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over a year ago
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I’m in |
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over a year ago
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we are in xx |
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over a year ago
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Am in |
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over a year ago
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Good morning, I'm in! |
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over a year ago
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Ok, I’ll give it a go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never played in club but really want to. Been scared as a M to go to club alone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At this stage we only do club meets - but they are never of the "cock tease" variety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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good clubs or places (never say best until you have tried all) for single men include Kestrels, Hellfire and the Attic |
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over a year ago
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Go for it. I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In, ask me something  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll hang round wanking in the corner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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eating pussy (by George) : is fingers, lips, tongue and loads of good quality listening as the lady arches her back, moans and responds to questions of intent, pace and strength
eating cock (by Anne) : is firm and resourceful use of the hands (manicured perfect), the mouth and the body (rub style) with close attention to licking, sucking, loose biting and tense deep throating until completion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been to a club so simple answer no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d certainly take the oral if offered, then after a brief respite I’d be in for a second, much longer, vaginal sessions,
As for leading or watching, I should be so lucky! Id certainly be excited enough to start proceedings, but equally happy to watch and wank while waiting my turn. Tantalising and exciting thought though…..x |
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over a year ago
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I'm in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like touch would be the most controlled method of helping a woman orgasm, once you've found a spot that is having the desired effect it is easier to repeat the process to have the desired effect, I also love being able to watch the pleasure on her face whilst doing it. Using a tongue or kissing is an amazing when it happens, it's harder to visually see the impact of what you are doing, but feeling it through my face by her movement (hopefully writhing around with pleasure) and hearing it is a fantastic feeling. And what man doesn't enjoy the thought of a woman cumming because of prowess with his throbbing member |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't mind to lead the bang,and yes I like to open it with good oral before filling up pussy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The extent of information out there.
Plus the amount of time it takes out of your life and reliance on it to ‘stay up to date’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m thinking JLo and John Craven! Enough said |
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over a year ago
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It happened in the most amazing way. I was teaching her to play the saxophone. She was 10 years my junior and a body to die for. I was using language such as make sure your mouth covers it to make a good seal and push up gently with your lower lip. Use your tongue to get the flutter effect. I was talking about the mouth piece. She had other ideas. It didn’t take long until she did everything I mentioned but it was not the sax mouth piece in her mouth. X |
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over a year ago
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Anne always swallows never spits x |
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over a year ago
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"Anne always swallows never spits x "
We like Anne |
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I have had sex in England Spain and U.S.
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over a year ago
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I'm in |
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Oh definitely! Sometimes it's not about the pleasure but the other emotions that are evoked as well/instead of. The feelings of helplessness, submission, relinquishing to the inevitability of the situation are equally incredible as the more socially accepted norms of sex and intimacy. |
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Normally Aldi. It's closest and has a good range of alcohol in it |
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Nothing ticked off yet. The first part of the year was busy with events from Christmas and birthday presents so our 'child free' time has been used on other things. Hoping for a warm and fun summer with plenty of babysitting offers from the grandparents |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we were the Fab Police: three key laws or rules ... (1) clear boundaries , no thank you means thank you and pass on (2) blocking can be challenged once and once only by a message (which itself must be respectful and enquiry driven) and (3) men who are single should turn up for play dates or give 24 hours alert .. too many women let down. |
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over a year ago
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Our 11 man bukkake session last Sunday: yes that was Anne's largest crew (normally 5-7) ; she always sucks natural and she took eight cim/throat with the remainder on body or in/on pussy ... she is not averse to cum bath treatment when showers are available and reliable |
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Definitely the weatherspoons option.  |
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No, that's never happened to me tho I'm turned on now just thinking about it. I do get turned on when any woman gets the jacuzzi with me at the local health spa. Any woman!! |
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over a year ago
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"Definitely the weatherspoons option. "
Good call, style and panache right there. Getting finger blasted in a Spoons booth |
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over a year ago
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Clothed for me, I love to see a woman dressed in sexy underwear! Removal optional, I'd probably lean towards keeping it on but whatever she would prefer is goood with me! |
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Yes I have been involved in group and FFM/ MFM and enjoyed them all! |
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Definitely worth it. The sex after is animalistic. |
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over a year ago
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Jose my Spanish lover (Anne) ... he is divine and George adored being the guy outside the room telling others (watching via the glass window) that that was his wife with his friend in carnal embrace ... 3 hours of quality fucking |
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By licking the end long enough to allow my tongue in to lick the rest out.  |
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Difficult! Hitler was a terrible evil person, but by killing him how would history change ? |
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Lingerie definitely works! Different situations and scenarios require different aesthetics. Whenever we have a guest it always starts with Debs in lingerie but given her penchant for being cum over it's often discarded during our play session.
