at all times 3) She does not want to know who I meet or what we get up to. What else am I supposed to do? As has been mentioned, all of us, EVERYONE SINGLE ONE whether as a single or couple is here for a reason looking for something. We are all different which is as it should be, (otherwise we'd all be same and what a boring world this would be). We all have different views. We live in what is probably the most diverse country on the planet. (yes we have our problems but I like to think we are getting there). We all have different desires, wants needs and preferences but we are not all in the same position as everyone else. I know my situation is not to everyone's taste and I accept that, (even from downright rude and aggressive replies I receive). Just as everyone's idea of their desired partner (or partners) is different so is everyone's situation, just remember that. I have been in that situation. 7 years without even a kiss from my other half. I am judging. I’ve also been in the other side and had my life, trust and confidence destroyed by cheating. I am judging from both sides. I’d have rather he just left than cheated! I’d have gotten over that. It’s shitty behaviour and there are no excuses for it. Bit confused by your response. You have cheated and been cheated on?" No, was in a sexless relationship for 7 years. Didn’t cheat, eventually left. Couldn’t have done it any longer but loved him so much, I’d never want to hurt him. Yes, I’ve been on. It defeats red me and I still live with the effects many years later! | |||
"Firstly, don't judge until you have lived the exact same life. I am married but due to medication don't have a sex life, when I'm not yet ready to give up. What am I to do? We are still in love with each other and I have no intention of leaving. So again, what am I to do? Even when we did have a sex live, she was never into swinging or anything kinky come to that ( I have experience as a Dom). We had a long, hard and tearful discussion several years ago. The result wasn't ideal but we came up with a compromise. 1) I was not to fall in love with anyone else 2) I must be discrete at all times 3) She does not want to know who I meet or what we get up to. What else am I supposed to do? As has been mentioned, all of us, EVERYONE SINGLE ONE whether as a single or couple is here for a reason looking for something. We are all different which is as it should be, (otherwise we'd all be same and what a boring world this would be). We all have different views. We live in what is probably the most diverse country on the planet. (yes we have our problems but I like to think we are getting there). We all have different desires, wants needs and preferences but we are not all in the same position as everyone else. I know my situation is not to everyone's taste and I accept that, (even from downright rude and aggressive replies I receive). Just as everyone's idea of their desired partner (or partners) is different so is everyone's situation, just remember that. I have been in that situation. 7 years without even a kiss from my other half. I am judging. I’ve also been in the other side and had my life, trust and confidence destroyed by cheating. I am judging from both sides. I’d have rather he just left than cheated! I’d have gotten over that. It’s shitty behaviour and there are no excuses for it. Bit confused by your response. You have cheated and been cheated on? No, was in a sexless relationship for 7 years. Didn’t cheat, eventually left. Couldn’t have done it any longer but loved him so much, I’d never want to hurt him. Yes, I’ve been cheated on. It still upsets me and I still live with the effects many years later! " | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman" What, exactly, do you mean? Do you mean consensual nonmonogamy? Or do you mean cheaters? Will very happily meet the first group, as long as they have their act together and I don’t have to deal with drama or jealousy. The second, IME, is nothing BUT drama and I can’t be bothered. | |||
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"Firstly, don't judge until you have lived the exact same life. I am married but due to medication don't have a sex life, when I'm not yet ready to give up. What am I to do? We are still in love with each other and I have no intention of leaving. So again, what am I to do? Even when we did have a sex live, she was never into swinging or anything kinky come to that ( I have experience as a Dom). We had a long, hard and tearful discussion several years ago. The result wasn't ideal but we came up with a compromise. 1) I was not to fall in love with anyone else 2) I must be discrete at all times 3) She does not want to know who I meet or what we get up to. What else am I supposed to do? As has been mentioned, all of us, EVERYONE SINGLE ONE whether as a single or couple is here for a reason looking for something. We are all different which is as it should be, (otherwise we'd all be same and what a boring world this would be). We all have different views. We live in what is probably the most diverse country on the planet. (yes we have our problems but I like to think we are getting there). We all have different desires, wants needs and preferences but we are not all in the same position as everyone else. I know my situation is not to everyone's taste and I accept that, (even from downright rude and aggressive replies I receive). Just as everyone's idea of their desired partner (or partners) is different so is everyone's situation, just remember that. I have been in that situation. 7 years without even a kiss from my other half. I am judging. I’ve also been in the other side and had my life, trust and confidence destroyed by cheating. I am judging from both sides. I’d have rather he just left than cheated! I’d have gotten over that. It’s shitty behaviour and there are no excuses for it. Bit confused by your response. You have cheated and been cheated on? No, was in a sexless relationship for 7 years. Didn’t cheat, eventually left. Couldn’t have done it any longer but loved him so much, I’d never want to hurt him. Yes, I’ve been cheated on. It still upsets me and I still live with the effects many years later! " Having been cheated on myself, I know where you are coming from, and I agree, the effects do stay with you for years (mine was over 20 years ago now). However, the situation I am experiencing now, is different to yours then. I respect that you have an opinion, and admire you for it (as I do everyone else's). Past experiences are different in all of us and we learn and form opinion by our experiences. I will be the first to admit that our opinions can change as a result of life's experience. Mine has! Everyone's, current wants, needs desires can differ to others. Those that are similar result in a 'connection'. Diversity means people don't just now hide in a cupboard. Sites like this allow diversity to spread which can only be good surely? | |||
