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By *ordlad OP Man 10 weeks ago
wrexham |
Recently had a great encounter with a bi couple .they both shared me which was an amazing afternoon...wondering if there are many bi couples who share on here ..and what are peoples thoughts .as bi females seem to be OK but bi males still a bit more taboo |
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By *ickawitchCouple 10 weeks ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
We’ve been playing for about 20 yrs . Unfortunately the bigotry about ( even on here ) means I’ve only recently changed my profile to say bi curious. The wife has always been very bi but like you say bi girls are always welcome whereas bi guys not so much .
However ,all that aside when we play we do share |
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"Yeah it's OK for girls to enjoy each other but blokes seemed to be frowned upon ...even when female involved"
When girls first do it it's hot, natural and exploring, when guys do it it's gay.
That's basically the opinion of a lot of people |
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"We have shared bi guys before and the Mrs loves to see it as just much as Mr likes seeing her with a woman. It's weird some profiles say specifically no bi guys but still message us 😂"
That’s just to get to the female of the couple. They’ll meet and then change their mind about being involved with the male and expect it to be fine. |
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That’s just to get to the female of the couple. They’ll meet and then change their mind about being involved with the male and expect it to be fine."
Had that in a.4 sum,.there was a lot of ignoring me even in the flirting over drinks beforehand. My partner called foul and we ended it. |
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That’s just to get to the female of the couple. They’ll meet and then change their mind about being involved with the male and expect it to be fine.
Had that in a.4 sum,.there was a lot of ignoring me even in the flirting over drinks beforehand. My partner called foul and we ended it. "
It’s good that you noticed it and that your partner was on the same page. |
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In Ireland there is a lot of shame but it too. As I like seen the world from both sides , bi is great lot of fun, but society does not want you spreading it about, so sometimes doing things quietly is better, |
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That’s just to get to the female of the couple. They’ll meet and then change their mind about being involved with the male and expect it to be fine.
Had that in a.4 sum,.there was a lot of ignoring me even in the flirting over drinks beforehand. My partner called foul and we ended it.
It’s good that you noticed it and that your partner was on the same page."
Yes indeed. I was going to see how things progressed but she was furious. |
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A weird culture where people consider Bi FF play hot and bi MM play as all out gay.
There’s loads of bi curious guys on this site frighted to say so for fear of not getting meetings with couples who think this way.
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"A weird culture where people consider Bi FF play hot and bi MM play as all out gay.
There’s loads of bi curious guys on this site frighted to say so for fear of not getting meetings with couples who think this way.
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It’s a stigma. I’m a bi guy and I find it difficult to express |
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By *eyeYCouple 10 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Oh entirely, since we put D as curious contact dropped off a cliff!
Pity as he's the least likely guy I've ever met to cross boundaries and while we utterly understand some may not trust that, I insisted we were open of the fact to allow him to explore as much as he allowed me. 😘 |
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I changed out profile about 18months ago to say I was bi curious. Lost a few couples of our friends list straight away. Some blocked us.
Even on here being bi or bi curious for a male creates challenges. |
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It really surprises me, on the scene I expected to see more open mindedness but I have found over the last year some club goers really have a problem with my events and the bi side. Whatever happened to living and let live?
I've discovered so much homophobia. Its pretty sad really  |
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What is all the fuss about Bi sex if it's good sex dose it matter who it's with the human body is the most beautiful thing in the world and it's really nice to enjoy it wether male or female if you have reservations force yourself to try it you might find you enjoy it |
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"Oh entirely, since we put D as curious contact dropped off a cliff!
Pity as he's the least likely guy I've ever met to cross boundaries and while we utterly understand some may not trust that, I insisted we were open of the fact to allow him to explore as much as he allowed me. 😘"
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By *eyeYCouple 10 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
"Oh entirely, since we put D as curious contact dropped off a cliff!
Pity as he's the least likely guy I've ever met to cross boundaries and while we utterly understand some may not trust that, I insisted we were open of the fact to allow him to explore as much as he allowed me. 😘
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Pity you are a fair distance away, though we're heading to Wales for a week in a few months.. 😉 |
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Bi couple here and we mainly look for bi couples and bi mmf. We like other get alot of messages from people who specifically say that would never meet a bi males but endless ask us to meet and it's odd. We get the impression that people seem to see bi men as potentially less masculine (not really sure why that is) for some reason or that somehow as a bi guy your seen as going with anyone and referred to as dirty or some how unclean. This is fully just our experience and is in no way a representation of anything other than our experiences but we find that bi couples and men are happy to talk about things like testing and health checks and are always open and honest about what they like and want from a meet. We find the ones that tell us they don't test and get angry if a question like that is asked tend to be more straight guys wanting to experiment. We also find that the people that want to push BB sex whenever they message also tend to be straight guys so it's and odd but that's what we find.
