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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me |
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me "
Not for me, but I've never liked going more than a few years younger than my own age.
Each to their own of course |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me "
Like me, you're an old toss pot. O feel weird being hit on by guys my daughter's age, and she's 21! Not sure how I'd feel if I found her profile on here.   |
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Only problem with teens on hear is when you happen to get a message from one and it turns out to be your mates dau . unfortunately I recognized Hur tattoo and then messaged Hur back to say I really don't think she shood put photos of Hur tattoos up publicly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I started swinging when I was 18. You don't need to look at thier profiles or talk to them if you don't want to.
This.
Just scroll on… "
Where did this come from ?
I’m not talking about talking or wanting to meet them
Oh forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am more than happy to introduce legal age women or couple to swinging scene. There is nothing wrong if young woman or couple wants to explore more about sex and experience new things. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I started swinging when I was 18. You don't need to look at thier profiles or talk to them if you don't want to.
This.
Just scroll on…
Where did this come from ?
I’m not talking about talking or wanting to meet them
Oh forums "
I don't begrudge them being here. I think we're just bemoaning our age! Lol.   |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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I don't begrudge them being here. I think we're just bemoaning our age! Lol. "
That nail was hit firmly on the head.
I don't resent the fact that they're young. I resent the fact that I'm old   |
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me "
Do many people think like this? |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me
Do many people think like this? "
Not at all, I think it’s good people embrace themselves. I started pretty young myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) 44 weeks ago
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Being a younger guy it’s definitely harder to get into the scene solo. Especially as people think you’d go for anything. But obviously when you want to try something and see where it goes surely that’s allowed? I know for a lot of people it’s a lifestyle as they’ve been doing it for decades but that’s obviously not an option for us younger people |
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me "
Yup it’s you! Young adults are entitled to swing too. Fab is for all adults, not just people’s own demographic.They have as much right and probably undeservingly have to put up with a lot of crap from preachy people and creepy old types trying to get involved in their sh*t?! |
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I'm actually quite happy that I'm not attracted to teens or even 20s couples. Nice to look at though lol ( 18+ obviously ).
We both used to have a 10 years plus or minus sort of attitude, that's increased a little over the years. |
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Have to admit I feel offended for them, who are any of us on here to think we have the right to decide it’s ok to question if another adult demographic have the right to be here? Whether it’s age, gender, ethnicity or anything else? No one has the right to question if another adult should be on here based on anything else! Damn, great way to present fab as a double standard place. Next time, why not ask if people think your demograph should be allowed on here? |
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If the internet and fab existed when we were teenagers, we’d have absolutely been on here. But I’m glad it didn’t exist, because navigating this lifestyle successfully requires emotional maturity, which nobody has when they are young. |
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I was mature for my years when I was that age. Mainly spent my youth generally dating women many years my senior as I just seemed to connect better than with young women my own age who just sort of seemed lacking in some of the things I valued and a little immature.
Maturity and where your at as an individual is individual. It's not for us to say all very young adults aren't in the right place. And neither is there any system to be the bench mark of if adult of any age is suitable for the lifestyle.
Therefore all we can is take people as we find them and hope people use good judgement and don't exploit vulnerability (obviously this is ideal and not something that always happens). We have in our time in clubs met some great young people and been very suprise as to how young until they tell us. Likewise we've met some who in our opinion are really not in the right place (not necessarily just due to age). Personally we have some young adult kids so for us anyone close to those ages would not really feel right. But it's not for us to police others fun and desires. Although sometimes find it sits a little uncomfortable with us when we see couples where one is say 18/19 and the other 30+. Just because we know that however mature you are a 18 there's no substitute for the formative experience you learn in your 20s and there is just something feels a bit off about that power mismatch when someone has just moved out of adolescence. Especially with the benifit of life experience and seeing/experiences of so many iffy things in the past when very young adults are with far older adults. But we take people as we find them so that doesn't mean it's always bad just in general something that as a default sits uneasy.
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Our first couples profile on these sites was when we were still at uni - so around 20/21 not quite teens. Remembering the messages we got, the simple truth is that a very high percentage of men are sexually attracted to young women no matter how much they pretend otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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They can join, and why shouldn’t they? You don’t have to message them. I don’t like seeing women trussed up in rope in what comes across as some bizarre hostage situation, but I don’t try and take offence on someone else’s behalf about it. Good on them for being liberated at that age. A LOT are fake, but some are real. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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Look to see if they’re photo verified and if they have solid veris from quality profiles. Which is what you should be doing with all profiles regardless of age. |
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"Your telling me you would decline a fit 18/19 year old if they offered you the chance to meet them? "
Yeah, I'd say "leave me alone....get off my profile..."
