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By *te0151 OP Man 14 weeks ago
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Tried broaching the subject to get the Mrs throughs on the life and concept of swinging with a view to say let's have a go... Other posts in forum looking for some advice on the approach.
Anyway during the suttle chat she said her mates into swinging and her and her fella get people round of a site. Partially mentioned fab.
Question is do I find them, block and avoid or risk it and message them. I'm here without permission |
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"Tried broaching the subject to get the Mrs throughs on the life and concept of swinging with a view to say let's have a go... Other posts in forum looking for some advice on the approach.
Anyway during the suttle chat she said her mates into swinging and her and her fella get people round of a site. Partially mentioned fab.
Question is do I find them, block and avoid or risk it and message them. I'm here without permission "
become friends, keep your friends close and your enemies closer, what I mean by this is you'll always be one step in front of them in regards to where they're going. |
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"Tried broaching the subject to get the Mrs throughs on the life and concept of swinging with a view to say let's have a go... Other posts in forum looking for some advice on the approach.
Anyway during the suttle chat she said her mates into swinging and her and her fella get people round of a site. Partially mentioned fab.
Question is do I find them, block and avoid or risk it and message them. I'm here without permission "
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Really?
You’re really asking us if it’s a good idea to message your wife’s friend looking to meet? A friend who is clearly close enough to divulge details about her sex life.
How do you think that will play out OP? |
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"Really?
You’re really asking us if it’s a good idea to message your wife’s friend looking to meet? A friend who is clearly close enough to divulge details about her sex life.
How do you think that will play out OP? "
If he needs clarity, I would say not good! |
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There's playing with fire and then there's completely shooting yourself in the foot, I'd say it falls into the latters category.
Speak to your partner about it and see if it's something she wants to do and if it isn't, we'll that's another chat altogether |
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What did the rest of the conversation go like op? Did it just end, you got far enough to discuss the fact she has a swinger friend, was she interested or dismissive?
Either way it sounds like a recipe for disaster to seek them out before your Mrs knows.
Suggest you ask her to have a look together, but let us know rest of convo
Good luck
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Of course it could well be that your wife knows you are playing away and already knows you have a profile on Fab, hence the subtle mention of her friends situation.....
Either way, it looks like you're going to get rumbled at some point if you think messaging the friends is a good idea!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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She's either gonna find out about your profile....and you're stuffed.
Or agree to swinging, and promptly run off with a taller, richer, better hung stranger (who makes better decisions).
Or something.. |
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"Of course it could well be that your wife knows you are playing away and already knows you have a profile on Fab, hence the subtle mention of her friends situation.....
Either way, it looks like you're going to get rumbled at some point if you think messaging the friends is a good idea!!!"
This is exactly what I think has happened. |
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"Why don't you show your wife your profile....see if she wants to make a couples account.. 🤔
Reading between the lines she already has a single profile so it makes sense  "
Her mate probably helped her set it up  |
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"Really?
You’re really asking us if it’s a good idea to message your wife’s friend looking to meet? A friend who is clearly close enough to divulge details about her sex life.
How do you think that will play out OP? "
Honestly - men.... I have no words.... |
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Are you sure your wife doesn't know you're here? It sounds like she's dropping a hint to get your reaction. Either way the fact you're considering messaging her friend sounds like you're on borrowed time |
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