Not sure if others have to same experience. |
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There's a lot of confused men around, and maybe too concerned about their interest in bi sex because of long standing societal prejudices, but in the end it's just exciting, harmless fun and means nothing to those with liberal minds. I think jealousy (they *know* they're missing out) and a fear of not being an alpha male (delusional) is part of it. I'm heartened by the degree of professions of interest in bi mmf I've seen on many of the forum threads. |
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"Bi couple here and we mainly look for bi couples and bi mmf. We like other get alot of messages from people who specifically say that would never meet a bi males but endless ask us to meet and it's odd. We get the impression that people seem to see bi men as potentially less masculine (not really sure why that is) for some reason or that somehow as a bi guy your seen as going with anyone and referred to as dirty or some how unclean. This is fully just our experience and is in no way a representation of anything other than our experiences but we find that bi couples and men are happy to talk about things like testing and health checks and are always open and honest about what they like and want from a meet. We find the ones that tell us they don't test and get angry if a question like that is asked tend to be more straight guys wanting to experiment. We also find that the people that want to push BB sex whenever they message also tend to be straight guys so it's and odd but that's what we find.
Not sure if others have to same experience. "
Feeling the need to put "we won't meet bi guys" actually on your profile is weird enough in our eyes but to then message an openly bi couple asking to meet is just weird. Obviously you're going to see that and be put off. |
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"Bi couple here and we mainly look for bi couples and bi mmf. We like other get alot of messages from people who specifically say that would never meet a bi males but endless ask us to meet and it's odd. We get the impression that people seem to see bi men as potentially less masculine (not really sure why that is) for some reason or that somehow as a bi guy your seen as going with anyone and referred to as dirty or some how unclean. This is fully just our experience and is in no way a representation of anything other than our experiences but we find that bi couples and men are happy to talk about things like testing and health checks and are always open and honest about what they like and want from a meet. We find the ones that tell us they don't test and get angry if a question like that is asked tend to be more straight guys wanting to experiment. We also find that the people that want to push BB sex whenever they message also tend to be straight guys so it's and odd but that's what we find.
Not sure if others have to same experience.
Feeling the need to put "we won't meet bi guys" actually on your profile is weird enough in our eyes but to then message an openly bi couple asking to meet is just weird. Obviously you're going to see that and be put off."
Yeah it can be a real slap in the face, it really took alot for me personally to accept that part of myself and not shame myself for it, so joining here was abit of a shock as we imagined that of all the places to be accepting and embracing would be this community. We also want to make it clear that there isn't anything wrong with having preferences as we all do but pushing a negative untrue narrative based upon a preference to us is wrong and we see it alot and that's not just directed at bi men. |
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"Oh entirely, since we put D as curious contact dropped off a cliff!
Pity as he's the least likely guy I've ever met to cross boundaries and while we utterly understand some may not trust that, I insisted we were open of the fact to allow him to explore as much as he allowed me. 😘
Pity you are a fair distance away, though we're heading to Wales for a week in a few months.. 😉"
Happy to meet up if time is right |
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In my opinion,if someone has a problem about my bi-curious side,that's for them to deal with as don't care in the slightest!.I'm a really nice guy and always respect boundaries.
I don't give it a second thought what people think of me.For every door that closes,another one opens.
Peace and love all. |
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"It really surprises me, on the scene I expected to see more open mindedness but I have found over the last year some club goers really have a problem with my events and the bi side. Whatever happened to living and let live?
I've discovered so much homophobia. Its pretty sad really "
I joined clubs and here , expecting everyone to accept others , not to judge and be judged ! It’s so much more fun being bi what’s not to like and enjoy |
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Bi couple here...not long on the scene but absolutely love it. We're both very open about it and wouldn't change our profile to accommodate less open minded people. If a couple/person has a problem with it then they're not for us. Obviously we know it's rarer to find couples that are openly bi but well worth it when you find one. Also found that many men are a lot more curious than they'd like to admit. We're still having lots of fun anyway, so can't complain, besides us bisexuals are the sexiest people in the lifestyle anyway haha... |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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A lot of couples on here seem convinced that bi people can't control themselves around straight blokes. If you don't trust a bi stranger to respect your consent then you shouldn't trust a straight stranger with your wife. |
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As others have said, if someone is anti-bi, it just helps us filter out the people we wouldn’t want to meet.
We have lots of straight friends we play with, who are totally happy that I’m not going to jump on the guy without warning..
Painfully straight people seem to forget that attraction plays a part as well, they think that bi guys jump on anyone.. 🙄
It’s not always about just MM sex, the removal of the boundaries just adds to an intimate evening when the prospect of guys touching isn’t an issue..