Though I'd question, as a wise man has said, whether they are a 50 year old truck driver, called Barry. |
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"I suspect many 18 yearolds on Fab are actually sweaty 50 year old lorry drivers called Barry..."
Barrys a good bloke and its just heavy bones.
As for the op... Yes its creepy... Go back to skateboarding and hanging around the 7 11 and come back in a few years time. |
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"Your telling me you would decline a fit 18/19 year old if they offered you the chance to meet them?
Yeah, I'd say "leave me alone....get off my profile..."
Though I'd question, as a wise man has said, whether they are a 50 year old truck driver, called Barry."
bollocks! |
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"Your telling me you would decline a fit 18/19 year old if they offered you the chance to meet them?
Yeah, I'd say "leave me alone....get off my profile..."
Though I'd question, as a wise man has said, whether they are a 50 year old truck driver, called Barry. bollocks!"
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By *andb69Couple 41 weeks ago
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"they are a little young to be on here,, they should be out playing games like kick the can,,, hide and seek,, knock and run
Putting jonnies on exhaust pipes"
Going to Afghanistan and fighting the Taliban. |
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"they are a little young to be on here,, they should be out playing games like kick the can,,, hide and seek,, knock and run
Putting jonnies on exhaust pipes
Going to Afghanistan and fighting the Taliban."
Exactly |
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"Your telling me you would decline a fit 18/19 year old if they offered you the chance to meet them? "
100% I'd feel like a perve. That's 33 years younger than me. I equally wouldn't meet someone 33years older, 84. Wouldn't feel an attraction. |
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"Your telling me you would decline a fit 18/19 year old if they offered you the chance to meet them?"
"100% I'd feel like a perve. That's 33 years younger than me. I equally wouldn't meet someone 33years older, 84. Wouldn't feel an attraction."
Seconded. Would feel weird, personally speaking. |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me
Like me, you're an old toss pot. O feel weird being hit on by guys my daughter's age, and she's 21! Not sure how I'd feel if I found her profile on here. "
but your profile says you are looking for ages between 18 and older lol |
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"they are a little young to be on here,, they should be out playing games like kick the can,,, hide and seek,, knock and run
Putting jonnies on exhaust pipes
Going to Afghanistan and fighting the Taliban."
Exactly. Glad someone mentioned this. |
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By *askent1Man 41 weeks ago
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My daughter started as a teenager. It’s a bit hypocritical to call people too young just because they are younger than you. They are old enough to vote and get married. Why can’t they have a liberal sex life as well? |
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By *heelerMan 37 weeks ago
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"Maybe it’s because I’m an old toss pot
But for me
Seeing profiles of 18 year olds doesn’t sit right
Is it just me ?
I know it’s their choice
I don’t know
Seems wrong to me "
I know what you mean there was recently a couple i think 18 and 19 that could accomodate just didn't look right |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy 
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all "
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting "
Eh? What a very strange comment |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment "
 McFlurrys should be BANISHED |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment "
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot"
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation "
Not quite sure how a Big Mac for a child is in moderation. Anything consensual for 18+ is cool for me, love seeing young women who are in charge of their own lives. |
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting "
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation
Not quite sure how a Big Mac for a child is in moderation. Anything consensual for 18+ is cool for me, love seeing young women who are in charge of their own lives. "
So do I but not with middle age men it’s creepy!
Also when was the last time you were at McDonald’s? Lol The menu is very varied now you can even get carrots, water, grilled chicken salad.
Don’t know anyone who would give their child a Big Mac we wouldn’t even touch one of those
But we must be one of those parents that mustn’t have maternal instincts to treat our children now and again to a rather healthy happy meal.. oops
All they want is the toy anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food."
You'll have to draw me a diagram, I have no idea what you are talking about. |
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation
Not quite sure how a Big Mac for a child is in moderation. Anything consensual for 18+ is cool for me, love seeing young women who are in charge of their own lives.
So do I but not with middle age men it’s creepy!
Also when was the last time you were at McDonald’s? Lol The menu is very varied now you can even get carrots, water, grilled chicken salad.
Don’t know anyone who would give their child a Big Mac we wouldn’t even touch one of those
But we must be one of those parents that mustn’t have maternal instincts to treat our children now and again to a rather healthy happy meal.. oops
All they want is the toy anyway "
I go to McDonald's about three times a week and have never seen a carrot.
Sadly I have seen young ones eating the large meals which even I cannot eat anymore and think its a disgrace.
I've never had a toy, no fair |
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot"
Psssst, the food goes in the mouth  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?"
