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What do you consider bi?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it requires attraction to be Bi. Someone can be Bi if they have never even had sex. As there are young teens openly Bi.
The problems with labels is they are so black and white.
Take a guy that likes inserting objects anally. He does it every day of his adult life but never has sex with a guy or has never been attracted to guys. He is still considered straight even if he uses cock shaped dildos. So is it fair to say 1 day that he is fucked by a guy automatically makes him bi or gay even if he still has no attraction to men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met a lady that did everthing apart from give oral but she said she was not bi.
She did accept oral from my wife.
That would make her bi right? "
This is spaghetti bi, straight until wet. |
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"We met a lady that did everthing apart from give oral but she said she was not bi.
She did accept oral from my wife.
That would make her bi right?
This is spaghetti bi, straight until wet."
Lol..is that even a thing xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met a lady that did everthing apart from give oral but she said she was not bi.
She did accept oral from my wife.
That would make her bi right?
This is spaghetti bi, straight until wet.
Lol..is that even a thing xxx
Lol"
Yep, Penny is spaghetti bi, her last 3 orgasms in clubs were at the hands of ladies but she identifies as straight, women do nothing for her until she is laid on a bed, horny, dripping wet and then it's anything goes  |
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I suppose for me I'm just going to say how I feel.I don't look at people as in male/female obviously they are but attraction to someone isn't about their sex.If I'm attracted then the rest follows obviously they have to be attracted to me too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simple, I'm bi because I enjoy pussy and cock but mostly because I'm comfortable with the label. I'm also comfortable with the term "pansexual" as that describes me better - gender does not play a part in my attraction to a person. Generally though, I'm not big on labels and you can describe your sexuality as whatever you like. It doesn't and shouldn't bother me.
I've said this many times about sexuality when the subject comes up. It's a spectrum. Some people are totally straight, others are totally gay but most others are somewhere in between. What's more, this can change throughout your life. Heck, it can change day to day or even hour to hour for me. It doesn't matter. You like what you like and as long as it's with consenting adults, you shouldn't feel ashamed of it. |
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How far do you have to go with the same sex partner to be bi?
There are a thousand shades of bi. "
I think we need to make a 4th film in the series.
50 Shades of Bi.
Anastasia spends 2 hours tribbing and eating pussy, then Christian bursts in and they both get a good spanking. Send that one to Hollywood for free. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"How far do you have to go with the same sex partner to be bi?
Kissing, touching,oral sex, full sex?
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This may not be to many people's liking but..
Honestly none of the above.. Bi to us is the attraction to both sexes.
Personally I am bi as this is the case, but we consider Mr situationally bi curious, as he's no attraction to guy's at all, however in the heat of the moment/right circumstances he's quite happily open to it..
And 'bi' fuck I can't wait to see that happen!!   |
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For me it’s not about the sex, more who’d you’d be romantically with.
I have group fun with women all the time where the women play together, but I’m not bi. It’s fun in a group situation and the sex/ group situation is hot.
But i wouldn’t be interested in dating or meeting a woman 1:1. |
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By *yeSureMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"If you think you’re Bi and identify as Bi then you’re Bi there’s no qualification criteria 
This, it’s whoever the person defines themselves as."
Agree! And is the a need to define yourself? Whats the benefit.
Just live life and enjoy |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"We met a lady that did everthing apart from give oral but she said she was not bi.
She did accept oral from my wife.
That would make her bi right?
This is spaghetti bi, straight until wet.
Lol..is that even a thing xxx
Lol"
Yep and it's often why people think all women are at least a bit bi |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"For me it’s not about the sex, more who’d you’d be romantically with.
I have group fun with women all the time where the women play together, but I’m not bi. It’s fun in a group situation and the sex/ group situation is hot.
But i wouldn’t be interested in dating or meeting a woman 1:1. "
Our thoughts. Y has dated women, I no interest in doing so with a guy.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us Bi is more about the desire for relationships. Sex is sex and a guy enjoying sucking another guy does not mean he is Bi, it means he is sexually adventurous. Bi is just a nametag not a truth. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I consider myself to be bi because I find women attractive, I like kissing and fondling them, and I'm happy to make them cum, or have them make me cum. However, this is purely sexual and I wouldn't have a full relationship with another woman - I like men too much.
My partner on the other hand is totally straight. He's comfortable in the presence of other men (I like moresomes), but any hint of a guy overstepping the line with him is an instant turn off, he loses his erection and play ends. That's probably just as well because I find bi male play a turn off too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it requires attraction to be Bi. Someone can be Bi if they have never even had sex. As there are young teens openly Bi.
The problems with labels is they are so black and white.
Take a guy that likes inserting objects anally. He does it every day of his adult life but never has sex with a guy or has never been attracted to guys. He is still considered straight even if he uses cock shaped dildos. So is it fair to say 1 day that he is fucked by a guy automatically makes him bi or gay even if he still has no attraction to men? "
I would agree with this, about attraction. For me, I've always felt sexually attracted to women and just thought I was being greedy liking men as well lol. We have talked about scenarios involving Mr and other cocks - him sucking other cocks, wanking them, fucking another guy....but he is not sexually attracted to other men, or even attracted. It's simply a pure pleasure thing in the right circumstances, if that makes sense?
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I really do think it's a personal thing. I've known guys who don't do DP in MMF's because getting that close to another guy feels "too gay" (his words).
But then I also know a guy who's into cuckold play and he'll do oral on his wife's bull both before and after and neither him nor the bull consider themselves bisexual.
So personally I just let people self-identify and go with that! Even if something someone is doing is something that would be over what I personally would consider the line between straight and bi, it still isn't my place to tell people what they are or aren't... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think being bi or bi curious just means your comfortable with same sex people. Touching is classed as bi really and anything else you feel comfortable with is just a bonus really.
Personally I love lights stroking of breasts and gentle licking of the nipples both givng and recieving so that makes me bi. I have licked a few ladies to completions but daly not everyone eants to return that but if that makes them or us feel comfortable then so be it.
I still want to see hubby wank a nice cock and feel it grow fromsoft to hard and if the moment feels right maybe a little suck... one day perhaps. Happy if it is with a couple so they can carry on afterwards.
My personal choice is no kissing or full sex as for me this is special and for own partners... hey we are all different and not everyone likes a fuller figured lady anyway lol |
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Androsexual - sexual orientation describing sexual attraction to men, males or masculinity, regardless of gender identity. The exact opposite to gynsexuality which is attracted to femininity regardless of gender identity.
It’s difficult and not easy to describe someone’s sexuality on their actions alone, kissing, oral or even anal sex with a toy or penis.
If we say do this …then you are bisexual we remove the attraction and emotional aspects.
A guy who is attracted to a pre-op trans woman, they only kiss and cuddle prior to the operation but only have penetrative sex after she transitions is he bisexual ?
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