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Do couples like to be watched
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The one thing I'd really like to do is to watch a couple play, if I get invited to join in that would be a big bonus.
Is this something that would appeal to couples? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."
Never thought of it like that, considered it less pushy saying that |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."
Most people , the vast majority woukd not join in unless invited ...of course it's a bonus .if asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.
Never thought of it like that, considered it less pushy saying that"
We see it as someone trying their luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.
Most people , the vast majority woukd not join in unless invited ...of course it's a bonus .if asked "
That's how I see it to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.
Most people , the vast majority woukd not join in unless invited ...of course it's a bonus .if asked "
Our experience of clubs and people watching is obviously very different to yours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.
Never thought of it like that, considered it less pushy saying that
We see it as someone trying their luck. "
Each to their own but thanks for the input |
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The other half and I like it, but all the guys we’ve chatted about it with on here have made clear they expect to be joining in.
Whenever I’ve suggested a watch only meet with a second potential play meet if we’re all comfortable they disappear! |
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"I've had that pleasure and occasionally it can lead to being invited to join in.
That's nice to know there are couples who are interested in this"
Bonus for me was, she was only 26 and he was 32. I'm 66 |
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"We love people watching us but not in person in case they tried to join in
You are looking for exactly what we are. Just watching and being watched, live porn  no interaction."
Literally just read your profile & thought that's us!! |
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We enjoy being watch in a club, it’s something we enjoy. One guy may get lucky one day, that’s Mrs decision and pushy gents get told to F off. Had a guy pull up a chair in a club abroad that was more off putting lol.  |
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We joined Fab primarily to watch and be watched wether in a club, Skype (or others) or in a private meet. Same room sex really appeals to us.
Our fantasy is to meet a couple on holiday and go back to our hotel for some watching and same room sex. C. |
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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago
Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf |
"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."
Agree, we have found it exciting being watched, but only by other couples. Not interested in putting on a show for single men, just not our thing. |
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.
Agree, we have found it exciting being watched, but only by other couples. Not interested in putting on a show for single men, just not our thing."
Same. |
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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago
Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf |
"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.
Agree, we have found it exciting being watched, but only by other couples. Not interested in putting on a show for single men, just not our thing.
Same. "
Nice pics, shame we aren’t in a position to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my ex loved being watched and occasionally having others join,found clubs to be the best place to indulge ourselves.If we didn't want company we went in a room with viewing windows,and if we were open to offers we played in an open room |
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"I would love to watch a locallish couple or a couple on skype,whereby etc and I wouldn't expect to join in .It's all about respect and boundaries. "
Suggestions of Skype is actually what puts me off posting for this type of thing more often.
If I can’t trust someone enough to be in the same room and behave, I’m certainly not risking them screen recording it. |
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We love to be watched, and we’ve found people to be genuinely very respectful and only approach for a play if invited. Sure there will be some who take it too far, but our experiences have only been positive. |
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"The one thing I'd really like to do is to watch a couple play, if I get invited to join in that would be a big bonus.
Is this something that would appeal to couples?"
Same with all these questions, some will done won’t! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We enjoy being watched in a club environment, but are often put off by single men getting too close (like sitting down beside us) or reaching out a hand to touch before they ask - the answer is always no!
We love putting on a bit of a show but most single men in clubs regularly invade our personal space trying to cop a feel or to get closer than the next man.
It can be very off putting when we're in the middle of something and are interrupted like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We enjoy being watched in a club environment, but are often put off by single men getting too close (like sitting down beside us) or reaching out a hand to touch before they ask - the answer is always no!
We love putting on a bit of a show but most single men in clubs regularly invade our personal space trying to cop a feel or to get closer than the next man.
It can be very off putting when we're in the middle of something and are interrupted like that."
Close enough to make this happen if you guys so wish
Had a long term couple who I used to watch. Unfortunately they moved abroad and we lost contact. I Never got involved and I was happy with that.
Something very erotic seeing the lust and naughtiness happening right in front of your eyes as the couple play
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Yes, we love being watched; it's one thing we do when we go to clubs.
I think you can always find the right space to be seen without guys getting too close if that's your preference. You just need to find the right space/room. If you go into an open area eg, orgy room/cinema room it's more difficult. But a room with a door (left open) would work better as you can make sure the guys stay at the threshold; which they generally do and then ask can they join first.
It really depends on what you're looking for. If guys do try to get too close then a firm 'that's close enough' usually suffices. Look forward to putting on a show at our next club visit. And if Mrs wants you to join us... |
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Don't mind people watching but I get a bit uncomfortable when single guys are standing practically at your shoulder and wanking. It just makes me really self-conscious. Ideal for me is a room with windows or two way mirror I guess. Helps me not to be self conscious. |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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We enjoy being watched in clubs, provided those watching remain respectful. We've not had anyone try chancing their hand to join in before but, without and invite, they'd be swiftly told which direction they should walk away in.
Last time we were watched, we got some lovely messages on here the day after which is even more of a thrill
C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love people watching us but not in person in case they tried to join in
You are looking for exactly what we are. Just watching and being watched, live porn no interaction.
Literally just read your profile & thought that's us!! "
And us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We enjoy being watched in a club environment, but are often put off by single men getting too close (like sitting down beside us) or reaching out a hand to touch before they ask - the answer is always no!
We love putting on a bit of a show but most single men in clubs regularly invade our personal space trying to cop a feel or to get closer than the next man.
It can be very off putting when we're in the middle of something and are interrupted like that.
Close enough to make this happen if you guys so wish
Had a long term couple who I used to watch. Unfortunately they moved abroad and we lost contact. I Never got involved and I was happy with that.
Something very erotic seeing the lust and naughtiness happening right in front of your eyes as the couple play
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Thanks, but we keep that to a club environment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve watched a cpl who wanted me to film their antics on their phone which I did on the condition that my only involvement was filming. It was a win win for all 3 of us. |
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"The other half and I like it, but all the guys we’ve chatted about it with on here have made clear they expect to be joining in.
Whenever I’ve suggested a watch only meet with a second potential play meet if we’re all comfortable they disappear!"
Would be more than happy to be just a Voyeur and with no participation, we're close by drop me a DM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I have got older I love to watch couples I have watched in clubs but would love to watch a couple in private.
I don't want any contact I live in hope of finding someone |
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."
our first meet was exactly this, and to be fair, even tho he was a few feet from us, he just sat and watched, being more nervous than we were.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.our first meet was exactly this, and to be fair, even tho he was a few feet from us, he just sat and watched, being more nervous than we were. "
We’ve only done it in clubs and there’s always been an attempt to touch. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love being watched, but unfortunately we wouldn't invite anyone unless in a club. You guarantee they would want to join in, would make things uncomfortable for all. |
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Some do some don't
This is something you could easily do in a club though, lots of couples who like to be watched attend clubs for that exact reason, although don't expect a 1 on 1 show though they'll usually be a crowd watching them, some time through a window, behind a rope or a barn door type room
I've had sex on a stage in a (swingers) bar abroad, there's probably similar things here in the U.K. too |
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