Nude also works but having something to take off is fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ask away I’m still in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For other men: cim
For my beloved husband: cum deep in pussy |
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Working from home wearing gym kit ,tight leggings sports vest and my old favourite thong xx |
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How do you eat yours? If you mean cream eggs I don't eat them sorry to say xx |
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Anyone that gets my nipples hard is half way there. |
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69 with another girl while her hubby had her from behind. He pulled out & came in my mouth.  |
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over a year ago
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Short hair is a turn on…..and prefer the new look for down there! |
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Get this question all time ,most public place we've had sex? On nudest beech in Greece with about 10 guys watching and wanking around and some over me xx |
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2 atm. Sucking hubby and the other from behind. Maybe 3 in the future. X |
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I'm not a size queen, so a big cock isn't impressive to me. Xx |
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over a year ago
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We would live in Cheltenham because of the beauty, gardens, community and culture. |
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over a year ago
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Always in for these..bring it on xx |
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Do we spend more time in gym or having sex xx I train 5 days a week hubby 6 but we have fun together every morning and again at night . Weekends as much fun together as possible dx |
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Interesting question have I ever tag teamed group of guys with another woman as hubbies watch. No but sounds fun hubby would love it X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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11 man bukkake: no , to my memory no man cum on my short hair (I wanted that but they really wanted the cim option) ... have done so in the past. x A |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely I feel like a queen and enjoy pleasuring them both simultaneously too |
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Can't answer for hubby but I'm sure he would say yes.
Me.
Absolutely especially when he cums. X |
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I would say, it depends on the lighting, the shadows and the angle! Sometimes, black and white is the most flattering solution! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably on Woodbury summers evening threesome with our regular guy fucking he from behind stood up while I ducked hubby sat in the back seat x our guy was so excited he kept coming over and over inside me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we adored the connection between ourselves as we reminded each other that erotic adventures are just an extra to our already wonderful life together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never ... she gets men to do it for her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Marilyn Monroe, Robin Williams, Freddie Mercury and Matty Healy |
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Yes, it's an option for Charlie, in the right circumstances, but not for our guests. |
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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago
In my pants |
Oh easy! Maya Jama and Jason Momoa |
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over a year ago
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So we are having a threesome tonight and I’m excited but as I’ve never played with a girl that’s certainly something I’d like to try.
It would have to include kisses and lots of oral as well as a good old fashioned spitroast x or in the case of an mff a 699 haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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many times at home and in a club;
once in a club |
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No, we are still relatively new to this so inexperienced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great question!
Personality first for connection, then if a couple; pussy and cock |
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over a year ago
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I’m still in x |
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By *ob_nwMan
over a year ago
Cumbria |
using my tongue and fingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wasn’t full sex but hubby made me come with his fingers on a bus full of people lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in, inbox is open |
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We did have rules in that scenario, of either combination, but currently we don't. Concluded we may as well extract the most fun possible from the situation, it might not happen again in a hurry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in hit me |
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over a year ago
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We’re in |
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An hour and 10 observers. 5 minutes is not enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in… ask away… |
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Underestimated how fun/erotic/intoxicating the dynamic/lifestyle can be. For both of us, little things tick so many boxes and we've had so much fun on so many occasions. |
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Was at a club local to us the other week. & yes we both came.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had great sex with both… but a mmm has to be the best experience I’ve ever had in the bedroom…. |
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We’re fairly tame tbf but would probably be a swingers club |
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For us it would have to be personality if we click we find the fun is loads better |
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I'll assume by " her" you mean me.
Was the shower b4 work this morning. X |
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She would be wearing a crotchless teddy underneath a skirt and blouse combination. He would be wearing a pair of well fitting boxers.
Debs would either be in matching black underwear or try and get away with wearing her fishnet bodystocking.
