I didn't want a FWB but over time with one person it has deployed into a FWB. I would say we meet up every 3 months or so for a week of debauchery.
In the meantime I have FB's that keep me sexually satisfied.
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By *hoccaMan 13 weeks ago
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The way I see it is a fwb is a genuine friendship with sex included. Different from a FB where you may only ever speak to eachother for sex related activities.
Interns of frequencies
FWB: every now n then if you both happen to be free and horny at the same time:
FB: whenever your both horny but probably reach out to them first before I see what my fwb is doing 🤣
They might even be the same thing but that’s the way my brain differentiate them |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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Id much prefer this to one off meets, the sex is always better the more you learn about each others bodies.
Difficult to find though, especially with the ladies. |
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I had one. We saw each other once or twice a week.
We had a lot in common and liked each other very much and spent considerable time together.
This was the problem as it got harder and harder to stay detached. I had to end it as it was getting too hard.
I would say if you're lucky enough to find someone let them be nice but not somebody you have loads in common with.
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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "
would like enjoy fwb at wkends as and when suit be great fun but as you say hard to find for all
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The Mrs has a fwb who she has been seeing for about 10 years. They get together as often as they can but it's not always for sexy time. As mentioned it's a friend who she can have sex with when they both feel like it. It's the added extra bonus content.
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Strikes me the idea of a fwb is a relationship without the hangups of a normal romantic one. The sex is bound to be good and explosive, and push the boundaries that a normal relationship quashes? Or am a a mirangue? |
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By *ucka39Man 13 weeks ago
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Had few in my time, some we did everything else besides the sexual stuff like going clubbing, meet up casual drink or meal even out shopping just the norm
Some spend hours over the phone chatting as well, as we had built up a fantastic connection
How often would we indulge in sexually depended how busy we were otherwise few times a week |
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Considering I'm in male mode 98.777 percent of the time, then a fwb needs to get that my CD is only a fraction of my persona.
I would ideally like to have folk I can do other things with than just sex. After all that's what the definition of fwb is meant to be?
Cofffees, hikes, make up stuff when the mood takes, the odd trip away.
Not going ice skating with anyone though. I would be more stable mountain climbing in my highest heels than I would taking to ice skates again  |
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When I had fwb in the past, I was seeing them at least once a week. As for the definition, someone who on a mental level relates to your interests and is capable of stimulating your mind, share laughter and time together without developing deep feelings. |
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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb?
When I had fwb in the past, I was seeing them at least once a week. As for the definition, someone who on a mental level relates to your interests and is capable of stimulating your mind, share laughter and time together without developing deep feelings."
This is exactly what I'm looking for. |
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By *eliWoman 13 weeks ago
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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "
As often as works for both of us. I'm quite busy, already have people in my life. I'd say a fwb is where there's a real friendship there, fuckbuddy where it's sex based and little interaction aside from sex/organising it. I don't have any interest in fuckbuddies, does nothing for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Having had this before it can be amazing fun maybe once a week xx"
Have been one before...for 4years although could be calles lover as well. Used to see them 2-3 times a week...on her own and with hubby...was fabulous. Great friends outside of the bedroom too |
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By *adeiteWoman 13 weeks ago
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Trying to find a fwb seems impossible sometimes
I don't want to just meet and fuck. I wana hang out and chat shit and have a laugh too, ofcourse all of that can progress to fun if the moments right but that isn't the point of meeting them.
Maybe one day I'll get lucky again |
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I don't want to just meet and fuck. I wana hang out and chat shit and have a laugh too, ofcourse all of that can progress to fun if the moments right but that isn't the point of meeting them.
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This. The "Friend" in FWB is the important part...the benefits are just added bonus. |
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I don't want to just meet and fuck. I wana hang out and chat shit and have a laugh too, ofcourse all of that can progress to fun if the moments right but that isn't the point of meeting them.
This. The "Friend" in FWB is the important part...the benefits are just added bonus."
I completely agree, there's a much better bond and understand of life's situations |
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I'd love a gfwb. It's surprising how hard it is. Most ppl seem to want one offs, which can be great. As others have said though, the more you meet the more you get to know each others bodies.
Just my thought's. 🤷 |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "
I was very lucky and actually found one at work who happened to be on fab and introduced me to this site thinking that it would be a passing phase. We have become the very best of fwb and meet as often as we can and not always for sex. I consider her the best of me and we have got wach others backs, laugh at each other, eat and drink together but also know we are not exclusive....but always 100% honest about our thoughts or intentions. |
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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb?
I was very lucky and actually found one at work who happened to be on fab and introduced me to this site thinking that it would be a passing phase. We have become the very best of fwb and meet as often as we can and not always for sex. I consider her the best of me and we have got wach others backs, laugh at each other, eat and drink together but also know we are not exclusive....but always 100% honest about our thoughts or intentions."
Sounds perfect 👌 |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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I would like to meet a fwb and I think once or twice a week seeing them would be sufficient.
However I would love a friend first to build that connection and see what develops.
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I have one but we live so far apart that we are both looking for some one closer. I think she will find someone before me!
Ideally something irregular but once a week or there abouts.
Need to be close...but not too close... |
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By *wlmanMan 13 weeks ago
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"So many people want a fwb, it seems pretty difficult to find. If you had a fwb how regular would you want to see them? What would you class as a fwb? "
I had a fwb and we met once or twice a week until she moved to Blackpool. Did have a nice weekend away with her there after she moved but we realised that there was no way we could live together. |
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Fwb is great, you get to know each other more, and develop you sexual relationship, but for me, it's not just about the sex, sometimes if you have had a bad day at work for inst, sometimes it's. Ice to have someone there to chat with, also just to meet for a social drink or meal etc. |
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