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When you bring in a 3rd what do you say to them after you finished
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By *ynergy OP Man 11 weeks ago
Chelmsford |
Thank you come again? Haha no seriously after everyone's cum is it awkward after like thanks mate now you can go ?lol ? I'm asking as a first timer ? Me and my wife are looking to make this a reality this summer |
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So I've been brought in as a 3rd and what I've learnt from kink play is to do a debrief of things we liked, would like to try our is anything was uncomfortable or not as fun as was expected to be.
Snacks and drinks help but sometimes they want you away quick so it's a judge the situation sort of thing. |
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"Honestly I always thank single guys for fucking the wife x
Is that weird?"
Not at all, you've recognised the fact they were genuine, not wasting your time and most have acted within boundaries and scenarios that were set forth. |
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"So I've been brought in as a 3rd and what I've learnt from kink play is to do a debrief of things we liked, would like to try our is anything was uncomfortable or not as fun as was expected to be.
Snacks and drinks help but sometimes they want you away quick so it's a judge the situation sort of thing. "
Love the idea of a debrief, makes subsequent meets so much more enjoyable.
Also, is there a PowerPoint presentation? 🤣 |
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"Honestly I always thank single guys for fucking the wife x
Is that weird?"
Not in my experience. A good shake of the hand often too. Maybe as a sign of respect that the other guy is not a bullshitting wannabe like many on here? |
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"Thank you come again? Haha no seriously after everyone's cum is it awkward after like thanks mate now you can go ?lol ? I'm asking as a first timer ? Me and my wife are looking to make this a reality this summer "
set the ground rules, expectations etc before hand. hopefully avoid the negatives |
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I don’t really find it awkward at all. There’s normally a bit of a chat, there has been known to be a handshake which is nice. Depending on where we are either a club or at home there can be chance for a drink or a cup of tea depending. Also, sometimes round 2 if there’s time xx 😉 |
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By *ynergy OP Man 11 weeks ago
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"I don’t really find it awkward at all. There’s normally a bit of a chat, there has been known to be a handshake which is nice. Depending on where we are either a club or at home there can be chance for a drink or a cup of tea depending. Also, sometimes round 2 if there’s time xx 😉"
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Think it's a case of reading the room to be honest, I recently met with a couple and afterwards there was some kissing and cuddling with Mrs and chats, then left. Have been back with Mrs on her own since amd have plans in motion for another meet with her. |
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It depends on how much time you have. We have had “fuck and go” meets and also meets where we have long chats in between rounds where the guy is naked, I’m partially clothed in lingerie and hubby is fully dressed but it’s never been awkward  |
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"Thank you come again? Haha no seriously after everyone's cum is it awkward after like thanks mate now you can go ?lol ? I'm asking as a first timer ? Me and my wife are looking to make this a reality this summer "
my actual experience was when i was staying down south for a couple of days. got chatting to a couple, they said what they were looking for. but they couldn't make the first night and then let me know that they could on the second night if that was ok with me.
i met them outside the hotel to avoid any strangeness, went for a couple of drinks in the bar to settle nerves etc.
i gave the husband a room key, the wife and i went up together. fun was had and all was good after. |
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I was a regular for a couple. At first id judge a good time to leave but after a while the the chat flowed well after sex and the wife would be reluctant to let me go. I was fine with this but the husband realized she was getting feelings for me and nipped my visits in the bud.
Shame as she was beautiful and an amazing fuck! Hay ho! |
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As the person being brought in I have never had any awkwardness as we usually have a good rapport before meeting. After we tend to chat about the evening and generally, have a laugh and a cuppa and then I’ll go on my merry way to leave the couple to do whatever they like to do after such a meet.
If I was ever bringing a 3rd person in, I’d ask for a Mexican wave after 😁 |
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As the third it has varied with each couple. Some want you to leave straight away, some you sit around chatting naked and maybe go at it again, or maybe not, and others you get dressed and chat for a bit before leaving.
I've never felt awkward yet, hopefully none of them have either. |
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"Thank you come again? Haha no seriously after everyone's cum is it awkward after like thanks mate now you can go ?lol ? I'm asking as a first timer ? Me and my wife are looking to make this a reality this summer "
First time we tried it, the guest finished, said thanks and happy new year before leaving our hotel room. |
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We always try and get to know the guy on here a little bit first and once we feel comfortable set up a social. If after that things are all good for a meeting we make a first meeting a no hurry scenario. Chat first for a while before play. After all of this it makes things far more comfortable and relaxed after we are finished. |
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We only really have people join us at clubs... so tend to just leave... its not as rude as it sounds as we would all be leaving whatever room... or its in a group situation so possibly nothing is said when they leave only time we have had a 3rd as such, they have been good friends, so we laugh and go back to doing none sexual things |
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