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation
Not quite sure how a Big Mac for a child is in moderation. Anything consensual for 18+ is cool for me, love seeing young women who are in charge of their own lives.
So do I but not with middle age men it’s creepy!
Also when was the last time you were at McDonald’s? Lol The menu is very varied now you can even get carrots, water, grilled chicken salad.
Don’t know anyone who would give their child a Big Mac we wouldn’t even touch one of those
But we must be one of those parents that mustn’t have maternal instincts to treat our children now and again to a rather healthy happy meal.. oops
All they want is the toy anyway
I go to McDonald's about three times a week and have never seen a carrot.
Sadly I have seen young ones eating the large meals which even I cannot eat anymore and think its a disgrace.
I've never had a toy, no fair "
You eat there 3x a week but a parent shouldn’t be able to take their kids there for a treat? |
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation
Not quite sure how a Big Mac for a child is in moderation. Anything consensual for 18+ is cool for me, love seeing young women who are in charge of their own lives.
So do I but not with middle age men it’s creepy!
Also when was the last time you were at McDonald’s? Lol The menu is very varied now you can even get carrots, water, grilled chicken salad.
Don’t know anyone who would give their child a Big Mac we wouldn’t even touch one of those
But we must be one of those parents that mustn’t have maternal instincts to treat our children now and again to a rather healthy happy meal.. oops
All they want is the toy anyway
I go to McDonald's about three times a week and have never seen a carrot.
Sadly I have seen young ones eating the large meals which even I cannot eat anymore and think its a disgrace.
I've never had a toy, no fair "
Ah, so it's jealousy |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not. "
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy "
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Who is actually saying they do that? I wasn’t for one talking about children I was talking about 18+ teenagers. It was nothing to do with the context of my comment
Even though it’s completely out with what I was discussing It’s actually more detrimental for children to withhold treats from them for their mental and physical wellbeing.
Everything in moderation
Not quite sure how a Big Mac for a child is in moderation. Anything consensual for 18+ is cool for me, love seeing young women who are in charge of their own lives.
So do I but not with middle age men it’s creepy!
Also when was the last time you were at McDonald’s? Lol The menu is very varied now you can even get carrots, water, grilled chicken salad.
Don’t know anyone who would give their child a Big Mac we wouldn’t even touch one of those
But we must be one of those parents that mustn’t have maternal instincts to treat our children now and again to a rather healthy happy meal.. oops
All they want is the toy anyway
I go to McDonald's about three times a week and have never seen a carrot.
Sadly I have seen young ones eating the large meals which even I cannot eat anymore and think its a disgrace.
I've never had a toy, no fair
Ah, so it's jealousy "
No...not at all...yes it is |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake"
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent."
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right"
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food.
You'll have to draw me a diagram, I have no idea what you are talking about. "
I have not a slightest interest in doing so but maybe think twice before you judge someone based on your own ignorance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food.
You'll have to draw me a diagram, I have no idea what you are talking about.
I have not a slightest interest in doing so but maybe think twice before you judge someone based on your own ignorance. "
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food."
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not. "
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By *tuluMan 37 weeks ago
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Can’t remember if I was 18 or 19 when I started swinging with my ex. But we met people our own age then. As long as they are of legal age, don’t worry about it. Nobody is forcing you to meet 18 year olds. |
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right"
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can. |
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Opened a couple of "hot pics" only to find out they were 18, 19, 20... Etc..
Closed them quickly and actually felt a little bit sick...
Would be nice if not only being able to have message filters for age but actually not see profiles, or have them hidden.
I've absolutely no issue with these guys and girls having fun and exploring the world. At my age I just don't want to be part of it... |
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food.
Exactly this "
I know its a very different thread. But if taking kids into fast food outlets doesnt help to start some of the hidden disabilities related to food... I dont know what does. |
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can."
So it's good for you then? |
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
I think personally your comment is disgusting and very judgemental and clearly shows no understanding of hidden disabilities related to food.
Exactly this "
Thats why I need to be enlightened I'm sure...not happening yet |
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By *elkieWoman 37 weeks ago
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot"
Actually, they can. Legally. It’s called Gillick competence, the guidelines used to determine whether or not a child is able to give their own consent, but medically, consent is a sliding slope and not a clear line. Similarly, the age of consent is below the age to be exposed to porn and adult images for a reason. So children can legally consent to a milkshake though it might not be good for them, and 18yos can be on fab even though it might not be good for them. Simple.
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Perhaps which I have seen on Fab forums. Big age gap.
Older male , younger female. Older male = pervert , creep plus a lot more words ?
