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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I live in a very small village, and have my reputation and a young son to think about.
I have face pics and will share them when I get to know someone a bit better.
oooh and I'm a munter to it stops scaring people off right away lols   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's fashionable to walk into a swingers club wearing a paper bag! I think it is why masquerade balls are back, more comfortable than paper, and the paper cuts were a    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because its personal choice!
And of course - as has been often pointed out - regardless of whether someone should be 'embarrassed', 'ashamed' or 'proud' to be engaged in this lifestyle - the views and opinions of others - family, friends and employers, still matters.
Plus those who would run the risk of unemployment should their employers find out. Many contracts have strict guidelines regarding public image, maintaining a respectable profile in the business community and not causing any reputation all risk to the company. Plus a variety of public sector jobs frown upon activities such as this - much in the same way as they view political posts in twitter and d*unken rambling on bookface! |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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I live in a small town, and if it got out that would be the end of my business and being unlikely to win the lottery anytime soon, need to work for a living. Plus my kids don't need to hear 'your mum is a slag who will fuck anyone' at school.
That is why I don't show face pics 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"todays topic. why do people hide there faces like being a swinger is illegal or is it a  thing ?"
Hmmm if you really don't know then you have a problem on this one.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it?"
i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personaly think is healthy and darn fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it? i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personally think is healthy and darn fun "
Yet you use the pointless disclaimer on your profile, why if you have nothing to hide? |
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Because they can. It really is as simple as that. No-one has said it's against the law. He'll some people don't even put pics in dating sites!!
You really do seem to struggle with the concept of personal choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it? i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personaly think is healthy and darn fun "
And your profile pic (the face one!) has suddenly vanished! Curious!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they can. It really is as simple as that. No-one has said it's against the law. He'll some people don't even put pics in dating sites!!
You really do seem to struggle with the concept of personal choice "
i dont struggle with personal choice . i enjoy asking questions. helps me learn  and if this an irrelivant or dumb topic. why choose to get in on it  |
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"Because they can. It really is as simple as that. No-one has said it's against the law. He'll some people don't even put pics in dating sites!!
You really do seem to struggle with the concept of personal choice i dont struggle with personal choice . i enjoy asking questions. helps me learn and if this an irrelivant or dumb topic. why choose to get in on it "
Where did I say it was irrelevant or dumb?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it? i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personaly think is healthy and darn fun
And your profile pic (the face one!) has suddenly vanished! Curious!!! "
Lol. i took my avatar down . because i can it was a choice i made |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it? i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personaly think is healthy and darn fun
And your profile pic (the face one!) has suddenly vanished! Curious!!! Lol. i took my avatar down . because i can it was a choice i made "
Erm - thus contradicting your original post!!
Genius!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it? i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personaly think is healthy and darn fun
And your profile pic (the face one!) has suddenly vanished! Curious!!! Lol. i took my avatar down . because i can it was a choice i made "
Tbh, i would've taken it down months ago mate! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because they can. It really is as simple as that. No-one has said it's against the law. He'll some people don't even put pics in dating sites!!
You really do seem to struggle with the concept of personal choice i dont struggle with personal choice . i enjoy asking questions. helps me learn and if this an irrelivant or dumb topic. why choose to get in on it
Where did I say it was irrelevant or dumb?? "
you never. again. i dont post topics as a view on me .. more so a subject matter were people can give there views. i only reply when some1 thinks im asking or giving my personal view. which im not. i start open topics for every1 to have a say . or i hope. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess he didn't like it here then!
Sydney University pulled his funding!... "
Or his 'friends and family' suddenly realised he wasn't talking about the playpark when he said he swings! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"todays topic. why do people hide there faces like being a swinger is illegal or is it a thing ?"
I don't want to go in the local tescos and have people say to me "h hiya i saw your pic on fab swingers hun, how long have you been swinging then" |
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"Well do your family and friends know your a swinger do you openly talk about it? i told my fam and friends . to me its a lifestyle i personaly think is healthy and darn fun
And your profile pic (the face one!) has suddenly vanished! Curious!!! "
the whole profile has now lol |
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"I live in a very small village, and have my reputation and a young son to think about.
I have face pics and will share them when I get to know someone a bit better.
oooh and I'm a munter to it stops scaring people off right away lols "
Same!!! Im in a little town, I've small kids and its my private life so I keep my face pics til I feel safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, it doesn't bother me about having my pic up! I'm single with nothing to hide! And if anyne DID recognise, then so what! They're on here too in that case! Lol. |
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