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Do couples still do spontaneous meets?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been on fab on and off for over 10 years . I always enjoyed spontaneous meets with couples and females. It seems now a days every thing has to be arranged days before. For me it kills the joy and buzz.
Sex should be spontaneous? Do you guys agree? |
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"I have been on fab on and off for over 10 years . I always enjoyed spontaneous meets with couples and females. It seems now a days every thing has to be arranged days before. For me it kills the joy and buzz.
Sex should be spontaneous? Do you guys agree? "
Not really, as fun as spontaneity can be, I found it better to have a connection first as everyone is more comfortable opening up and being in the moment. That can also happen on spontaneous meets, just I find it’s not as often. Plus I hope that I can find a connection with a couple and a woman that also would like to meet regularly or go to clubs with  |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"I have been on fab on and off for over 10 years . I always enjoyed spontaneous meets with couples and females. It seems now a days every thing has to be arranged days before. For me it kills the joy and buzz.
Sex should be spontaneous? Do you guys agree? "
no I don't agree it should take hours days in the planning, outfits have to be picked, kids looked after, spray tan applied, teeth sorted, hair done, shoes picked and that's just the guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit of a connection or spark is required for me… and also like to meet for a social so I can suss someone’s vibe out first too. Sometimes it’s just not what you’re looking for
And totally disagree that sex is better if it’s spontaneous although it has its place. For planned meets I find the the build up, flirting and filth before a meet can be the difference between mind blowing and meh for me. It’s part of the foreplay! |
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