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What surprised you about your first meet?
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 this was like 5 years ago now | |||
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"I will follow this forum.. we haven’t had any kind of meet yet so will be good to hear… " • I suspect in your case it's all down to location and providence: it will happen, rest assured. Your profile stands out otherwise. Others could take inspiration from yours. 🩶💌 | |||
"Was it what you expected or completely different to how you thought it would be?" I was surprised by what a very dirty old man he turned out to be… and by how my wife responded to that… | |||
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"I will follow this forum.. we haven’t had any kind of meet yet so will be good to hear… • I suspect in your case it's all down to location and providence: it will happen, rest assured. Your profile stands out otherwise. Others could take inspiration from yours. 🩶💌" - Ohh thankyou for the kind words Nero, we are just taking our time to make sure we meet the right people for both of us and indeed with location, providence, planning most definitely needed.. but excited for things to come, one day  | |||
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  went there 3 times after too.
Wouldn't do it these days far too risky | |||
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"An absolute, 100% gold plated disaster. A social with what seemed on FAB as a lovely, level headed, 'normal' couple. A local pub, late afternoon, should be fine. All excited, knots in tummy, ready for the start of the great swinging journey. Grab a table in a quite area of the pub and wait for the entrance door to swing open. And fuck me, did it swing open !!! That's when it all started to go downhill... A couple turned up, it was obviously them. She donned a red PVC number, 4 sizes too small, like a sausage in a tight red skin. Maybe they couldn't count as their ages didn't seem within 20 years of that stated. He looked like my grandad and reeked of old fags. From there we noticed she was pissed, had poor dental care, he wheezed, had a smokers cough and his oversized suit had never seem the inside of a dry cleaners or a wet one. Due to the amount of alcohol downed she became louder and louder, heads turned, the odd chuckle and we couldn't wait to run away. We are nice people and felt an obligation to stay a bit longer, bad mistake. As the old saying goes, you live and learn. Did we learn, not sure what exactly but we did learn. Happily, we carried on, surely we couldn't meet a pair like that again and to be honest, we never have, seen a few at clubs and parties but we have learnt to give them a wide berth. If at first you don't succeed and so on.. Don't give up people, as in life, you always live to fight another day. "That's terrifying but also quite funny | |||
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"Errr what surprised me was how much personal info he blurted out post-coitally. I did not realise it was going to be a sex and therapy session 🫠" Guess you have a therapeutic “maiow”! Embrace that. One more thing in your arsenal in addition to Scrabble! | |||
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"How quickly i felt at ease and how I immediately knew that it wouldn't be the last haha!" Same for us. We've been very relaxed. | |||
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"Was it what you expected or completely different to how you thought it would be?" I thought he would turn up but he didn't  | |||
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"How much j wills enjoy if after 22 only being with my husband "That was meant to say How much i enjoyed it after 22 years of only being with my husband | |||
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