Charlie would either be commando or in a pair of well fitting boxers too! |
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No it was my fingers. Black with purple lace panelling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our rules are simple, only Hubby and I call each other ‘baby’, no whispering during play and no bum stuff haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Monday night, with hubby’s fingers inside me feeling me contract and release afterwards x heaven |
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Always happy to answer any questions |
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Go on fire away, will answer anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m actually not wearing any atm |
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I like both equally. Each have their own qualities. I'll happily spend all night with a girl and same with a guy. Just depends on the mood and situation. X |
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In the office. And hubby last night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still in x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In Portsmouth as a serving marine with a student. Kissed and played together |
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Not sure that I have one. Possibly a glory hole, as I know it's just sticking your cock through a hole but there's something about it that I really enjoy that I can't quite fathom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very topical x bite off the top and lick out the inside x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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I'm in, I can't send messages for a few hours but I can answer private questions here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Three is the max for both of us currently but definitely up for a foursome with a couple |
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over a year ago
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In x |
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This will sound corny. It was with each other. On my part it was because he was much older than my normal types. The sexual chemistry just flowed that night and still does. He can make me cum just by kissing.
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The unspoken knowledge of the level of trust, love and security between us is so comforting and reassuring.
Never expected to reach this level of connection with someone in our wildest dreams. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was on the 25th, haven't needed to since haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I have a huge tongue I lick the whole length until it gets to a point where there is enough of a gap to get right inside. Once in, I swirl my tongue around and touch the sides and make sure I taste every bit of that sweetness inside and then gently suck out anything that remains. |
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That's a big no.
Work life and swing life are completely separate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He was far bigger than his pics and girthy which he'd no idea he thought he was just average. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cowgirl!
I'm a boobs guy so it's my favourite position to admire and play with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He was far bigger than his pics and girthy which he'd no idea he thought he was just average."
I’ve come across this a lot…angle of the photo can be deceiving x was it a nice surprise? |
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To be blind folded, tied hands above head stood up in a club and used.  |
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Don't really mind. If that's where they want to cum. |
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I'd say my thighs, good shape to them. |
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over a year ago
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"Please ask away xx"
I’m in, and I’ve asked |
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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
If having mmf I enjoy other male to cum on my face or boobs and ass x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If having mmf I enjoy other male to cum on my face or boobs and ass x"
Nice, please ask me one too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Celebrities .. umm Carol Voderman and Rachel Riley … I would definitely learn something x |
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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
The sexiest outfit I worn for someone else was not long ago and it was strapless bra but boobs on show and my fishnet crothless tights no panties and little short skirt and my ankles snd wrist clips on and heels x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In again! |
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No, we have met separately but she’s always aware |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably my legs or shoulders |
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I'm in,
First time at this be gentle |
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Now this changes almost daily, but carol vorderman and Salma Hayek |
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Charlie - Scarlett Johanssen and Dua Lipa
Debs - Tom Ellis and Duhan Van Der Merwe
Together - Ryan Reynolds and Pink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry for the delay in answering x I guess my first swinging experience was actually alone meeting an old friend from Uni with hubby’s approval x we kissed and fumbled a little on video for hubby and it rolled back 20 years x I was amazed how easy I found it to be intimate with someone else after being with hubby only for 20 years x It was thrilling and I wasn’t a bit nervous x we joined fab the week after lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is my boobs I sometimes just look at them while I brush my teeth lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hombre29, willworkforsushi and Justus555 xx |
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"Hombre29, willworkforsushi and Justus555 xx"
If that question was what I think it was I'm disappointed not to make the selection process.
Don't mind me, I'll just be in the corner crying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hombre29, willworkforsushi and Justus555 xx
If that question was what I think it was I'm disappointed not to make the selection process.
Don't mind me, I'll just be in the corner crying "
Don’t be that way x tbh your pics tell me absolutely nothing about you lol xxx |
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An orgy, although we’re nowhere near that adventurous yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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rocket boys
selected ambient works
the graduate
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By *eastXMan
over a year ago
London |
Met someone on airplane, fucked in the plane toilet and we never connected after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still in x |
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In exactly the order listed, definitely Cod top of the list |
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I love Australia but I would love to visit Japan |
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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago
North cotswolds |
Rugby, football, darts, tennis, cricket |
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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago
North cotswolds |
Nope, he's more than enough for me. But happy to share him |
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My ex boyfriend when I first met him |
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Answer from yesterday
Nothing planned. We probably won't go abroad for a few years now, lots of staycations instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure I'm up for it (Mr) |
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