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Is forty too old for a man on Fabs?
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How comes so many of the attractive women on here only want messages from men aged under 45?
Are younger guys more likely to be used as disposable fuckboys who are more interested in sexual conquests and than older men with more engaging topics of conversation?
Is it that once men reach middle age they are no longer wanted by sexually liberated females for physical bedroom activities? |
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"How comes so many of the attractive women on here only want messages from men aged under 45?
Are younger guys more likely to be used as disposable fuckboys who are more interested in sexual conquests and than older men with more engaging topics of conversation?
Is it that once men reach middle age they are no longer wanted by sexually liberated females for physical bedroom activities?"
Some old guys are boring as fuck I'll have you know 😉
So yes 45 is too old. Just quit whilst you're ahead. |
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By *ornycougaWoman 21 weeks ago
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"How comes so many of the attractive women on here only want messages from men aged under 45?
Are younger guys more likely to be used as disposable fuckboys who are more interested in sexual conquests and than older men with more engaging topics of conversation?
Is it that once men reach middle age they are no longer wanted by sexually liberated females for physical bedroom activities?"
It's an insult to guys under 45 to say they can't hold a conversation. A lot of them can. And last for hours and/or repeat again and again 😈 |
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I don't think so, I've been on and off here for years and still get attention now in my mid 40s, ultimately its preference and some will love our age group, whilst some want someone older or younger. All want someone they are attracted to and that has nothing to do with age IMHO. |
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47 will be too old for some op, yes.
It won't for others though, it obviously depends on their age and preferences too. For example it's probably too old for ladies in their twenties, but not women in their 40s and 50s.
Plenty of men aged 45 plus, do well on here. |
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By *am4sinMan 21 weeks ago
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I think everyone looks for younger to try and recapture their youth. I have little interest in old than me, not an insult, just not for me.
Most of my partners have been 5 to 10 years younger than me, one was 18 years younger (yea, that was to much younger) so on here for me it's not a deal breaker as this is just a swing site, but for a partner, I would definitely be looking for younger. |
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"You have an age limit op I don't your reasons for it but I respect it.
What will help is if you search for women who are looking for your age group. "
Of course there is going to be a preference for a certain age range, but my point is to open discussion on this as it seems to be a heavy leaning towards the cougar and cub dynamic of a mature woman with a younger “stud”.
Is this the general trend with swingers where it bucks mainstream society’s view of the older gentleman and the attractive young lady. |
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I didn't join fab until I was 52 with zero experience of anything like this.
I've never once had a conversation about my age or felt even slightly restricted by it.
It's like so many other things on fab where the only barrier is the one you build yourself. |
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"You have an age limit op I don't your reasons for it but I respect it.
What will help is if you search for women who are looking for your age group.
Of course there is going to be a preference for a certain age range, but my point is to open discussion on this as it seems to be a heavy leaning towards the cougar and cub dynamic of a mature woman with a younger “stud”.
Is this the general trend with swingers where it bucks mainstream society’s view of the older gentleman and the attractive young lady."
Ok I understand. I think that there are some women who prefer a younger man but there are just as many who like men around their own age. There are many, many men who prefer younger women though and I can't say I blame them. Youth has much to commend it when it comes to sex.
Don't assume that all women like the same thing though. |
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"People are entitled to put what they want, they just need to realise they may be missing out on fun with experienced respectful older guys.
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I can assure you, everyone who sets age limits has thought about what they might be missing, and they're 100% fine with it. |
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"People are entitled to put what they want, they just need to realise they may be missing out on fun with experienced respectful older guys.
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I disagree. I've never given a thought to anyone outside my age filters.
How can I miss out on something I wasn't looking for in the first place?
The same applies to all the filters I fall outside of. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 21 weeks ago
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"How comes so many of the attractive women on here only want messages from men aged under 45?
Are younger guys more likely to be used as disposable fuckboys who are more interested in sexual conquests and than older men with more engaging topics of conversation?
Is it that once men reach middle age they are no longer wanted by sexually liberated females for physical bedroom activities?"
Is it a trend? Not sure I rarely look at other ladies profiles.
You have preferences, only 10 years older but will go 22 years younger. Nobody is here to judge that and you’re entitled to search for the connections you want. Surely the ladies here can do the same? |
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"How comes so many of the attractive women on here only want messages from men aged under 45?
Are younger guys more likely to be used as disposable fuckboys who are more interested in sexual conquests and than older men with more engaging topics of conversation?
Is it that once men reach middle age they are no longer wanted by sexually liberated females for physical bedroom activities?"
I thought 45 was more the average age on this site no? |
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Assuming those sexually liberated females are under 58, OP?
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Like I’ve said before, this thread is to open discussion on this topic as it seems to be a heavy leaning towards the cougar and cub dynamic of a mature woman with a younger “stud” within the swinging community.
My age preference is not there for scrutiny or to pass judgement, we all have reasons for an age range, with I think the most common reason being to not fuck someone that could be the same age as your children or older than your parents. |
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Assuming those sexually liberated females are under 58, OP?
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Like I’ve said before, this thread is to open discussion on this topic as it seems to be a heavy leaning towards the cougar and cub dynamic of a mature woman with a younger “stud” within the swinging community.
My age preference is not there for scrutiny or to pass judgement, we all have reasons for an age range, with I think the most common reason being to not fuck someone that could be the same age as your children or older than your parents. "
I can't say I've noticed a cougar/cub thing going on. I notice a strong 30-60 demographic |
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