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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"
No I don’t think it does mean that but it might be a case of not every box has been ticked so undecided we’ve checked profiles that we really like but there to far away or looking for slightly different things |
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"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "
Not necessarily, could be there is something in the preferences of the profile that discourages a response, for example may say full swap and we aren’t in that space so I wouldn’t message or wink. |
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People may just like your pics and come back regularly.
Others may be checking out the competition
Others may be checking their “looked at” page and you are both stuck in loop
Many different reasons. Don’t really take any notice of the looked at. Do look at people who fab our content. And then if we are both online can happen more than once. |
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By *WANDTGCouple 12 weeks ago
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We have a joint account so we may view a profile more than once depending on each others views, we also may have added them to our hotlist especially if they aren't from our area but do visit at times. So gives the impression we are looking but for valid reasons. Simarlly it would be pointless messaging until they were local.
That's our take on the matter. |
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"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "
If people keep viewing then that’s different to a one off look.
A flyby look could mean anything from accidentally clicked on the profile to love it but too scared to reach out. Or a whole host of other things.
A repeat viewer is definitely interested but something is stopping them - lack of confidence, only one partner is interested, whatever. I find that reaching out to multi viewer often flushes them out one way or the other. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"That was our thought too, but they keep viewing us. "
I meant if they were viewing me OP. I won't pretend to know what it means for you. I fabbed a few in the mean time  |
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I’ve found a lot of people have revisited my profile but never message or wink or anything like that, would be nice if they did but I just think maybe my clips are helping them out, I really don’t know |
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"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?
I promise I won't look again. "
Feel free to look as much as you want and hopefully you won’t mind us doing the same. |
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"If you get viewed by a couple and they don’t wink, fab a pic or message does that mean they don’t like what they see?"
Definitely not the case for us! We look at plenty of couples we'd like to get in contact with - just might not be a good time right then! We don't send alot of first messages nowadays anyway 🙂 |
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