I don’t
Theirs a 90% chance your message will be declined or not even read. So I just read a prospective profile
Think of something wry, off-the cuff & hope they get my humour 🤞🏾
We always make an effort, usually something that lets them know we have read the profile.
We always respond to decent messages unless they are blatant copy pastes.
Depends what you consider making an effort.
Someone can put all the effort in the world into growing an extra inch or two. But maybe they should have read up on how possible it is first 💜
Best one is you send a nice detailed message as that is what ladies say they like, then they respond with the exact message they don't like " Hi you OK "