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So.. a quicky in a club is fine sometimes, when you see that person or cpl you think " I want them"
But if you were to meet them again, what would be your preference.
All night. Long and slow.
Same again.
Something different.
Just curious as to how ppls sex mind works. 🤷 |
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"45 minutes to an hour is enough for us in a playroom. We'd be bored by all night, plus we've got other stuff to do! "
Yep. I get that totally.
I'm asking in the context of if you were to meet again outside of the club environment. I probably didn't word it very well. Apologies 🤷 |
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Actually club quickies can sometimes be a bit surprising when it's spur of the moment. Sometimes you can have a really hot and intense quicky with people who turn out afterwards not necessarily to be people you have much in common with with or to talk about with.
So depending how you get on outside of the bedroom really would dictate whether we wanted an all night thing, something else or an other quicky next time.
If club life has taught us anything always be willing to have your perceptions challenged about your selves and other people and to discover new things. And somethings just work well in a club dynamic where they would outside of the club. |
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"Actually club quickies can sometimes be a bit surprising when it's spur of the moment. Sometimes you can have a really hot and intense quicky with people who turn out afterwards not necessarily to be people you have much in common with with or to talk about with.
So depending how you get on outside of the bedroom really would dictate whether we wanted an all night thing, something else or an other quicky next time.
If club life has taught us anything always be willing to have your perceptions challenged about your selves and other people and to discover new things. And somethings just work well in a club dynamic where they would outside of the club. "
That's more or less the answer I was expecting ,as that's my perspective. X |
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"So.. a quicky in a club is fine sometimes, when you see that person or cpl you think " I want them"
But if you were to meet them again, what would be your preference.
All night. Long and slow.
Same again.
Something different.
Just curious as to how ppls sex mind works. 🤷"
I presume the club meet was good and that’s why you are meeting again…
But for me I’d want to make sure it was as good if not better (things do get better the more…well you get the idea). So I would be inclined to meet them again at the club have a chat flirt at the bar, take it to pool, sauna, jacuzzi (what ever the club has) to build up the sexual tension and then into the club for a play. If your happy things are going well and as good as you remember then ask them if they want to spend more time with you and invite them back.
Hope that helps. |
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My wife met a guy in a club who was invited into a private room with us, she enjoyed him, so arranged to see him again on our next visit. She had 2 sessions with him then. She follows this up a while later with a full night in a hotel with him. |
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"If we were to meet a couple outside of the club scenario then our ideal would be a social drinks etc then home to explore with plenty of foreplaying and swapping positions and partners  "
Yes. A much more in depth meeting so to speak.  |
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