Older female , younger male = Lucky her proves she can still attract etc. Compliments mostly.
Yet to me . Hypocritical as female should be treated same as male ?
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"Personally if I see a middle age person wanting to do anything with a teenager is sleazy
Maybe because we have children that age and my maternal instincts are heightened.
Just doesn’t sit right at all
Personally if I see parents taking their little ones to McDonald's then I think it's disgusting
Eh? What a very strange comment
I just wonder about people's "maternal instincts" when they fill their little ones arteries full of big macs and chocolate milk shakes. 18yos can consent, kids cannot
Actually, they can. Legally. It’s called Gillick competence, the guidelines used to determine whether or not a child is able to give their own consent, but medically, consent is a sliding slope and not a clear line. Similarly, the age of consent is below the age to be exposed to porn and adult images for a reason. So children can legally consent to a milkshake though it might not be good for them, and 18yos can be on fab even though it might not be good for them. Simple.
And "
This is what I meant by being enlightened, something I have never heard of till now.
If it was a happy meal or a milkshake then contextually it isn't really a problem. I just see little kids with fat arms and legs eating supersize meals and think that the parents should be supervising these children a lot better than that. |
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can."
I go 3x a week and am below my bmi. I do a physical job so I probably convert energy more than supersize kids are going to |
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"Perhaps which I have seen on Fab forums. Big age gap.
Older male , younger female. Older male = pervert , creep plus a lot more words ?
Older female , younger male = Lucky her proves she can still attract etc. Compliments mostly.
Yet to me . Hypocritical as female should be treated same as male ?
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Yeah I kinda feel the same, Is there female equivilant to the “the dirty old man” |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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It is personal choice and like most have said already, it's legal they can start swinging and enjoy themselves. But yeah am an old git and not interested in teens. |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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A few on here are saying nooo they think its wrong or not for them but there age range is 18 upwards ?
Im all for 18 year olds to do what they want as, if there was a forum with 18 to 25 year olds saying its wrong for people 50 plus to be on here as youre old youd be kicking off.
You dont have to engage with them just turn your age range up problem solved |
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"A few on here are saying nooo they think its wrong or not for them but there age range is 18 upwards ?
Im all for 18 year olds to do what they want as, if there was a forum with 18 to 25 year olds saying its wrong for people 50 plus to be on here as youre old youd be kicking off.
You dont have to engage with them just turn your age range up problem solved "
Totally agree
If you don't agree block their age
Some of the nicest people I've met on here were teen |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I joined here at 19, unsure why it should be considered wrong or frowned upon, just change your filters and scroll on if it bothers you, im certain there’s no younger people starting forum threads saying that people are too old to be on here/swinging. We’re all legal and here for a bit of fun, happy fabbing x |
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can.
So it's good for you then?"
It may ght be better than what they get at home. Fast foods/takeaways are known to be bad for your health if consumed frequently, let's say 3x a week |
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can.
I go 3x a week and am below my bmi. I do a physical job so I probably convert energy more than supersize kids are going to"
BMI doesn't inform the person if they have triglycerides in their organs (known as far on the inside). |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can.
I go 3x a week and am below my bmi. I do a physical job so I probably convert energy more than supersize kids are going to
BMI doesn't inform the person if they have triglycerides in their organs (known as far on the inside)."
BMI is also a load of bollocks. |
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"Perhaps which I have seen on Fab forums. Big age gap.
Older male , younger female. Older male = pervert , creep plus a lot more words ?
Older female , younger male = Lucky her proves she can still attract etc. Compliments mostly.
Yet to me . Hypocritical as female should be treated same as male ?
Yeah I kinda feel the same, Is there female equivilant to the “the dirty old man”"
Lucky?
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"How did we go from adults shouldn’t be on a swinging site to children eating a filet-o-fish?
I tried and failed miserably to demonstrate that 18yo have consent and kids do not.
Next you’ll be telling me you need consent from a baby to change their n@ppy
You would if it was full of chocolate milkshake
You’ve just described every single one I’ve changed in my 7 years of being a parent.
It isn't the same though, you change a n*ppy for sanitary reasons, feeding lard to kids in large amounts is not right
But you go in 3x a week?
As a previous poster mentioned "everything in moderation". And young children, with their rapid growth, will probably convert more into energy than you can.
I go 3x a week and am below my bmi. I do a physical job so I probably convert energy more than supersize kids are going to
BMI doesn't inform the person if they have triglycerides in their organs (known as far on the inside).
BMI is also a load of bollocks."
