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Years ago I found out my partner enjoyed gentle smacking during sex, she said it sent an electric shock straight to her clit but only when it's done with a cupped hand, who else enjoys spanking or being spanked as part of their sex play |
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so we're not on our own, but like many on here Tina enjoyed it best when she was bent over and slapped with a cup hand so either the fingers touched her pussy lips or the palm of my hand, squashed her lips, and during sex if I was going to smack her I had to move to one side to smack her buttocks rather than the side of her hip, to get the electric shock treatment to her clit.
Never hard enough to Mark her skin but definitely caused a red glow |
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By *Gem37Woman 23 weeks ago
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"Years ago I found out my partner enjoyed gentle smacking during sex, she said it sent an electric shock straight to her clit but only when it's done with a cupped hand, who else enjoys spanking or being spanked as part of their sex play"
Yes I enjoy it done gently! When I least expect it  |
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I have spanking skirts and dresses for the very act. I enjoy giving and receiving. Especially enjoy an unexpected one when I'm near to orgasm. That little sharp it hurts x it's a suprise X it's a tingle does it for me |
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Great response I'm glad my partner is not the only one who enjoys gentle spanking, totally agree with the lady who has dresses specially for the occasion, my wife used to have a flimsy summer dress that if she wore it meant she wanted excitement and she never wore knickers when she was looking for excitement. She enjoyed the gentle flogging but still preferred the cup hand as it sent that electric sensation to her clit
anyone in need of discipline send me a message |
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ladies seem to enjoy gentle spanking with a hand to enjoy sexual pleasure as did my wife sending shocks to her clit, but for pain they go for something different paddles whips and canes , but I am surprised how many guys enjoy being disciplined is this also reenacting something that has happened in the past or just enjoying the pleasure of pain as I don't think I've ever got sexual pleasure from being smacked |
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A great response to this topic, I have actually had one couple contact me wanting me to discipline his wife, apparently she was smacked at school and the thrill she felt far out weighed the pain for the misdemeanour she had done, interesting meeting a lady just for discipline no kissing no intercourse just discipline, she went away with a smile and a glowing posterior |
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"I once had a professional spanking.
Start to finish it probably took 10 to 15 minutes and it made me so trippy.
I've never forgotten and would love it again
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That's the candy floss land I was talking about. It's so euphoric ❤️ |
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Spanking shouldn't hurt if done properly. It should be a little uncomfortable but not actually perceived as pain.
The key thing is balancing it with pleasure. Spanking (or any kind of SM play) should only be used when the receiver is highly aroused.
The cooking analogy is often used. Sugar can be a bit sickly if you have too much of it but by adding a little salt (which on its own would be horrible) one can end up being able to take more sugar. Think of salted caramel.
So by adding a little spanking you can push your pleasure to new heights and end up with the trippy, euphoric, candy floss feeling described earlier.
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Although, I can switch it up and still enjoy the more gentle approach, variety is great! 
