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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thinking about wanting to go to a club and maybe indulge in having sex with people watching.
This is something that I have never done before.... To all you experienced clubbers - did you get nervous the first time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to until we overheard someone mutter to another whilst watching us two " this is way better than watching a porn video ".
Did wonders for our egos . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its always harder going alone, I still get nervous when I go to a new club for the first time, I find it quite intimidating walking into somewhere new alone, but if you want to go it has to be done, once ive been a couple of times and get used to the place im fine but I think its normal to be nervous first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First things first if your'e going to a club the first thing you have to do is approach people and have a chat to see what they are after for example some couples may olny be after other couples or single females while others are happy to just socailise but some are genuinly after a single male to join them.
Once you have found someone who is willing to play then the fun starts,so don't assume that just because you are in a sex club and everyone is virtually naked that everyone will play with everyone.
I go on my own and have a great time any nerves you have will go when you go through the door.Good luck and enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you're a confident person you'll probably be more excited than nervous 
Shame you're so far away big man, we could've paired up and maybe i could have soothed those virgin club nerves!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it's natural to. Just relax, be confident, approach and talk to people, people if they aren't interested move on. Most importantly, never expect to play, when that invite comes... bonus. Being sociable is a key element. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was terrified the 1st time I went alone but as other have said once you're in there it's great fun, the bit I love the most is playing with an audiance. However I do find it hard to approach single guys so my advice is don't be one of the herd, actually engage & chat to people, swingers in my experience are a friendly bunch xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im less nervous going alone than with someone, On my own I just please myself.. When with someone else I have their needs/wants/desires/comfort to think about.
When it is just me, it's simply just my fun   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first time we went to Libs neither of us felt nervous just ridiculously excited! Might be different if you are attending on your own though and slightly more daunting. We just treated in like a night out with extras
Looking forward to trying other clubs like Chams this year and having that first time excitement again |
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