It's not, it's an indicator to excess adipose and visceral fat. Indicator! Clinical knowledge is required also. |
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Good for them - a healthy attitude to recreational sex and for all the hand wringing going on, the youngsters rarely want anything to do with us wrinkly old fuckers anyway, so judging the ‘age gap’ is pure fantasy on your part. Leave them alone.
However occasionally they reach out across the age gap looking for the experience of the older sexual partner. Having been that young man of 19 I will be forever grateful to a German lady 16 years older than me who lodged with me for a month (and then her friend too who visited for a week) who taught me many wonderful things… |
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By *askent1Man 36 weeks ago
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My daughter started swinging at 18. She was brought up with a libera latitude to sex and her body. She has never had mental health or body dismorphia issues.
Perhaps it’s time we all started to see the positive slide effects of sex rather than hiding it away. |
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"My daughter started swinging at 18. She was brought up with a libera latitude to sex and her body. She has never had mental health or body dismorphia issues.
Perhaps it’s time we all started to see the positive slide effects of sex rather than hiding it away. "
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By *ampire69Man 36 weeks ago
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lets just say the teenagers of today 2023 are not the teenagers of my day, my generation knew nothing in comparison of modern day teenagers. we never had the knowledge of the internet and mobile communications. our generation had the phone box at the end of the road. Physically modern teenagers are far more bodily developed than what we ever were, i feel like your talking about chalk and cheese |
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"lets just say the teenagers of today 2023 are not the teenagers of my day, my generation knew nothing in comparison of modern day teenagers. we never had the knowledge of the internet and mobile communications. our generation had the phone box at the end of the road. Physically modern teenagers are far more bodily developed than what we ever were, i feel like your talking about chalk and cheese "
What? More bodily developed? That’s absolute bullsh*t and sounds more than a little bit creepy |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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I was sexually curious and awakened at a young age so why shouldn’t others be the same? I’d find it quite a turn on to meet young and open minded people, so long as they were of legal age the other critical factor is I would not want to feel as though I were taking advantage of a vulnerable person (that would be a massive turn off anyway), though that applies to any age also. There’s a difference between naivety and inexperience. |
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I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach. |
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"I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach. "
I'm guessing you have brought them up well so they will have their own minds |
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By *askent1Man 36 weeks ago
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If you have raised them to be open with you and open minded I don’t see this happening. If they have a kink for olde men/women then why shouldn’t they be allowed to experiment. If it isn’t hurting them mentally or physically I don’t see why you would have a problem with this. My daughter tells me when she has Mamet and who with. She is 22 now and has been. Doing this since she was 18. That’s a safety thing and I would never stop her doing whatever she wants with whoever she chooses. Wether I approve or not is irrelevant. |
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"I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach. "
I understand why just because someone is 18-early twenties it makes them “prey”
I feel like it’s pretty natural by that age to be mature enough to make your own sexual decisions. It just seems a bit overprotective .
Vulnerable adults is definitely a different case tho |
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"If you have raised them to be open with you and open minded I don’t see this happening. If they have a kink for olde men/women then why shouldn’t they be allowed to experiment. If it isn’t hurting them mentally or physically I don’t see why you would have a problem with this. My daughter tells me when she has Mamet and who with. She is 22 now and has been. Doing this since she was 18. That’s a safety thing and I would never stop her doing whatever she wants with whoever she chooses. Wether I approve or not is irrelevant. "
I think it’s great you have that relationship with her where she’s comfortable enough to communicate with you to be safe . At a certain point it’s not for you to approve or disapprove , it’s her life |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
I would do the exact same
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach. "
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"I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach.
I don’t understand why just because someone is 18-early twenties it makes them “prey”
I feel like it’s pretty natural by that age to be mature enough to make your own sexual decisions. It just seems a bit overprotective .
Vulnerable adults is definitely a different case tho "
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"I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach. "
Do you think the same applies to young men too? |
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"I have to admit it makes me uncomfortable. I know they are adults at 18 but.....
As a mother of 2 20 something's and a teenager I wouldn't even want to believe that they could be doing this. And if any man 15 years + older than my daughter at 18, touched her I would hunt them down and chop it off.
Also I work with vulnerable young adults with mental health problems. They are just young girls and even though legally they are adults emotionally they are way below that. I've seen how they can use sex as validation and the thought of older men preying on them makes me sick to the stomach.
Do you think the same applies to young men too? "
I think there is generally a different reaction if it’s a young guy, it seems like it’s more acceptable to older swingers |
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By (user no longer on site) 36 weeks ago
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"Teens and 20 yr olds are not for us, but they have the right to be here just like 70 plus yr olds. "
exactly, it’s all about preference but we all have the right to be here if it’s what we choose x |
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