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By *HUSH-Man 4 weeks ago
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I’ve done it twice solo. Say hello, be respectful, smile and go with the intention to just have a chat with likeminded people. If you need to have a drink to loosen up that’s fine but don’t get d*unk.
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Definitely. Just depends on your approach. If you go in like a zombie from the walking dead and creepily stalk women/couples around the club then no. Go in relaxed, have casual chats with no pressure/expectations and see where things lead - then it’s a great place to meet other people in the scene.
Certain events you may also be able to reach out to others attending to build some rapport beforehand 👌🏾 |
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"Hi all, just a quick one. Is there any point in going to a swingers club as a single male? Never been so thought I’d ask the experts  "
Definitely! Quite a lot of couples are looking for single males. We always make sure to choose an evening when single males are allowed so it’s a matter of choosing the right night or event xx 😘 |
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Definitely give it a go.
I suggest treating it as a regular night out. Be chatty, friendly and don’t make everything about sex.
We personally don’t arrange to meet single men but there have been times where single guys have chatted with us in clubs and we’ve been happy to let them join us.
Also, if you’re chatting to a couple - make an effort to include the husband/partner in the conversation.
We’ve spoke to guys before who act like Sean isn’t there and that automatically puts us both off.
Donna
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By *host63Man 4 weeks ago
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"Hi all, just a quick one. Is there any point in going to a swingers club as a single male? Never been so thought I’d ask the experts "
in my experience of going to clubs as a single man. Unless there is something exceptional a out you that stands out, or you are there to meet someone there specifically.
I will say no it isn't.
You will be charged double as a single man including the membership fee. Will most likely be ignored by the regular couples and new couples will mix with the regulars and you will most likely be pretty much frozen out. Even if you go there with no expectations and just want to say hello to people your likely to be ignored or treated with polite indifference.
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