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over a year ago
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol  "
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? |
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Daytime weekends are fine. Is that what you mean?  Daytime weekday we and lots of others are working of course so yep you are reducing the odds. Of course daytime during the week suggests playing away without permission which puts many off. Many clubs have daytime weekday events to cater for such people |
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
especially when then they use the word 'discreet' or as some say 'discrete'.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can meet anytime but we’ve never had a really decent offer.
Daytimes are usually the haunt of the shadow avatar and all private pictures guy looking for discrete nsa for some odd reason. |
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Daytime meets are best for me as I no longer work, my daughter is at school and my wife is at work. It gives me much more flexibility. And yes, my wife does know I'm on here and she's fine with it before anyone starts making comments! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
We’re just free during the day sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
Any herein lies the stereotype reinforcement that is often wrong... Some of us are the boss, self employed and can conduct their day just how they please. .. 100pc single.  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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I (Bry) work odd shift patterns and have random days off. Char works from home and is self-employed. It gives us the flexibility for daytime meets and we both feel sexier in the mornings.
Char's daytime meets are sometimes when I'm at work but doesn't mean she's cheating on me.
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By *eliusMan
over a year ago
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
Some truth in that, however I’m a sports coach and work most evenings until late .. daytime suits me better. |
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With us I work very long days and might not be home for days Laura is a teacher so we do meets when we can weather it's daytime or evening all depends on when we're both free |
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
for me it's easier as my kid who lives with me is at school |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol "
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
I agree the offers I've had for day meets are often from men sneaking around ,not always though.
Some work normal office hours op and can't just leave work for a meet ,whilst others do shifts so it might suit them better.
All depends on the individuals.
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
You are wrong! I’m not attached and very much single so I’d be down for a day or evening meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fairly flexible but like most still struggle for a meet daytime or evenings, weekdays or weekends. Its obviously because of the ratio of women to men. I wish I was a couple looking for another couple but don't think it would be any easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
This is generally what I tend to think, rightly or wrongly plus I work weekday daytimes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"a lot of us think there is something "underhand" or "sleazy" about daytime meets, its only a silly state of mind but I guess its the "victorian" coming out in us lol
Daytime meets usually mean someone is attached but can sneak off whilst at work. Am I wrong? "
Yes you're wrong. Some of us work day shifts, night shifts or both |
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Daytime just easier for me and I am 100% single.
I have a weird shift pattern and days of in the week are common and preferable as when days off fall on weekends I have family meet ups to do, with those that don’t get week days off.
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Sure many have genuine reasons for wanting daytime meets during the week but can't get away from the fact that making it harder to meet people, especially men. Much smaller pool of ladies/couples free weekday daytimes.
When we used to run groups had group socials. Men were clamouring for them but when we fixed for Saturday night vast majority were unable to attend. Most of the couples/ladies were fine. We tried Friday instead and same result Don't think it was all because of shift patterns etc. |
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