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Open to all,
When you're looking for a meet, not a social but a actual meet for sex do you have more success from the forums, browsing profiles, chat rooms, clubs,
or do you stick to tried and tested previous meets ? |
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"Open to all,
When you're looking for a meet, not a social but a actual meet for sex do you have more success from the forums, browsing profiles, chat rooms, clubs,
or do you stick to tried and tested previous meets ?"
Pretty miserable to be honest lol
A couple of our Veris are from meets off Fab the rest are clubs.
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By *MCMan 19 weeks ago
London/EA |
"I usually just update my status "
Slightly different success rate for single males with this approach😂 Unless I direct it to my friend list.
I prefer to message and speak with someone first so I’ll usually send a message. |
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"Open to all,
When you're looking for a meet, not a social but a actual meet for sex do you have more success from the forums, browsing profiles, chat rooms, clubs,
or do you stick to tried and tested previous meets ?"
a mixture of everything really. I don't religiously try to chase anything and have been lucky enough in most cases for the meets to naturally happen. That and I'm obviously gorgeous |
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Back when I was a single male on here my success came from talking and leaving open door offers rather than "sealing the deal".
I remember talking to one husband about his fantasy and "yes and.."ING details. We talked for weeks and veered off into other subjects like gym, rugby, computer games and all sorts. I was cool with nothing happening and just getting to know more of this awesome and open minded community.
Weeks later despite the fantasy talk he came back and said "talked it through with (wife's name) she wants to wank two cocks and watch them cum. What are you doing tonight?"
It was that simple in the end. Just getting to know people.
Major mistakes I've seen are: badly written profiles, single sentence or single word answers, trying to lead the fantasy into what you want and not what the couple wants, trying to get the wife and ignore the husband and finally and most importantly whining! |
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I haven't been looking to meet for a few years now but when I was it was always by messaging profiles and chatting for a while and then meeting socially.
I've never been to a club or used chatrooms and most of the group socials I've been to have been in the last five years when I haven't been actively looking to meet. |
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All my meets become regular FWB scenarios so I only search a new playmate maybe once or twice a year.
I'm in no rush as I'd rather have connection an quality over quantity.
I normally just search who is near, if we match what we are looking for I drop them a personalised message. |
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My last couple of meets have come from me messaging ladies. In the past I've had a lot of meets through forum interaction, it really is great for getting to know others without the formality and expectations that can be associated with messages. Whenever I've posted a meet in the meets section all I hear is crickets though  |
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As a single guy , you have to put the effort in.. make yourself available and do a bit of research so pitch yourself to the correct audience..and things tick over.
when I was on here as a couple.. it was much easier..just dangle a bit of bait out and pick and choose who to follow up with 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ |
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By *renzMan 19 weeks ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
As a single male, who's been on and off of the site over the years, I've found it easier to get meets in the earlier years. All from messaging, not from clubs or socials. I would meet between 6 and 10 new couples/single females a year which I was more than happy with. Now it does seem to be more difficult to meet others, but then I am also a different age demographic to when I first joined! |
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Only been lucky enough to meet with 1 lady so far. I think I'd looked a her pics like a few and we chatted we were open and honest about what we both wanted. Met for a drink and had a couple of meets at my place, unfortunately for me she has since taken a break for swinging.
I feel I could probably have more success if I put a bit more effort in and messaged more people but also feel like I'm pestering people if I do that so tend not to. Most of the messages I get are from single men and if that's what i was looking for I'd have no problem with meets, but it's not what I'm looking for.
Based on the amount of messages i do get from single men i can understand why ladies and couples don't always answer, but very much appreciate when they do even if it's just a no thanks. |
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"The best way Ive found is to take pictures of yourself. Having no photo or pfp doesn’t help yourself"
Not always the case as I don’t have pictures and still have decent amount of fun. Admittedly I used when first verified |
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I will usually ping a status out and look to see who has meets up. Regulars are always good and if someone was around then I would drop them a message.
I don’t tend to do clubs unless I have planned to meet someone there (see above  ). The forums are not a meeting place for me. |
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I’ve messaged a few that we’ve got on well in forums but it’s never developed further..yet.
All my meets have been profiles outside of forum users but in the local area, don’t think I’d be suited to a club environment. |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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The main battle I find on here and I guess it's the same for single blokes is the initial connection. Whether it's via forums, sending a message directly or dropping them a sly little wink, it's very hard to get that initial connection, having a natter to get to know someone before arranging a meet whether it's for a social or otherwise.
So based on my method of doing things it's a zero for me but I keep going as I know that there are many people on here to make lifetime friends with and who knows the holy grail of a fwb...
I live in hope they are out there |
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By *ounmacCouple 19 weeks ago
Market Harborough |
"Big big 0 now if u ask us about let downs dreamers time wasters way to much success "
We know that feeling let down twice already this week had a meet planned he bailed made other plans he was a no show.
We have found one or two but not many still hoping to find something someday … |
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The chatrooms in here are dire, I gave up on those years ago.
I've met two ladies as a direct result of forum interaction.
I've been to 9 clubs as a single guy, to a total of 19 visits overall. I won't be going to any others unless I have a meet arranged beforehand. Clubs are shite as a single guy...
I have (at time of writing) 4 lady friends I see regularly, and just use Fab out of idle curiosity, with half an eye on the potential for making new friends  |
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When I first joined Fab it didn't take long to browse a few profiles and get a meet for sex.
Now it hard and hard with so many time wasters and fake profiles. After that there is a lot of no shows.
Obviously clubs it's 100% getting some action.
Meeting it's 50/50 now.
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"Open to all,
When you're looking for a meet, not a social but a actual meet for sex do you have more success from the forums, browsing profiles, chat rooms, clubs,
or do you stick to tried and tested previous meets ?"
I just pick one from my burgeoning inbox |
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"When I first joined Fab it didn't take long to browse a few profiles and get a meet for sex.
Now it hard and hard with so many time wasters and fake profiles. After that there is a lot of no shows.
Obviously clubs it's 100% getting some action.
Meeting it's 50/50 now.
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I'll turn up lass.
I do find people just fade away after asking for pictures or saying 'what will you do to me'. I assume they have had their wank and had no intention of meeting. |
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