But then I'm sure if people were really interested in connecting they would send a message, unless they are prevented by filters, which means they don't match preferences so unlikely to be of interest.

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By *samyhotwifeWoman 23 weeks ago

Dublin

I think it's a great idea

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By *ice and PeasCouple 23 weeks ago

West Midlands

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By *ert1410cbCouple 23 weeks ago

swindon

Yes we'd love that

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By *oney2Couple 23 weeks ago

Chester

"Do you think you should get a notification if you are added to a hotlist? "

Yes x

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By *l chapo123Man 23 weeks ago

Costa del sol

Yes would be good . Or the person should just DM you HOTLIST

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By *isneypairCouple 23 weeks ago

selby

No that's what the point of it is, maybe tho if hotlisted each other then it let you know

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By *hesubtlegentMan 23 weeks ago

surrey

It would be nice and then can see if you’ve hot listed each other….

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By *cott14Man 23 weeks ago

Essex

Yep 🫡 x

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By *bisfunMan 23 weeks ago

wimbledon

Yep

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By *anandrubyCouple 23 weeks ago

Chelmsford / Sutton

We'd love to know who's hotlist we're on

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By *reen as JadeCouple 23 weeks ago

Cheshire

Of course xxx

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By *rooMan 23 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

I think its a great idea knowing another has enjoyed your profile or a chat or more and added you to their hot list, a big compliment

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By *aveyIOM1970Man 23 weeks ago

douglas

"We'd love to know who's hotlist we're on "

Added to mine x

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By *igdickeasterneuropeanMan 23 weeks ago

Navan

Curious as well

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By *ettpairCouple 23 weeks ago

Kettering

We have a few on ours and wondered if we're on anyone's

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple 23 weeks ago

Watermouth

How about getting a message if you are on each others hot list? could that start a conversation?

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By *r SensualMan 23 weeks ago

London

Would only really be bothered about knowing if we were on each other’s and it lead to conversation, interaction and who knows, by some miracle the two or three (if a couple) of us actually meeting each other in real life.

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By *uncouplerk40Couple 23 weeks ago

Definitely

We think some on ours would be surprised

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By *8warrenMan 23 weeks ago

I’d love to know, I have a few here on mine

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By *asha86Couple 23 weeks ago

walsall

"Do you think you should get a notification if you are added to a hotlist? "

Definitely think it would be a brilliant idea!

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By *irty-pairCouple 23 weeks ago

Essex

We’d like this if it was optional. We use our hotlist as a list of people we want to contact in the future (nothing more frustrating than striking up a great conversation then not being able to meet for months!)

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