We’ve had some quite revealing evenings where ‘straight’ guys from couples have started bi play without being prompted.
It’s the best of both worlds for us. |
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Agree with what's been said. Jusy becauser.swings both ways doesn’t mean he'll jump everyone. That includes women as well as men. The connection needs to exist.
We.also will.jever chamge our profile "just to get meets". We'll play straight, but won't with hostile to LGBT folks |
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I've had a fantastic meet with a
bi couple,it was quite a while ago but my god it was seriously hot
Started off by the guy's girlfriend telling him to get on his knees and start sucking my cock while I kissed his girlfriend and played with her pussy, she soon joined him on her knees both sharing my hard cock, looking down seeing them both sucking my cock was very horny
He then lay underneath her as I fucked her doggy,I kept pulling out and fucking his mouth then he guided me back into her wet pussy
Once I'd cum he cleaned my cock and then cleaned her pussy
Something id definitely love to do again  |
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"As others have said, if someone is anti-bi, it just helps us filter out the people we wouldn’t want to meet.
We have lots of straight friends we play with, who are totally happy that I’m not going to jump on the guy without warning..
Painfully straight people seem to forget that attraction plays a part as well, they think that bi guys jump on anyone.. 🙄
It’s not always about just MM sex, the removal of the boundaries just adds to an intimate evening when the prospect of guys touching isn’t an issue..
We’ve had some quite revealing evenings where ‘straight’ guys from couples have started bi play without being prompted.
It’s the best of both worlds for us. "
100% agree with the removal of boundaries part, this is us too. Mm play isn't really the focus of what we do but knowing there's not a line that can be crossed with the mm closeness just make it so much easier. |
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By *rmrs95Couple 8 weeks ago
Chester |
"As others have said, if someone is anti-bi, it just helps us filter out the people we wouldn’t want to meet.
We have lots of straight friends we play with, who are totally happy that I’m not going to jump on the guy without warning..
Painfully straight people seem to forget that attraction plays a part as well, they think that bi guys jump on anyone.. 🙄
It’s not always about just MM sex, the removal of the boundaries just adds to an intimate evening when the prospect of guys touching isn’t an issue..
We’ve had some quite revealing evenings where ‘straight’ guys from couples have started bi play without being prompted.
It’s the best of both worlds for us. "
Completely agree with this |
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"Agree with what's been said. Jusy becauser.swings both ways doesn’t mean he'll jump everyone. That includes women as well as men. The connection needs to exist.
We.also will.jever chamge our profile "just to get meets". We'll play straight, but won't with hostile to LGBT folks"
Agree totally |
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"As others have said, if someone is anti-bi, it just helps us filter out the people we wouldn’t want to meet.
We have lots of straight friends we play with, who are totally happy that I’m not going to jump on the guy without warning..
Painfully straight people seem to forget that attraction plays a part as well, they think that bi guys jump on anyone.. 🙄
It’s not always about just MM sex, the removal of the boundaries just adds to an intimate evening when the prospect of guys touching isn’t an issue..
We’ve had some quite revealing evenings where ‘straight’ guys from couples have started bi play without being prompted.
It’s the best of both worlds for us.
100% agree with the removal of boundaries part, this is us too. Mm play isn't really the focus of what we do but knowing there's not a line that can be crossed with the mm closeness just make it so much easier."
We had a group meeting once, about 10 of us....There was one straight guy amongst us. In the heat of the moment one of the bi guys touched his cock. He sprang up like he had been electrocuted and jumped off the bed! Totally destroyed the mood. So you are absolutely right. The lack of boundaries when all parties are bi, makes for a much less hassle free evening. |
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"As others have said, if someone is anti-bi, it just helps us filter out the people we wouldn’t want to meet.
We have lots of straight friends we play with, who are totally happy that I’m not going to jump on the guy without warning..
Painfully straight people seem to forget that attraction plays a part as well, they think that bi guys jump on anyone.. 🙄
It’s not always about just MM sex, the removal of the boundaries just adds to an intimate evening when the prospect of guys touching isn’t an issue..
We’ve had some quite revealing evenings where ‘straight’ guys from couples have started bi play without being prompted.
It’s the best of both worlds for us.
100% agree with the removal of boundaries part, this is us too. Mm play isn't really the focus of what we do but knowing there's not a line that can be crossed with the mm closeness just make it so much easier.
We had a group meeting once, about 10 of us....There was one straight guy amongst us. In the heat of the moment one of the bi guys touched his cock. He sprang up like he had been electrocuted and jumped off the bed! Totally destroyed the mood. So you are absolutely right. The lack of boundaries when all parties are bi, makes for a much less hassle free evening. "
Much rather play in a group where everyone was relaxed went with the flow and didn't feel freaked by any hand or mouth. |
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