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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? so why put straight on a profile "
This has been discussed often. People are free to identify how they wish to (and how they perceive themselves). A lot of bi guys won’t put bi as they think it will put women off. |
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By *luttTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? "
Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else
Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men |
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??
Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else
Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men"
I'm with option two..
I delete people with straight on their profile if they message me. |
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I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). |
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By *r X46Man 10 weeks ago
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). "
There are plenty of gay guys out there that would like to have sex with straight married men |
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight).
There are plenty of gay guys out there that would like to have sex with straight married men"
But if we're straight then the answer will always be 'No'. |
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By *_Mia_XTV/TS 10 weeks ago
Ilkeston |
People are attracted to femininity and therefore will message.
It also the biphobia that is really common also prevents people from being honest with who they are mixed with the fear of rejection from women and couples
Theres a million different reasons unfortunately |
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By *luttTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??
Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else
Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men
I'm with option two..
I delete people with straight on their profile if they message me. "
Well clearly in your case, because you’re a man! |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). "
mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??
Option one: they’re interested in anyone as long as they’re fem-presenting, and wouldn’t shag a man - thus more straight than they are anything else
Option two: they’re lying to fool women who won’t meet bisexual men
I'm with option two..
I delete people with straight on their profile if they message me.
Well clearly in your case, because you’re a man!"
and any genuine straight guy would look at you as a man genuine straight guys wouldn’t meet you for any kind of sexual play |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 10 weeks ago
Sitting on the table |
On the flip side you get "straight" men on here who ask their wives/a woman to wear a synthetic penis and fuck them in the arse.
Orientation labels on here should be taken with a pinch of salt. Some people change their preferences by the hour. |
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The whole “masculine stigma” of being free with your sexuality as a guy plays a big part in hiding behind being straight. I always thought of myself as straight but a few years ago became curious and acted upon his it…enjoyed it and occasionally scratch that itch, so to speak.
Do I now class myself as bi? If by the specific meaning of the label then yes, why should we all have labels? People have curiosities, and if they want to message a guy hiding behind a straight mask, then let them…they might be dipping their toe into a new part of themselves. |
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By *1974 OP TV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others "
And very well said |
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others "
I completely agree, but it happens.  |
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By *luttTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others "
If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others
If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. "
a man in a skirt is not feminine 😂 |
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others
If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. a man in a skirt is not feminine 😂"
Trans women in skirts are I find. I know as a trans woman I am feminine to general public mooching s out In mine / or bikini on beach / pool on holidays etc |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I get a lot of bi and gay guys messaging me - even though I'm straight (straight, straight).
Why?
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I think it's because some 'straight' men are actually 'Fab straight' & not 'straight, straight). mr here i don’t buy that fab straight crap you’re either straight or your not any guy that wants to meet another person with a cock isn’t straight . There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bi or gay so why lie to yourself and others
If you’ll only meet feminine people, then you’re not bisexual. a man in a skirt is not feminine 😂
Trans women in skirts are I find. I know as a trans woman I am feminine to general public mooching s out In mine / or bikini on beach / pool on holidays etc "
your one of the few that do look feminine from the waist up so hats off to you but there’s not many that’s put in as much effort as you have . You do look great but I still wouldn’t want sexual contact with you |
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ?? "
In a society that now has about 300 genders and sexuality why do we still just have straight, bi and gay?
I’d say men attracted to femininity, gynesexual, would be a useful sexuality option to consider.
By fabs strict rulings if a guy finds a pretty trans girl attractive but wouldn’t pump Sue Boyle then he’s gay…it isn’t quite so simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??
In a society that now has about 300 genders and sexuality why do we still just have straight, bi and gay?
I’d say men attracted to femininity, gynesexual, would be a useful sexuality option to consider.
By fabs strict rulings if a guy finds a pretty trans girl attractive but wouldn’t pump Sue Boyle then he’s gay…it isn’t quite so simple. "
It is simple tho Susan boyles a genuine woman trans isn’t |
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I mean this in the most sincere way possible and not to be taken as dig or insult. 2 things can be true at once even when contradictory. Take the trans ideology for eg. A guy who is a woman even when he/she isn’t . Not always straightforward. Again please don’t send missiles my way. I think get it out there . Discuss dont hate |
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"I’ve had a lot of guys who say they are straight but still message a cross dresser who is clearly bi why ??
In a society that now has about 300 genders and sexuality why do we still just have straight, bi and gay?
I’d say men attracted to femininity, gynesexual, would be a useful sexuality option to consider.
By fabs strict rulings if a guy finds a pretty trans girl attractive but wouldn’t pump Sue Boyle then he’s gay…it isn’t quite so simple.
It is simple tho Susan boyles a genuine woman trans isn’t "
You're free to believe that but not everyone agrees, so it's not that simple |
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