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Do some women get 20+ messages per day
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20+? Oh boy. I cleared all my messages on Wednesday. I'm now at 724 unread messages, 2 days later.
Worse, the messaging system breaks down somewhere around 250 incoming messages and maybe 50ish sent messages. It simply will not show more than that, so my inbox only shows any messages from the last 8 hours or so. |
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"I know women get more messages than men, but do some get 20+ or more...
Must be a nice ego boost.
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A lot more than that. It's why I can't always reply. Not being rude. If I was to check and reply to every message it would be a full time job |
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"20+? Oh boy. I cleared all my messages on Wednesday. I'm now at 724 unread messages, 2 days later.
Worse, the messaging system breaks down somewhere around 250 incoming messages and maybe 50ish sent messages. It simply will not show more than that, so my inbox only shows any messages from the last 8 hours or so."
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Attention to women is like what I imagine, worship to a deity is like. The more you give, the more powerful they feel.
So Fab is like what a church is to women.
And ladies, just like a deity, you will lose your power if you don’t pay attention to your attention-givers, as they will go on to the next.
So yes, it should be a full-time job answering those 724 messages or so, so quit your jobs and answer those messages full time.  
And before you take this all seriously, it’s all a joke!
Woke up too early this morning and in need of some excitement so will start with message 1 of 724! |
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It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.
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"It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.
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Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.
It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.
Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.
Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way. |
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By *oelMan
over a year ago
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"20+? Oh boy. I cleared all my messages on Wednesday. I'm now at 724 unread messages, 2 days later.
Worse, the messaging system breaks down somewhere around 250 incoming messages and maybe 50ish sent messages. It simply will not show more than that, so my inbox only shows any messages from the last 8 hours or so."
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This is a REALLY interesting thread as I, for one, had no idea how swamped both single girls and couples get. This explains a lot.
You can certainly see why, on the other side of things, some resort to a scattergun one-liner approach or simply copy/paste from a template.
I'm not sure how anyone who takes this seriously (so is actually trying to meet like minded people!) and who diligently reads a profile properly, so he can compose a respectful appropriate opening missive, ever even gets considered (let alone, for really popular people, as far as someone's in-box!).
I'm left thinking this is clearly a pure numbers game and wondering if it's ever worth even trying (certainly if you actually care who you meet). Somewhat disheartened by the numbers (and associated reality) I must say.
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Certain ladies get 20+ messages per day. Use of filters and hiding photos can significantly reduce messages. Having a desired look or trait can increase messages.
For some its a big ego boost, for others they know guys will message for attention, rather than genuine interest. A good example is arranging gangbangs, many men will message for details, assurances to attend etc but on the day very few turn up. |
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"It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.
Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.
It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.
Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.
Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way."
So you're saying posting sexual pics means that it means it's ok so indecently expose your genitals?
Are you one of those that thinks if a person woman wears a short skirt on a night out she deserves it too, I think not.
Men 🤮
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"It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.
Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.
It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.
Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.
Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way.
So you're saying posting sexual pics means that it means it's ok so indecently expose your genitals?
Are you one of those that thinks if a person woman wears a short skirt on a night out she deserves it too, I think not.
Men 🤮
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By *end1Man
over a year ago
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I think your find most get more than 20+ OP hence why I no longer message single females or couples first as the chances of having your message read are very slim let alone replied too. |
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If my filters are open I always get that many or more.
Honestly, it's mostly a chore. Most people who message (not just men) don't bother to string sentences together, are rude/entitled, and the messages are more like spam.
Like imagine if you got 20+ texts a day "you really want Domino's" "sink your teeth into Burger King" "you need a cheeky Nando's" "I bet Five Guys would satisfy you". Even if you're in the market for a takeaway, it gets old fast. |
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"It's not an ego boost, nor is it flattering having some randomer you've never met describe in detail what "they want" to do to you, nor is it flattering someone popping a cock over a toilet into your inbox seemingly proud of their minging meat stick & thinks everyone wants to see.
Well, that’s what usually happens when you post sexually provocative pics online on a swingers website.
It’s like Hollywood stars wanting fame and complaining when they get it.
Or a person wearing a police uniform and then saying they aren’t police, when they are called to a crime scene.
Maybe block all men from messaging you, and manage it that way.
So you're saying posting sexual pics means that it means it's ok so indecently expose your genitals?
Are you one of those that thinks if a person woman wears a short skirt on a night out she deserves it too, I think not.
Men 🤮
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No I am not saying that. You are saying that.
You are going to get the good with the bad if you put provocative images online. That’s the reality.
You can’t control what people will do, but you have to be realistic about it and be prepared for it, like blocking all men from messaging you in the first place.
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Messaging filters are good 
