"Have you read the majority of the nonsense that "single" men send to women and females on here... Read some of the forums you'd understand more of why.
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Totally agree.
But in fairness to the OP, his profile looks pretty good compared to most of the people who complain about it. He's got a profile pic, some publicly visible pics and a bit of info in his bio. |
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By *onyjoCouple 21 weeks ago
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"Why is it so hard for us single males to get a look in? 😩"
Alot of singles on here are dreamers and fantasists that talk the talk but bottle out when it come down to show up for meets.
It's a shame for the genuine ones. |
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"Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha"
As the weather warms up a lot of socials will start to appear on fab, Put your name down on one of them, Not all will be at swingers clubs so it will just be a normal night out, As for going to clubs keep a eye out for who is going to themed nights and let people know you're going, You could even ask for any single men if they want to go along with you so you're not standing alone most of the night |
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"Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha"
That's the kicker isn't it, I'm the same.
You need to go to socials to meet people, but aren't comfortable going to socials on your own, so need to meet people in order to go to socials to meet people!! 😄 😞 |
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"Yeah I’m just not that comfortable going alone so kinda stay away from clubs, tried one once on my own and it wasn’t a good experience haha
That's the kicker isn't it, I'm the same.
You need to go to socials to meet people, but aren't comfortable going to socials on your own, so need to meet people in order to go to socials to meet people!! 😄 😞"
Yeah exactly it’s a double edged sword isn’t it haha! Like I get people aren’t every one’s type and that’s absolutely fine but at least a bit of interest would be nice haha |
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"Because this is a swingers site and not a sex site. Most single males unfortunately see it as the latter.
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Not just for swingers though, there’s single women who have preferences on playing solo rather than in a couple so I think it’s a bit more wider than just for people who swing |
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"We had to block single guys as 95% of the mesases were basically.
Free now?
Can I fuck the Mrs?
Like my cock?
I feel for the 5% but the sheer volume of this type of message was infuriating. "
Yeah see I don’t message like that because I know that’s how most are messaging but yeah it’s crap for us the minority |
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