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I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? |
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "
You're just showing off!  |
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Just go with the flow mate. Plans never really go the way you want when there are 3 folk involved.
My best advice is make sure you are all involved, and that no one ever feels left out for a second as that's easy to do in 3somes.
Sure suggest things but its not like pornhub 3somes.
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"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.
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That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this ! |
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"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.
That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this ! "
Dont be afraid to sit back and watch whilst the girls play with each other. Some men feel like they have to be involved all the time but that can get in the way of the girls connecting... plus, some people find it sexy to watch/be watched! Penises are not always the most interesting thing in the room.
Communicate a lot. Ask them if there is anything they would like to try. Ask if there is something you want and dont assume that anything in particular will happen (waving dick in face to indicate you want oral...? Yuck!). Ask "is this ok?", "would you like me to...", "Do you need a break?" Etc.
They are probably more experienced than you with ffm threesomes, so theres no need for you to try and lead the experience - let them do that (or better yet, everyone go with the flow). So just sit back nad relax. If you are nervous, admit it. Non sexual contact and light foreplay can help settle nerves (massage, hugs, kissing, stroking etc).
If you cant get it up, dont panic! Enjoy using your tongue/fingers/words to have a good time.
Most importantly: dont do anything you dont wanna do, and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Just the same as women, you are allowed to say no.
Have fun!! 
Fay x |
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"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.
That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this !
Dont be afraid to sit back and watch whilst the girls play with each other. Some men feel like they have to be involved all the time but that can get in the way of the girls connecting... plus, some people find it sexy to watch/be watched! Penises are not always the most interesting thing in the room.
Communicate a lot. Ask them if there is anything they would like to try. Ask if there is something you want and dont assume that anything in particular will happen (waving dick in face to indicate you want oral...? Yuck!). Ask "is this ok?", "would you like me to...", "Do you need a break?" Etc.
They are probably more experienced than you with ffm threesomes, so theres no need for you to try and lead the experience - let them do that (or better yet, everyone go with the flow). So just sit back nad relax. If you are nervous, admit it. Non sexual contact and light foreplay can help settle nerves (massage, hugs, kissing, stroking etc).
If you cant get it up, dont panic! Enjoy using your tongue/fingers/words to have a good time.
Most importantly: dont do anything you dont wanna do, and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Just the same as women, you are allowed to say no.
Have fun!!
Fay x "
Thanks Fay appreciate the advice. I’m not a nervous type but I do want it to go well. After all I want an invite back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "
Ha! I just realised that by the time Id read the other replies, I had completely forgotten the question and answered a different one. Oops! Heres take two!
Yes, you are definitely over thinking it. As others have said, go with the flow. They will have a better idea about what they enjoy than you do, so the best way to make sure everyone has fun is to make sure that you dont take control of the entire sex session. Let them come up with ideas about what they wanna do, invite them to instruct you on how best to please them.... every woman is different after all!
Rather than thinking about what might please them, maybe you can think about one or two things you would like to try for your own enjoyment? That way, when they turn to you and ask what you would like, you will be ready with an answer. If they're half decent people, they will want you to have fun too!
Enjoy! Fay x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.
That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this ! "
I’m sure you’ll handle them both just fine |
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"Never plan it lol all the best plans in the world will soon unravel in the heat of the moment. Just go with the flow and a lot of talking and I'm sure it will go well.
That’s my gut feeling right now. Be great to hear from any ladies that have taken part in a threesome like this !
I’m sure you’ll handle them both just fine "
I think they might eat me alive |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "
Am I jealous.......too fucking right i am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?
Am I jealous.......too fucking right i am. "
Think I deserved it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead? "
Lucky man and glad you enjoyed it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We had our first ever fmf a few weeks ago, I (mr) honestly hardly did a thing, I had every opportunity to do what I wanted whilst involved but was just in absolute amazement that it was actually happening.
The whole experience was brilliant and would love to do it again very soon, just go with the flow and enjoy it!!
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I think you're just showing off |
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?
I think you're just showing off "
Possibly! Can you blame me though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have an FMF on Wednesday with two bisexual ladies. My mind is awash with ideas and positions, and how I will make sure they are satisfied. Am I overthinking it and should I just go with the flow instead?
I think you're just showing off
Possibly! Can you blame me though! "
Of course not, any guy would too, especially if the women play with each other its the ultimate scenario for many fellas. |
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