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Do bi couples who say they are looking to meet a guy actually meet.
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"Lots seem to say they meet guys but they seem to be that elusive unicorn on here."
Just because they're on fab looking to guys, doesn't mean they want to meet every guy.
You can't be everyones cup of tea, not every profile on here wants to play with us |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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Many many many times. Its just hard with 1 meet wanted if 45 guys message all assuming they are going to get "the slot"
Distance, message content and general profile info all play a part, so does a nice smile and not brandishing your meat like its wronged you in your pix lol.
Unicorns always welcome though lol.
We have both had solo profiles here in the past and know how different it can feel from both sides.
Keep going OP |
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By *edhead72Man 15 weeks ago
Cheltenham and Ashby |
"Many many many times. Its just hard with 1 meet wanted if 45 guys message all assuming they are going to get "the slot"
Distance, message content and general profile info all play a part, so does a nice smile and not brandishing your meat like its wronged you in your pix lol.
Unicorns always welcome though lol.
We have both had solo profiles here in the past and know how different it can feel from both sides.
Keep going OP "
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By *ilkey69 OP Man 15 weeks ago
Barnsley |
"Lots seem to say they meet guys but they seem to be that elusive unicorn on here.
Just because they're on fab looking to guys, doesn't mean they want to meet every guy.
You can't be everyones cup of tea, not every profile on here wants to play with us "
Thats so true |
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Yes we do...but you have to understand that when we post a meet it's like opening the floodgates, and we can't meet them all, so of course 99% dont get the chance. We have to be very selective too, straight guys suddenly become bicurious at the thought of getting a chance and we've had occasions where they are bicurious up to the point of exploring and then suddenly become straight. So we can only choose from actual, proven bisexual men. And of course, on top of that with straight men only the woman needs to find them attractive, with bi men both need to find them attractive. It's not easy for the guys, and it's not easy for us either, but we meet them and due to our strict vetting we have had the best experiences with them too. |
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By *ilkey69 OP Man 15 weeks ago
Barnsley |
"Yes we do...but you have to understand that when we post a meet it's like opening the floodgates, and we can't meet them all, so of course 99% dont get the chance. We have to be very selective too, straight guys suddenly become bicurious at the thought of getting a chance and we've had occasions where they are bicurious up to the point of exploring and then suddenly become straight. So we can only choose from actual, proven bisexual men. And of course, on top of that with straight men only the woman needs to find them attractive, with bi men both need to find them attractive. It's not easy for the guys, and it's not easy for us either, but we meet them and due to our strict vetting we have had the best experiences with them too. "
Totally agree |
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"Not an easy meet on here but if you look at it from the couples side they are inundated with men. So it’s hard for them to see the wood from the trees also. "
This, never underestimate the amount of messages couples get. 😅
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"Not an easy meet on here but if you look at it from the couples side they are inundated with men. So it’s hard for them to see the wood from the trees also.
This, never underestimate the amount of messages couples get. 😅
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I do understand that but I've had several couples who have led me on long horny conversations, talked about meeting then vanished when it came to actually making a date. Of course, they may not have been genuine couples. |
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By *BCBWCCouple (MM) 15 weeks ago
Manchester |
"Lots seem to say they meet guys but they seem to be that elusive unicorn on here."
yea we meet couple where the Guy is Bi and they have sat watching us while we have had fun with the lady. |
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I do understand that but I've had several couples who have led me on long horny conversations, talked about meeting then vanished when it came to actually making a date. Of course, they may not have been genuine couples. "
I've had the very same thing happen on here as well.
What do they get out of it 🤔 |
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By *ilkey69 OP Man 15 weeks ago
Barnsley |
"Not an easy meet on here but if you look at it from the couples side they are inundated with men. So it’s hard for them to see the wood from the trees also.
This, never underestimate the amount of messages couples get. 😅
I do understand that but I've had several couples who have led me on long horny conversations, talked about meeting then vanished when it came to actually making a date. Of course, they may not have been genuine couples. "
And they say single guys are bad |
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"Yes we do...but you have to understand that when we post a meet it's like opening the floodgates, and we can't meet them all, so of course 99% dont get the chance. We have to be very selective too, straight guys suddenly become bicurious at the thought of getting a chance and we've had occasions where they are bicurious up to the point of exploring and then suddenly become straight. So we can only choose from actual, proven bisexual men. And of course, on top of that with straight men only the woman needs to find them attractive, with bi men both need to find them attractive. It's not easy for the guys, and it's not easy for us either, but we meet them and due to our strict vetting we have had the best experiences with them too. "
Absolutely this. We take alot of care before we invite someone into our play time - straight guys becoming bi, bi guys who think that being bi is all that is needed, cheaters. It can be a minefield.
It's worth the effort when it all comes together (so to speak), but unfortunately we have to put some blockers/hurdles in the way to out the fantasists, timewasters and the occasional nutjob x |
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"Yes we do...but you have to understand that when we post a meet it's like opening the floodgates, and we can't meet them all, so of course 99% dont get the chance. We have to be very selective too, straight guys suddenly become bicurious at the thought of getting a chance and we've had occasions where they are bicurious up to the point of exploring and then suddenly become straight. So we can only choose from actual, proven bisexual men. And of course, on top of that with straight men only the woman needs to find them attractive, with bi men both need to find them attractive. It's not easy for the guys, and it's not easy for us either, but we meet them and due to our strict vetting we have had the best experiences with them too.
Totally agree"
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