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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't get some guy's on here. I've been chatting to one guy and we were going to meet for a social.I met a friend one morning for a chat,I put my status;"yesterday was amazing" first guy replied, oh I see you've found someone, and is now ignoring my messages, which is fine, as he obviously didn't want to meet, what I don't get is, this is a site for meeting people, not a dating site, are we not supposed to meet anyone else if we're talking to one guy,

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman over a year ago

Some people do think that if you are spending time talking to them then you are their property, these are people to avoid like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people do think that if you are spending time talking to them then you are their property, these are people to avoid like the plague."

Oh, I'm going to, he was in my hotlist but out now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people do think that if you are spending time talking to them then you are their property, these are people to avoid like the plague.

Oh, I'm going to, he was in my hotlist but out now"

I'm available

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By *xploring_FunWoman over a year ago

coventry

Yep, some guys are very possessive. Which is very bizarre.

I had one belter last week say that he understood I would “maybe” want to meet other guys and we could discuss that, but he’d want a commitment that he’d be the priority with my time and he wouldn’t want me going to Greedy girls events and the likes as they’re “unclassy”

Erm, nope, the only person I’ll be giving any commitment to and discussing my plans with is the partner I’m very very clear about having in my profile.

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By *averockrockMan over a year ago

purton

He got the wrong side of things and shouldn't be possessive..after all swingers are open to meet others isn't it?

Not worth thinking over it, just move on, I guess? xx

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By *averockrockMan over a year ago

purton

"Yep, some guys are very possessive. Which is very bizarre.

Erm, nope, the only person I’ll be giving any commitment to and discussing my plans with is the partner I’m very very clear about having in my profile. "

Flipping heck! He has got balls to ask that! lol I bet you ladies have got plenty of stories to tell like that! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people do think that if you are spending time talking to them then you are their property, these are people to avoid like the plague.

Oh, I'm going to, he was in my hotlist but out now

I'm available

Unfortunately you're a bit to far away

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Sounds like you dodged a (very strange) bullet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yep, some guys are very possessive. Which is very bizarre.

Erm, nope, the only person I’ll be giving any commitment to and discussing my plans with is the partner I’m very very clear about having in my profile.

Flipping heck! He has got balls to ask that! lol I bet you ladies have got plenty of stories to tell like that! lol"

Oh I think we can, a couple of guy's I had met a few times blocked me because I couldn't meet when they wanted, so I counterblocked them

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By *eeds fun guyMan over a year ago

yorkshire

I think I am too much the other way sometime - I would literally be contacting you if I was going to be 3 minutes late so you would not think I wasn’t coming

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very much an ego thing for most people, some do believe they own you to some extent. It's funny how many 'old friends' show theirselves again once I receive a new verification too.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep some miss that it's a swinging site.years ago when I was single ,I met someone who used to get a face on if I met anyone else.

We didn't agree to be exclusive,so I stopped meeting him .some people cause so much drama when they don't get their own way here sadly.

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By *hil most chillMan over a year ago

London, South East & Europe

Huge red flag, probably good you found out at this early stage.

If I'm chatting to someone here I wouldn't dream of getting pissy if she met someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Huge red flag, probably good you found out at this early stage.

If I'm chatting to someone here I wouldn't dream of getting pissy if she met someone else

We were only going to meet for a social anyway, damn I've missed out on a coffee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never forget that on here we are seen and see each other as either a disposable commodity that can be used or a commodity that need to be owned.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"Never forget that on here we are seen and see each other as either a disposable commodity that can be used or a commodity that need to be owned. "

Ummmm... no, "we" don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess some people don’t understand what NSA means

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Never forget that on here we are seen and see each other as either a disposable commodity that can be used or a commodity that need to be owned.

Ummmm... no, "we" don't."

Yes maybe not all but Most of us do to a certain extent.

The ‘we’ was too emphasised my argument .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met guys in the passed that think just because we have met up once are now my partner, start texting me about their day and what we could do over the weekend. There are surprised when I involving that I have another meet at that time.

Now I don't give out my contact details any more so as a way of saying it's stays on here and nothing more.

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By *azpiz1Man over a year ago

Shrewsbury

This is a swingers site - we are (mostly) all here to have fun with like minded people.

You don't owe anyone anything. If you are chatting with someone, that's all it is. If you are going to meet for a social, that's all that is.

If they, or you, want to chat, meet, play or even marry someone else, during the interaction, then that's completely up to them or you - it doesn't mean they aren't still interested in you, or vice versa...

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By *ananaman41Man over a year ago

Dublin

"I don't get some guy's on here. I've been chatting to one guy and we were going to meet for a social.I met a friend one morning for a chat,I put my status;"yesterday was amazing" first guy replied, oh I see you've found someone, and is now ignoring my messages, which is fine, as he obviously didn't want to meet, what I don't get is, this is a site for meeting people, not a dating site, are we not supposed to meet anyone else if we're talking to one guy, "

What was so amazing about the chat with your friend?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You do know how to pick them lol I do hope your not to upset by this

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By *umalotagainMan over a year ago

a town called malice

There is definitely a sense of entitlement from some. Where others of us are only too happy to get a meet with someone we have been talking to, after all i wouldn’t be talking it I wasn’t interested, would I expect someone not to meet others if we were talking? Of course not especially on a site like fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wish someone would chat with me let alone a social

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By *_new_memberMan over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Had a similar thing with a lady I was chatting with on here a while ago. Told her I had a meet arranged and she went crazy. Once she'd calmed down I gave her a second chance, big mistake. Turns out I should have listened to my instincts rather than follow my cock

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

There is actually a flip side to this when women I've chatted to have insisted that they were not chatting to anyone else on the site which I knew to be a lie.

It didn't mean a thing to me to be honest because it hadn't been a topic of conversation up to that point. They just volunteered the information but it was glaringly obvious from their forum interaction that they were chatting to half the forum.

As I prefer to take the time to get to know people before even meeting for a social it doesn't suit for me to try and maintain numerous conversations but I know the nature of the site involves networking so if others want to chat to many others that's fine with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Run from these people!! possessiveness outside of a relationship is something to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people do think that if you are spending time talking to them then you are their property, these are people to avoid like the plague.

Oh, I'm going to, he was in my hotlist but out now

I'm available

Unfortunately you're a bit to far away

I'm closer