"As long as the married men are honest on here (I get the irony, honest cheats) then I’m all good and can block them. It upsets me to think I’ve met married guys who have lied. It takes away my choice and undermines my preferences as if they don’t matter. Part of the reason I don’t meet anymore. I don’t trust anyone. " and that is a shame.... I'm know there are good guys on here that would be idea for you (obviously not me) don't stop looking its unfortunate that you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince! | |||
"As long as the married men are honest on here (I get the irony, honest cheats) then I’m all good and can block them. It upsets me to think I’ve met married guys who have lied. It takes away my choice and undermines my preferences as if they don’t matter. Part of the reason I don’t meet anymore. I don’t trust anyone. " I totally understand this. I hate it when you meet someone that turns out to be married as it does undermine your choices as the deal has been done and the dice thrown. I ask or did ask very early on now and you would think I would learn after being burnt but one forgets the simple questions sometimes. Trust takes a lifetime to get back and a minute to lose. I totally get this | |||
"As long as the married men are honest on here (I get the irony, honest cheats) then I’m all good and can block them. It upsets me to think I’ve met married guys who have lied. It takes away my choice and undermines my preferences as if they don’t matter. Part of the reason I don’t meet anymore. I don’t trust anyone. I totally understand this. I hate it when you meet someone that turns out to be married as it does undermine your choices as the deal has been done and the dice thrown. I ask or did ask very early on now and you would think I would learn after being burnt but one forgets the simple questions sometimes. Trust takes a lifetime to get back and a minute to lose. I totally get this" I feel like I’ve been tricked into sharing my intimacy with someone and that is a horrible feeling. Like my feelings don’t matter, like I’ve been conned. It’s sits in the pit of my stomach, it’s the worst feeling. Cheats don’t care about this though, they just want to get their dick wet. I mean, if they can potentially destroy the person that they claim to love then they certainly don’t care about the feelings of a stranger. | |||
"As long as the married men are honest on here (I get the irony, honest cheats) then I’m all good and can block them. It upsets me to think I’ve met married guys who have lied. It takes away my choice and undermines my preferences as if they don’t matter. Part of the reason I don’t meet anymore. I don’t trust anyone. I totally understand this. I hate it when you meet someone that turns out to be married as it does undermine your choices as the deal has been done and the dice thrown. I ask or did ask very early on now and you would think I would learn after being burnt but one forgets the simple questions sometimes. Trust takes a lifetime to get back and a minute to lose. I totally get this I feel like I’ve been tricked into sharing my intimacy with someone and that is a horrible feeling. Like my feelings don’t matter, like I’ve been conned. It’s sits in the pit of my stomach, it’s the worst feeling. Cheats don’t care about this though, they just want to get their dick wet. I mean, if they can potentially destroy the person that they claim to love then they certainly don’t care about the feelings of a stranger. " unfortunately so true! | |||
"Do women like married men as much as men like married women? I often see married men being pounced upon for "ruining it for the genuine singles" but have yet to see this happen to a married woman Both are quite simply cheats. Be careful with your generalisations, just because someone is married it doesn’t mean they are cheating. My wife and I play separately by choice as do many others. " True. Apologies!! The ones without permission are the cheats! | |||
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"the blatent double standards on fab haha" Sounds like you've already made up your mined anyway | |||
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"Alice is rather partial to a married man. " She must be only one in here that does | |||
"Alice is rather partial to a married man. She must be only one in here that does" Nope. | |||
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"Omg is this a serious question? Married ladies on here are in high demand and have a couple profile and advertise as part of a couple. The number of married men on here with a single profile is disgusting.Their partners clearly don't know. Its completely different!!!! I like single men, not cheaters xxxx" There are a lot of married women with single profiles whose husbands are unaware. Women cheat too | |||
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"Women generally keep quiet about either liking married men or playing away themselves. If they do mention it they usually get an easier ride than men. There's a fab double standard Man cheating = the man's fault Woman cheating = the man's fault " | |||
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"Omg is this a serious question? Married ladies on here are in high demand and have a couple profile and advertise as part of a couple. The number of married men on here with a single profile is disgusting.Their partners clearly don't know. Its completely different!!!! I like single men, not cheaters xxxx" but not ALL married men are cheaters | |||
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"Because guys generally (not all) don't care if a woman is married and will take whatever they can get. " | |||
