FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Talking about ex partners
Talking about ex partners
Jump to: Newest in thread
Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?
We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going 
We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?
We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going
We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did "
Yes, I do exactly that and I do find it turns me on too, especially talking about my first wife with whom I began exploring ENM, threesomes, etc. Somehow those first experiences are still very striking and colourful in my memory, despite much more exotic things happening later in life.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?
We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going
We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did "
i enjoy hearing about my ladies previous encounters but her not as much, |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It is. If I mention it S will normally squirt super hard ! I get her to tell me she misses his cock and what she would do if I wasn’t around etc. the thought of her running straight to get his big cock in her mouth again turns me on so bad !  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I’ve done this with almost every ex, albeit the majority of the time it’s me asking her about past experiences - only really been with one cuckqueen before who enjoyed listening to me talk about previous partners.
Very hot though! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I had one ex that used to keep banging on about how small this one certain ex was, fun at first but she brought it up every night and it got tiresome after a while |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I was seeing a woman who used to do this. It was ok to begin with up until she started constantly going on about one man in particular. How it was the best sex of her life and how she never felt that connection with anyone else.
I found it a bit disparaging in the end. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Not so much ex partners, but if we've just got home from a meet or a club we do, or we bring up previous meets when we are fucking each other.
The fact they are shared experiences make them more of a turn on I think, for us anyway |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What you are all discussing is an established ENM kink known as Hotpast for which there's a popular Reddit community, along with a similar group called Did You Fuck My Wife."
Well I didn’t know that, I’ve learnt something today  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?
We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going
We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did "
My current partner knows all about my ex.. I am trying not to bring him up to much but knowing all that I've Been up to is a turn on |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
I'm always happy to talk about ex partners with a new partner. It gives a good idea of what may and may not be on the cards! As long as they don't know them of course!
Anyway, talking about sex before sex is always good!
Gbat |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It was my late wife asking about any girls I’d been with before we got together and me asking her about any lads and the details she told me that got me so turned on that months later we started to go to swingers clubs then a few months later we played and swapped. I use to love talking to her about her past. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Not so much ex partners, but if we've just got home from a meet or a club we do, or we bring up previous meets when we are fucking each other.
The fact they are shared experiences make them more of a turn on I think, for us anyway"
That’s hot I ageee |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?
We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going
We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did
My current partner knows all about my ex.. I am trying not to bring him up to much but knowing all that I've Been up to is a turn on "
You should tell him  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We do this quite often, really turns me on.
Usually talk about stuff she’s done with her ex, where they fucked, how and where he came etc and also talking about one night stands too. Enjoy talking about how big they were, how long he fucked her for etc. makes me hard and cum straight away! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee1967Man
over a year ago
watford |
"Funnily enough we have started doing this and knowing he was quite big and used to be a submissive to him was extremely hot!"
The same, one of my wife's exs was pretty huge and he used to use her badly, but in a good way, if that makes sense.
So hot to hear when she told me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Same here my wife has told me about her one night stands when she was single and how one took her in every hole and had a huge thick cock after he met her in a local nightclub in stoke ,on the way back to her house he even bent her over walking through a local park on the way and pulled her tits straight out the minute they got through the front door of her house ! So horny to hear! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We do this quite often, really turns me on.
Usually talk about stuff she’s done with her ex, where they fucked, how and where he came etc and also talking about one night stands too. Enjoy talking about how big they were, how long he fucked her for etc. makes me hard and cum straight away!"
Glad we’re not the only ones  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yes but not in a sexual way, more of a "please don't add to my PTSD" way.
Which in itself can be sexy. Realising you've got a fantastic partner! "
I actually like this. It’s sometimes good to remind your self how lucky you are to have your current partner. Keep up the love!   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Same here I used to love my ex girlfriend talking about her ex boyfriends. It took a while to get her to tell me but I found it a real turn on knowing how many guys had spunked up her tight little pussy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Does anyone else talk to their current partner about the ex partner?
We don’t know why but knowing what we did sexually with our exs gets us going
We would never do anything with them again or go back but just talking about what we did "
Sazz and I love doing this, it's a lot of fun and has opened different avenues of play for us. It's fun! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Same here I used to love my ex girlfriend talking about her ex boyfriends. It took a while to get her to tell me but I found it a real turn on knowing how many guys had spunked up her tight little pussy. "
Love what you just put. The only difference for me was knowing how much her boyfriend wanted to take her virginity and how she admitted to me that if he had had a condom on he would have been balls deep in her. I questioned her on wanting him balls deep and she said that she was so desperate to feel his cock inside her she very nearly let him. She admitted the feeling of the tip of his cock opening her outer lips did make her wish he had not listened to her and slid in. Just turns me on still to this day thinking about it. Funny thing is when we first fucked and I took her virginity I didn’t have any condoms and filled her with my spunk. After that she only ever had me bare. They where the days. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I love hearing about Mrs exes, or any of her sexual encounters, especially if she can remember some details. She doesn't like hearing about mine, although she likes hearing details after swapping partners. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My ex used to really get off on hearing about what I'd done with other women before. I can be quite shy so she used to like seeing me getting a bit embarrassed. After a few drinks though was really hot |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
I'm in the camp of does nothing for me. My previous partner turned into a person I couldn't recognise. I would very much like to forget what I heard he got up to whilst we were married.
I can though, see why some might find it exciting!
J x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *heelz69Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"We do this and my hubby is always asking me if the opportunity ever comes would I have another session with him
I always say yes as it turns him on
That’s hot "
I would love to see my ex getting fucked, and I'm informed that she's into the swinging scene now! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *B24Couple 12 weeks ago
Spain |
We do this quite often, mainly for my benefit than hers 
Usually we talk about sex she had with her ex, how/what they done etc but also stories off one night stands. Big turn on for me and makes me need to cum instantly! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
|
I love hearing what my Mrs did with others before we met.
We met on a dating site 12 years ago, she's admitted to having a few one night stands from there.
Her last relationship didn't end well, but it seems he had a much larger cock than mine and knew how to use it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
